I`m Dying to Get Preg And I Need Your Opinion Posted: 12-18-05 17:53pm
Hey! I`m 13 years old (14 in 4 months).
I`m laney. I`m dying to get preg but my
dad said he would send me off to an
underage preg home. I`m scared but still
want a baby. I want peoples opinions who
went through this or had a baby as a teen.
Help!
<3 bye
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Beep
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Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Music City USA
Re: I`m Dying to Get Preg And I Need Your Opinion Posted: 12-18-05 18:01pm
unknown_beauty
wrote:
hey! I`m 13 years old (14
in 4 months). I`m laney. I`m dying to
get preg but my dad said he would send me
off to an underage preg home. I`m scared
but still want a baby. I want peoples
opinions who went through this or had a
baby as a teen.
Help!
<3
bye
i'm 43, and I just have to know (i am so
curious!): why?????
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Kansas
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Joined: 13 Aug 2005 Posts: 93
Posted: 12-18-05 19:35pm
Having a baby is a huge life changing
responsibility. Do you really think you
are ready? Babies arent just cute little
things all the time. They keep you up at
night and poop thier diapers. They also
cost a lot of money. Do you have a job
and insurance to take care of your baby?
Maybe you could just babysit for someone
if you feel the need to be around a baby.
In my opinion 14 years old is a baby. I
think maybe you should wait until you are
older, have an education, and a supportive
husband.
having a baby is a huge life
changing responsibility. Do you really
think you are ready? Babies arent just
cute little things all the time. They
keep you up at night and poop thier
diapers. They also cost a lot of money.
Do you have a job and insurance to take
care of your baby? Maybe you could just
babysit for someone if you feel the need
to be around a baby. In my opinion 14
years old is a baby. I think maybe you
should wait until you are older, have an
education, and a supportive
husband.
i agree x
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xenacat
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Dec 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 12-19-05 14:59pm
I sound like a parent and this will sound
like a lecture, but you will not be doing
any favors for any baby you have at your
age. You need to think about what is
best for the baby and not what you want
before you have one. If you have a baby
now, you will be handing that child a
disadvantaged life from the get - go.
Even if you are mature for your age, you
are not mentally, or emotionally mature
enough to care for a baby the way a baby
needs to be cared for. Taking care of a
baby is hard even when you have
independent financial and emotional
support - which you don't have. Rethink
this. You have so much life to live
before you have children. Keep this
feeling in your heart and when you are
really ready, you wil be a great mom.
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Debb75
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Joined: 12 Dec 2005 Posts: 250
to Unknown Beauty Posted: 12-20-05 02:49am
Are you serious? Please go and enjoy your
childhood and leave this forum. You are
too young to be expose to such
information. Hang around pple your age,
please!
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Butterfly_05
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Joined: 05 Dec 2005 Posts: 72 Location: Ohio
Please!!!! Posted: 12-20-05 18:32pm
You have got to be kidding me. You are
only 13. When I was 13 I didn't think
about sex or much about boys. You need
to get some professional help. Maybe you
need to talk to someone about your urges
to have a baby. You need to live you
life before you decide to give it up.
You also have no right coming to this
forum where adult women are having
difficulty concieving and all you are
concerned about is getting sent away to a
teen parent house. This is not a joke.
You wont be playing house. You cant just
have a baby play mommy for a while and
then decide that is just too much for you.
You really need to get your priorities
straight. Wait till you have graduated
high school, get a college education, and
meet a wonderful man who you will love and
have childern with. Don't throw your
life away.
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tia020405
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Dec 2005 Posts: 10
Posted: 12-22-05 22:22pm
Where was your dad when you were writing
that?! You are too young to even be on
this site, and too young to be exposed to
this type of information much less have a
baby! Go and be young, have fun. I spent
most of my teen years trying to be an
adult, I regret it.
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 12-23-05 15:40pm
Your body isn't even finished developing.
My little cousin just had a baby at 15
and she and the baby almost died because
of complications.
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Malory
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Joined: 26 Dec 2005 Posts: 95 Location: York, England
Posted: 12-26-05 11:38am
You think you are lonely now? If you have
a baby you will have to spend all your
time taking care of the baby. You won't
have time to be with your friends.
Also, how do you plan to pay for your
baby's food, clothing and medicine? You
are too young to have a job. And who
will take care of the baby while you are
at school? A newborn baby has to be
watched 24 hours a day.
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 12-26-05 12:31pm
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Malory
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Joined: 26 Dec 2005 Posts: 95 Location: York, England
Posted: 12-26-05 13:39pm
I am also concerned that you say you feel
very lonely. Is there a counselor or
someone else that you could speak to about
that? Having a baby won't make you feel
less lonely, but there are ways to deal
with your loneliness, if you can talk
about it.
