Wanting Another Baby Against Husbands Will Posted: 12-17-05 02:16am
Hey all...I need some advice....My husband
and I have been having the "baby battle"
lately....We have a 3 month old right now.
My husband is currently deployed to iraq.
So we have been talking about having
another baby. He wants 3 kids but says he
wants to wait 5 years to have our next so
he can go to college, but I desperately
want another one...How can I convince him
to cum in me if im not on birth control?
I really would love another baby and it
makes me so sad im not going to get my way
without being off birth control and having
him ejaculate inside me. What should I
do?
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Malory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Dec 2005 Posts: 95 Location: York, England
Posted: 12-26-05 18:34pm
Sorry, I think your husband is right.
If he goes to college, he can get a better
job after and make more money, and then
you will be better able to give a child a
good life.
You don't bring a human being into the
world just because you want one.
You say you want a baby now. When the
baby is a couple of years old and acting
up and throwing tantrums, are you going to
decide then that you don't want it?
The baby you have now is only three months
old. You don't know what it's like to
raise one child yet, and you want to have
a second one already?
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Briony_S1980
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 20 Location: Australia
Posted: 01-26-06 06:13am
I assume you love your three month old
baby. An infant is so demanding of you
and they need your full attention for that
first couple of years. If you devote
yourself to this little one first then
think about another one when s/he doesn't
need you quite so much you might find
hubby changes his mind sooner than you
think. If I know anything about men it's
that they don't respond to nags or
pressure so let the point die so he can
think he came up with the idea. But for
now, concentrate on giving all that love
to your little one ok?
