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fatfamily02

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This Is Fatfamily--i Finally Got a Dr Appt
Posted: 12-19-05 22:30pm

I have finally got a .Dr appt for my pregnancy. Come to find out we have a hospital here--county hospital and university that has outpatient clinics and maternity is one of them.


I told them my story and I told them if I can just "prove I am indeed pregnant" that I could get medical care for it. They said it's okay--we can just bill you, and when you get medicaid just call and well, charge to them. Yeah!!!

The one nurse did say "that it is possible not to get the .H.C.G" to come out if it is ectopic pregnancy. (which mine is--since it is 'outta place' in my abdomen) she also said "why dint the hospital do an ultra sound??? And the other nurse told me too high risk pregnancy have to go to university of washingtom medical center. It is one of the top 10 hospitals in the united states---kewl huh??


I am so happy--dec 28th they got me in for. Pretty fast--and she was apologizing for waiting that long--nine days --i cant wait.
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sweetbabyrae

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Posted: 12-19-05 22:37pm

So you have an ectoptic pregnancy? Im sorry to hear about that! I hope all goes well. Sounds like you are able to get care for it...I thought though, that for an ectoptic it was kind of an emergency to get it taken care of? Anyway..Good luck to you!
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-19-05 22:54pm

I have known from the beginning that if dr's could find the baby--they would try and kill it or take it out. I was prepared for that and told them when I did go in that "they better not touch my baby"

but I have as of yet gotten one to listen to me--cuz the .H.C.G did not come out--even though I told them I feel it move and I feel the heartbeat.

So I finally got a .Dr's appt to be seen. For prenatal care and possible ultra sound of my baby's. I believe it is 2 for I feel 2 seperate body's. I am 25 weeks pregnant in my abdomen. Not in the tube--everyone just assumes tubal--when a person says ectopic--but ectopic can be on ovary, in the tube, on the cervix, on other organs, or even on the bowel. I believe they are attached to my ovary's and surrounding organs.
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sweetbabyrae

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Posted: 12-19-05 23:00pm

I see. How can you tell that there are two different babies? I wouldnt be able to do that!!
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-19-05 23:13pm

If they were just in your abdomen you would. I have felt everything. Felt the bag around 5 weeks past ovulation--7 weeks pregnant. I felt movement before 9 th week. That baby was laying right against my skin. Baby was almost in rib cage by 10 weeks. It is totally different than baby in uterus. Totally different.


I feel one baby laying on my left side--mostly towards the top of my skin. The other one I feel in my back. (on the right side) I feel his head arms and body moving about just below my shoulder blade and downward. When I put too much pressure on them, I feel like little bones poking me and I change positions. They have both layed sideways in my belly at one time or another. But now they dont have enough room to flip different sides. I feel like one is kinda head down, while the other on my back is head up.


It is completely different--but I havent really got to explain too much. Very painful and if someone touches my stomache anywhere- I feel like puking and almost pass out. The baby on my back has hurt my ribs on back and my body is deforming to make room for them. My ribcage is outta shape and hugh. Way different from normal.
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Posted: 12-19-05 23:39pm

Wow, that's craziness that you have two babies floating around in your body. Definitely one hell of a rare thing to not only have an abdominal pregnancy, but twins too. I know with abdominal pregnancies there are tremendous risks to you, and i'm sure those risks are higher with two babies developing. I sure hope you'll be okay and your babies will be okay too. I have only ever heard of one case of an abdominal pregnancy being carried to term, so hopefully your babies will be delivered safely and in good health.
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-20-05 00:17am

cambion wrote:
wow, that's craziness that you have two babies floating around in your body. Definitely one hell of a rare thing to not only have an abdominal pregnancy, but twins too. I know with abdominal pregnancies there are tremendous risks to you, and i'm sure those risks are higher with two babies developing. I sure hope you'll be okay and your babies will be okay too. I have only ever heard of one case of an abdominal pregnancy being carried to term, so hopefully your babies will be delivered safely and in good health.


yes, thank you here are some intersting facts I have gathered about it.

http://speedy-affiliate.C om/proofofabdominal.Html

links for true cases--not a finished work--some repeats--notice .A.B.C news --this one hit the news on sept 27th of 2005

http://speedy-affiliate.C om/links.Html
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-20-05 08:04am

Thats right!!! Thanks
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-20-05 08:10am

Yes, me too. The first clinic I called said, we cant see you here--go to university of washington, too high risk we can't see you here.
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Posted: 12-20-05 09:44am

That's good joanna, did you tell them you have no uterus or did you not say anything?
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-20-05 14:16pm

lil_blaze2004 wrote:
that's good joanna, did you tell them you have no uterus or did you not say anything?


yes, I did tell them. That is why they say it is too high risk. And the nurse also confirmed that in ectopic .H.C.G doesnt always come out. They also asked why the hospital did not do u/sound. They said they should have done one!!! I said---right!!

But they just called me back and said they cancelled my appt. And I will have to get medical then see a dr to be referred to them.

