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purpz28
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Location: Indiana
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Fertility Right After Birth...
Posted: 12-16-05 06:58am
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:?: my name is pennie and I am new
here...I am 29 years old. I have a son
who is almost 9 years...And I just had a
daughter on october 31st. I had found it
difficult to get pregnant before, I had
messed up periods it took us 4 years to
get preg with my son and I have been
trying since he was 2 to have another and
just now did. My question is how fertile
are you right after a baby. Here is what
I did and I am worried. I had my bleeding
after the birth like normal. 1st week of
dec I had my first period...Started on a
monday ended on the next mon...Had sex
tues...He got off inside me and then had
sex on thurs and he pulled out. I am glad
I had my baby but I don't really want
another one..How fertile do you think a
person would be on these times.
Pennie
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purpz28
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Posted: 12-16-05 13:53pm
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Can't anyone reply? Please :(
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sweet4jay
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Posted: 12-16-05 13:59pm
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Well, for one thing, every woman is
different, so it's hard to tell for sure.
You were stupid for letting him cum
inside you that soon after having a baby
and not being on birth control... You
should've never taken a chance like that!
Soooooo dumb! Are you going to be going
on any birth control? Cuz if you don't
want another baby right now, you should!
Ok, that's just my advice.
I've heard fertility can return within 2
weeks of delivering.
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purpz28
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Posted: 12-16-05 14:15pm
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Sorry to say maybe I shouldn't post here
anymore I can probably find a place that
people wouldn't reply by calling me stupid
or dumb...I thought I could ask a question
and not be judged.....Thanks alot
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sweet4jay
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Sorry, I Wasn't Juding You Pennie..
Posted: 12-16-05 14:28pm
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I'm sorry if you felt like I was judging
you, pennie, but I wasn't. I just
thought that a 29-yr-old would know more
about how a woman gets pregnant than what
you led on...So, are you on birth control
or what? Are you planning on going on
birth control?
By the way, I am a 27-yr-old married woman
as well, i'm not some teenager answering
your ?...
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sweet4jay
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Low Self Esteem?
Posted: 12-16-05 14:31pm
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Oh, also it sounds like you've got some
other serious issues, like low self-esteem
or something; maybe that's why you jumped
to the conclusion so fast that I was
judging you...!
That's something that a 13-yr-old girl
would do in jr. High school!
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purpz28
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Posted: 12-16-05 14:38pm
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Look I reaaly don't have self esteem
issues and I do know a thing or two about
women getting pregnant I just wasn't sure
how fertile you are right after giving
birth and I don't believe that people are
stupid for making mistakes becuase
everyone does. I was just curious.
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sweet4jay
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You're Not Stupid
Posted: 12-16-05 14:52pm
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Well, maybe you should talk to your dr
about your fertility issues. That would
be smarter than trying to find out from
somebody on a forum.
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purpz28
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You're Right
Posted: 12-16-05 15:04pm
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You are right about asking the doc and I
need no reply to this I am just going to
say that you can't just talk to the doc
any time sometimes you have to wait and I
am not the only one who asks people on a
forum for advice. It is just a little
help in the meantime until you can speak
to the doc. So please don't reply...I
don't want to continue this conversation I
can find a friendlier board at another
site thanks again.
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 12-16-05 16:05pm
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I am sorry you got "not such a nice
response" to your guestion!!!
Within 2 months after birthing one or
miscarrying one I was pregnant again for
like 5 years. I ended up miscarrying 6
babys and had 3 live births. So in my
case yes very fertile after birth.
As I was reading this, I was thinking
since it was so hard for you to conceive
this time, maybe this will be your only
chance to have a 3rd child. Maybe it is
a good thing!! Right? I know back to
back is really hard, but like I say it
might be, meant to be.
Good luck
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sweet4jay
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Not Trying to Be Mean!!!
Posted: 12-16-05 16:14pm
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Hello people! I was not trying to be
mean to her! I was just trying to help!
Besides, you can't read "tone of voice"
on forums! I was not being mean at all!
She's the one who got mad and started
freaking out saying I was judging her!
