Please Share Your Advice / Tips If You'd Like - Help. Posted: 12-19-05 22:29pm
So i'm a teen in high school, lots of
friends, great girlfriend. She's
interested in sex (oral, vaginal, etc.)
and so am i. We've done stuff like she's
manually stimulated me (idk if "j*rk me
off" is allowed on the site) but no oral
or actual sex yet.
So the problem is here. I'm a virgin
(no thats not the problem). She wanted
to give be oral in my car one time but I
wasn't really feelin it cause my car is
small and cramped. So I didn't get
hard and we passed on it. Then another
time we tried again in the car and I still
couldn't get hard. I don't know if its
nerves or jus being in the car. I have
no problems masturbating, I mean I get a
pretty good erection, nice and hard and
i'm comfortable with my size, and in her
bedroom she jerked me off no problem, but
when she tried to give me oral in the car
I couldnt get it up. Is it fear of not
being able to get it up again, is it
simply because doing it in the car turns
me off, is it a combo of both, or
something else? Any advice would be
helpful.
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Human
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 89
Posted: 12-20-05 06:59am
Combo of both, don't sweat it and it'll go
away
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 997 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 12-20-05 13:41pm
I agree, it's a combo.... You are
probably not only worried about "getting
it up" or being good and what not, but
also about people seeing you if you're
doin' it in a car. But the car could
also be a turn off to you for you
(especially if you're worried about people
seeing you). Nerves play a huge role in
you being able to get and maintain an
erection.
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