She didnt even care. I said this is university of washington---the appt I have on the 28th---she says yes, I cancelled it---i said thanks and hung up---


if my husband continues to get his unemployment(which I think his ex-boss just messed that up for him) we make just a little too much to get medical. Unless I prove I am indeed preg. And I called the clinics they say I am too high risk to see me!!! Whatever---never ending circle that has no door.

I told her, I am 25 weeks preg with no pre natal care---i started to cry---now my heart s hurting---cant get stressed.

Now you are all gonna think im lying---im not I swear ---they are treating me like this.
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Posted: 12-20-05 15:27pm

Well all I can say then is medical care in the u.S.A absolutely sucks!!!! If you're in seattle, drive up to british columbia and go somewhere there!
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Posted: 12-20-05 16:57pm

I agree with you about medical care sucks! It's not like the lady isn't paying them to do the tests. I think she should be taken care of and told exactly what's going on with her body! If it's high risk, can she go to the er and have them do the test? I can't believe that they would just turn you away like that! Maybe there is another place like lilblaze said to try. Good luck to you. There is obviously something going on with your body and you need to be able to have the care you need.
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-20-05 19:21pm

lil_blaze2004 wrote:
well all I can say then is medical care in the u.S.A absolutely sucks!!!! If you're in seattle, drive up to british columbia and go somewhere there!


yes I am in seattle---never been in another country lol

do you have to have passport to go into canada??

Right by ya(canada) here!!!
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Posted: 12-20-05 19:23pm

If you went there and they set up an appointment for you because they did not want to mess with thing because of high risk, they cannot cancel it. I've read more about abdominal pregnancies, and there was even a show on discovery health last night about them. One woman was pregnant for 46 years and they finally removed the baby when it was calcified.

By law they cannot turn you away. They know there is always a chance for pregnancy when you still have your ovaries and tubes, whether you have a uterus or not. I would go back in there, demand them to do an ultrasound. Make sure you tell them that if they refuse to do one or treat you, if you die, your family will own them and the hospital.

Abdominal pregnancies are nothing to mess around with. Since the baby cannot attach itself to the uterus, it attaches itself to organs. If the body "rejects" the baby being there because it doesn't recognize and knows nothing is suppose to be on there, it will release it. Which means it will stop the blood supply to the baby/babies and you will be bleeding internally which could also kill the mother.

If you are 6 months pregnant, in about another month the baby/babies will need to be removed and put in the icu. They take the babies out at around 7 months because the body cannot handle a child growing full term in another place than the uterus and causes things to rupture.

If your husband is on unemployment and you do not work, you are able to get medical assistance. It does not matter how much unemployment he gets, you will still get a medical card. Might have to pay a deductible, but you can at least get into a doctor instead of going to the er. My mom made almost $100k a year at a job, was laid off and got a good chunk for unemployment. We still got medical cards, just had to pay a deductible, which is billed later.

I have read all of your posts but decided to stay quiet about them. Now things are starting to get serious with you being closer to 7 months, you need to start putting more effort into things. Not just for your baby/babies health, but yours too. You all can die if you don't try hard enough.

Instead of saying "thanks" and hanging up, you should've thrown a fit. If my life and my childrens would've been in danger, I sure as hell wouldn't have said thanks and hung up. So storm in there, throw a fit, and faint if you have to.

You say you're a woman of .God. But .God would not do this, the devil would. But .God is much more powerful, isn't he? I'm sure .He would forgive you if you told a little white lie just so they can attend to you so you all don't die.
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-20-05 19:58pm

Thank you for a decent reply--seriously

i did throw a fit first. I was on the phone for awhile and all she wanted was to tell me she cancelled my appt. It was the other low cost clinic that told me they couldnt see me for it was too high risk---they told me to call this hospital and I did.

I have been to .Er 3 different times...And they quit as soon as they realize .H.C.G is not present. (even though it is proven that .H.C.G doesnt always show up with ectopic pregnancy) but if that is what I will have to do---i will go again.

You dont understand though. I am in horrible pain most of the time from pressure in there. I cannot sit straight up even to go to the toilet--i have to stay in a leaned back position and the car doesnt work too well for that. I have pain while laying most of the time now too--for the baby's lay and put great pressure on my back. It is not like just jump up and go in the car anywhere anymore. And when I am experiencing pains really bad all I want to do is find some way to get comfortable.

So.... Sitting at the .Er for 6 hours like last time is not even an option I plan to endure again. That is why I am trying to get someone to see me, so I can "prove" I am indeed preg, so I can get medical for this. I do throw a fit---and that makes them offended with me, and they are less responsive to me then.



I am seriously trying to get help though. Emails to the clinics, phone calls, email to malpractice lawyer, I am trying---i know I need to go in now---it is time. And if they dont do something other than .Er visit---that is what I will do.