That is soooooooooo not true! I am not a
mean person! Most people would just have
laughed it off, but obviously pennie has
no sense of humor. Sorry...I have a
great sense of humor and do not wear my
feeling on my shoulders, nor do I get
offended easy! Relax and chill out!
Have fun & enjoy life! Jeepers!
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purpz28
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Ok Ok
Posted: 12-16-05 16:25pm
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Look to sweet4j i'm sorry if I took you
the wrong way this got out of hand. I
really do have a great sense of humor as
well but as you mentioned you can't read
tone of voice...I just took the words
stupid and dumb to heart I guess because I
was asking a serious question..Ok I am not
mad just was a bit offended no big deal.
And to fatfamily thank you for your
answer and you are right...About meant to
be but the only reasin I would be scared
of a third baby is because I have to have
c-sections and I don't know how many a
person can have without problems. I had
toxemia with my first and was on total
bedrest for 6 months and with this one was
a bit better but I had gestational
diabetes....Ended up having a baby that
weighed 9 lbs 11 1/2 oz.
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sweet4jay
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to Purpz28
Posted: 12-16-05 16:28pm
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Ok, no hard feelings here...
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chanee
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Location: detroit
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Posted: 12-16-05 19:55pm
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Hi purp I was reading the post she was
harsh to do the name calling thing
especially if she is 27ys old i'm 22 and
preggo with my second but only after 2
yrs.I think it all really depends on how
your body reacting after birth or your
hormone lvl etc.Btw you can post here
everyone is not mean and harsh as she.
Joanna(fatfamily)is very helpful so this
is good place don't let one rune your
posting here just my opinion good luck and
congrats on your bundle of joy children
are a blessing from god
chanee
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purpz28
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Posted: 12-16-05 22:57pm
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Thanks alot chanee I really appreciate
it....
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chanee
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Posted: 12-16-05 23:23pm
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Your welcome I just hate when ppl are mean
to ppl looking for help we are all women
no need to be harsh to one another were
adults we have children and we have to be
good examples you know but good luck and
don't listen to her kk
chanee
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sweet4jay
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to Chanee From Sweet4jay
Posted: 12-17-05 00:34am
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Hey, her & I got this resolved between
us & she realized I was not being
mean. It's really nobody else's
business...She's forgave me, i've forgave
her, I am a married woman, who's been
married almost 10 years, have 2 children
(8 & 3) & I really don't wanna
feel like i'm in jr. High school again,
k?????
Arguing is something I did 10 years ago,
not now...
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chanee
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Posted: 12-17-05 01:10am
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I'm not fighting with you about it I just
saw the post you two were typing and
decided to comment on it. That is what
this place is for.If that's your sense of
humor it sucks that's all i'm saying I
don't bicker and all of that ok but you
made yourself seem like your are in jr
high with the stupid and dumbs you said to
her.If you don't know words hurt ppl no
matter the age of the person so let's drop
it ok cause it don't matter she got the
good respectful advice she needed not the
smart remarks good luck to you and god
bless
chanee
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Tamadrummer
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Posted: 12-17-05 13:48pm
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I did not read any of the responses so if
this is here than you are reading a
repeat,
you are the most fertile after having a
baby! There is not a time that you are
more fertile and to top it off, many women
believe that nursing will stop you from
becoming preggers and it is a total myth!
Ask your ob and they can give you the best
advice but more likly than not, you were
instructed to not have sex for 6 weeks and
then the doc will give the go ahead and
also counsel and offer birth control at
that time.
-brian
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hollie686
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Posted: 12-17-05 14:14pm
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I can't believe some of the things I read
here.
I thought this forum was for help &
assistance - not a place where you are
called stupid or dumb or have someone tell
you that you have low self-esteem. That's
just wrong.
Purpz28 - if you ever have a question or
an issue that you need help with, you can
post here & most usually you will have
a nice response. And yes,
you can be fertile right after having a
baby. Just take things as they come &
if you are not pregnant (& don't want
to be) maybe your dr could give you
something, such as the pill. I hope you
don't encounter another response like the
one you got earlier - & I hope that
you decide to still post here if you need
to. Take care & good luck:)
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