:( ive just found out im 4 weeks pregnant
its my first unplanned pregnancy we have 4
little boys and had a little girl in
may.Im a confident mum and love all my
children and dont particularly agree with
abortion.The condom split once during sex
and now its happened I dont know what to
do my husband says hell support me
whatever but due to very severe pubic
synphosis in my last 2 pregnancies my
friend says I should have an abortion I
went to the doctor today and theyve made
an appointment for an abortion on 3rd
january but I dont know if its the right
thing to do can anyone help?I understand
some people may think I should give my
baby up for adoption but I wouldnt even
consider this as if I put myself through
another pregnancy and all the pain in my
pubis I would just have to keep my baby
can you understand why I feel that way?
Last edited by taws on 12-15-05 14:57pm; edited 1 time in total
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hotty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 261 Location: texas
Hi There Posted: 12-15-05 14:51pm
Im sorry here to here what your saying,
but im not going to be harsh or anything,
but please if you do this it will haunt
you for the rest of your life please
consider giving up to someone that cant
have children, that would be the most
greatest gift to let life live and to give
your baby to someone else, god may forgive
you for what youve done, be haunting will
be there, and I would think that it wold
be another sibling to your other children.
Even though she or he will not be with
you. But please you can give it upi for
a adoption. Please consider, there is
woman who would love a child. And live
happy life, but then again I would
consider getting permamntly fixed to were
you cant have anymore children. God
bless you, and have a merry christmas,
:wink: :d
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diamondsz
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Posted: 12-15-05 14:58pm
I cant tell you what you should or should
not do but here is some advice
first off go with your heart on this one,
you already have 5 children and you would
probally need an extra hand because if it
that severe they will place you on bedrest
and you may need crutches as well.
Pregnancy isnt as nice as everyone believe
you always have this ache and pain or for
some of us get placed on bedrest (i just
got off bedrest) although I have a toddler
to look after as well. You need to think
about you here and how you can handle a
sitiuation if something goes wrong as well
as your family taking care of 5 children
on bedrest is almost impossible I dont
know how I did it with one.
Your health is important as well as the
childs but if the child imposes a threat
on your health and they cant save it then
you need to be healthy to take care of 5
kids. You have a choice here and dont
let anyone tell you your wrong cause I
completly understand ur dilema and they
probally dont they only see what they want
like selective hearing.
Wish you luck!
Jess
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sunshine424
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2005 Posts: 397 Location: New York
Posted: 12-15-05 21:23pm
First off, what is pubic synphosis?
If it is not life threatening than do not
abort. How would you be able to live with
yourself, knowing you have 6 children you
kept but the 7th was not worthy of life or
your love? You will regret it and wonder
about it always, i'm sure. This goes w/o
mentioning the fact that abortion is
disgusting, cruel, and inhumane.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 12-15-05 23:07pm
You might think of putting this on the
abortion section. You need to do what
you feel is the right thing to do for you
and do not let anyone tell you
differently. It does sound like you have
a very understanding husband, which truly
helps! I agree with you that going
through another pregnancy will be very
difficult, but again, your body, your
choice.
Good luck in your decision!
