This May Seem Odd...please Some Answers Posted: 12-13-05 22:03pm
Ok guys, this may seem like an odd and
personal question, but I would appreciate
some honest answers. My bf and I have
been dating for 3 years and this past
weekend for the first time I gave him oral
sex. Since i've never done this I
obviously didn't know what to expect.
But I was expecting him to you
know...Come...A lot faster. Actually, he
never did. I did it for what I thought
was a long time and he still never got
off. I have always been told that most
guys finish after a minute or so their
first time. Is this true or is something
just wrong with him? Could he be nervous
and that's why he's not finishing or was I
just expecting it to be over a lot
quicker?
Sorry if this is an odd question, but I
can't exactly ask my guy friends as they
are all his and that would just be kinda
odd. Thanks guys!
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-13-05 22:53pm
Chances are he's just not use to the
stimulation; just give it time, and it'll
come (no pun intended).
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ergit
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Joined: 09 Dec 2005 Posts: 41
Posted: 12-13-05 23:55pm
No there is nothing wrong with him. Some
guys do come faster that way, but that
dosent mean that he will. I personaly
dont. So its perfectly normal.
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disabledcoastie
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Joined: 13 Dec 2005 Posts: 68 Location: West Virginia
Posted: 12-14-05 00:07am
Perfectly normal. Trust my your bf
enjoyed it. Next time try putting a
little more pressure with your tongue on
the underside. You said it was the first
time so the old adage is true practice
makes perfect :lol:
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ruemeridian
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Joined: 05 Oct 2005 Posts: 61
Posted: 12-14-05 14:14pm
Thanks for you help guys. Any other
advice anoyone wants to dish out?
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Human
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Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 89
Posted: 12-15-05 07:55am
Me and my buddies discussed this once.
Turns out some guys cum real quick from a
bj (me for instance) and others have never
been able to no matter how long it lasts
or how good it is. Don't worry it's
normal but do keep working on them oral
skills they really are a must in this day
and age.
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Pedro
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Joined: 15 Dec 2005 Posts: 35 Location: california
Posted: 12-15-05 13:30pm
Completely normal. Ive had a few blow
jobs, and in none of them did I cum. Some
guys just have more sensitivity.
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but then theres the other issue, that some
girls are more experienced ''sucking
dick'' so one might make the bj
more.....Intense. So he might come.
Ive never came getting a bj before, but
ive felt the diference of feeling from one
girl to the other
practice makes perfect!!!
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-15-05 15:42pm
Absolutely, everyone's sensitivity is
different. Considering it's also his
first time with oral, he might just not be
use to the stimulation yet.
