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Q: Not Ready to Have a Baby!!

asked by: LindsayBear on December 18th, 2005

New User

I am new here...I actually came on here originally to look up symptoms of pregnancy.....
My boyfriend and I very stupidly had unprotected sex..A couple of times!!! ........He withdrew before he came, but I know you can still get pregnant from his pre-cum.......Anyway........So.....I have not missed my period yet....But.....I have lately been feeling pressure in my pelvic region. I have read on some sites that this is sometimes a symptom of pregnancy! Has anyone else had a similar experience?? I am too young to have a baby!! But I know I would never forgive myself if I had an abortion...I don't know what to do....I am 23...And I guess some people would consider that not too young, but I am not prepared to have a baby...My boyfriend and I are not even on good terms...We fight a lot...And I still live with my parents...And they are conservative republicans who would homicide me if I were pregnant....What should I do???? Help please.....Thanks...............!!!!
-very scared and nervous!!

Replies(3)

lil_blaze2004

replied on December 19th, 2005

Moderator

Firstly if you do not want a baby, stop having unprotected sex. My son is here cause of the withdrawal method.

Secondly, wait to see if you miss your period then test. Try not to stress as it can make your period late. Pelvic pressure could just be a sign of a period coming.

diamondsz

replied on December 19th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Omg

have any of you ppl taken sex education
with any type of intercourse you can get pregnant with elisa I got prego on withdrawal but we said if it happens it happens as for my lil boy I was on the pill you are never 100% guranteed not to get pregnant......

Like lil blaze said dont stress and wait till ur period comes but hun use protection

jess

michelle1981

replied on December 19th, 2005

Supporter

When are you due to have your period? Are you having any other symptoms?

I know ppl get caught up in the heat of the moment, but this is your wake up call....... If you have to carry condoms around with you, please do!

I hope all works out for you!

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