I'm Afraid to Have Sex Again Posted: 12-18-05 14:33pm
So i've had sex about 4 times. The first
two times hurt really bad. I was sore a
day afterwards. The third time didn't
hurt on the outside or when he went in but
it hurt whenever he went really deep.
When he goes deep theres an intense
feeling inbetween pleasure and pain and I
don't know what to make of it.
However, we had sex again after the third
time and it hurt really bad. I'm am
extremely sore like I was after the first
time. I thought the pain would be gone
by now.
Is that normal to go in and out of
pain?(all the sex took place within a
week, it wasn't like I waited a while)
when he goes deep will it hurt the first
time?
Will I get used to sex?
Ahhh
thanks
Last edited by munky23 on 12-18-05 17:04pm; edited 1 time in total
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 12-18-05 16:24pm
If sex hurts it could be because you're
not really turned on enough. If you find
that you're not all that wet try using
some lube so he can get in easier. If
you're uncomfortable while he's really
deep he could be hitting your cervix.
This happens more if you're in missionary.
Maybe try a different position and see
what happens.
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munky23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 130
Posted: 12-18-05 17:03pm
I was completely turned on and wet for
sex.
I never thought he could hit my cervix.
But if he doesn't go deep I don't feel
much of anything.
Can condoms cause pain too?
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princessdiana7586
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 49
Posted: 12-19-05 14:28pm
Condoms can definitly cause pain. Even if
i'm wet condoms are just really
uncomfortable to me (and I have an
irrational fear of the condom falling off
inside me, lol) so sex with a condom is in
no way as good as sex without a condom.
My boyfriend and I found that the trojans
that are ribbed with lubricant (the gold
box! Lol) are most comfortable...But we
rarely use a condom...Even though we
definitly don't want kids...We should, but
my bc seems to be doing it's job just
fine.
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munky23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 130
Posted: 12-19-05 15:31pm
Thanks for the tip.
I don't want to use condoms but my doctor
said I can't start my birth control until
after my next period.
So we are stuck using them.