Oh and my own grandmother had a petrified(calcified fetus) fetus for over 25 years in her uterus. Still having periods and what signaled them to do something she started bleeding every 2 weeks. I also have a link for abdominal pregnancy. The lady said pregnancy was fine and then nothing. She said she had been pregnant 3 years ago.
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Posted: 12-20-05 20:35pm

I understand that you are in pain, especially reading and hearing others stories. But you need to do whatever you can, which means lying since they don't want to believe you. Tell them you think you have a tumor or cysts that is huge, let them feel it (which they will feel the babies), they will do an ultrasound. I had a couple small cysts on my ovaries, and 2 days later they had me come in to have a u/s done.

I didn't mean for you to take any of that offensively. I mostly wanted some of the other girls to read that so they can *possibly* understand more as these things do happen, actually happening more often now days (now about 1 in 100 can have an abdominal pregnancy). I don't care for arguing with people over a forum that much, which is never really why I posted a while back with seeing your posts. But now that it's gone on longer, things are a lot more serious. The only things I don't understand is how you really got pregnant.. If they removed your uterus, means they closed up your cervix, making it impossible for sperm to fertilize the egg. Unless they messed up and didn't seal it all the way.. But you'd think you'd be bleeding a lot of that were the case. Still, anything can happen if it's meant to be.

If you have to, call 911 and request an ambulance. Tell them you think something just burst in your stomach. Anything. Anymore when it comes to going to the er, you have to over exaggerate to be seen in a prompt manner. Just do not tell them about your pregnancy, since all they will do are a urine and blood test and send you on your way. It's amazing to me that these people are actually telling you to leave and go home without doing any further tests to why your stomach is getting bigger. Even if it turned out you weren't pregnant after all of this, it is a serious health problem that needs looked at, and they're looking past that.

Good luck with everything. And don't forget to lie if need be to be seen.
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fatfamily02

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Posted: 12-20-05 20:43pm

You did not offend me---i was pleased with a productive--response, with support behind it!!! Thank you

yes, I will do something soon you can count on it. By the time I was suppose to go for appt. Which would have been the 28th. I was so happy they were gonna help me, and I could actually get my meds back and get to see my baby's like everyone else gets too.
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Posted: 12-21-05 01:22am

I believe that anything's possible and no one should never question the work that god is capable of, but joanna, you're making it kind of tough. Like some others, I have read your posts and have never responded, because I never wanted to say anything that would hurt your feelings. I have seen on the discovery channel and on talk shows that it is possible to carry a child outside your uterus, I hate when people say hurtful things to you, but when I am cheering for you, you come back and say something that take that support away.

The charity hospitals and clinics in the area that I live, do require that you have a confirmed (positive test) pregnancy, before they start the prenatal visits, but I have never seen where the charity hospitals turn someone down because of what they are telling them what is going on with their bodies. If anything they would be running tests to prove the person wrong. There is also a situation as: tmi(too much info), when instead of letting them tell you what is going on, you're telling them. I have read soooo many of your posts, i'm to the point of researching on how much it would cost for you to go to the doctors and sending you the money to have the pregnancy confirmed.

I have had (4) high-risk pregnancies and I know that it is important that you are monitored by health officials on a regular basis, for the health of both the mother and child. In one of my pregnancies, my case was transferred from one doctor to another because of the high risk, so I know that much that you're saying is true. Hospitals can be sued if they refuse to treat a patient, if only to prep them to be transferred to another facility.


I have never seen a person to be that large at 25 weeks as you are in those pictures and I am a large girl also, we tend not to show as much as others who are smaller. If you are pregnant, maybe you are carrying twins, or if you're diabetic, it's a "sugar baby", but if it's either one of those you should be running to the doctor's.

You should not be looking for anyone approval here, you should be looking out for the welfare of your child(ren) and yourself. No one here can do anything for you but offer an opinion either good or bad. Really this have turned into a "soap opera" to me, I cannot wait to see what's going to happen next. You do seem to have so much compassion towards others, but is not showing any for yourself or your family if you allow for this pregnancy to kill you. What good would you have served then? You seem to be so well read on other topics for others, use some of that to help yourself. I believe that you are on the internet enough to have research ways of receiving help for yourself.


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if you have the opportunity, read this:

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illusion or hallucination? Cholecystitis presenting as pseudopregnancy in schizophrenia
jeffrey m. Benzick, m.D., neurobehavioral sciences flight, wilford hall usaf medical center/university of texas health sciences center at san antonio, texas

key words: schizophrenia spectrum disorder • pseudopregnancy • pseudocyesis

to the editor: pseudopregnancy as the presenting sign of a medical illness is a rarely reported psychiatric condition. However, it has been reported in association with alcohol-induced liver failure,1 systemic lupus erythematosus,2 abdominal neoplasia,3 persistent corpus luteum,4 pituitary tumor,5 and hyponatremia.6 there is only one reference to pseudopregnancy as the presenting symptom of abdominal surgery—in that case, the patient swallowed open safety pins.7 a nonpregnant woman presenting with a fixed, false belief that she is pregnant is often diagnosed with pseudocyesis. However, in these cases the disorder of thought content is limited strictly to the insistence on being pregnant despite medical evidence to the contrary. As this patient's disorder was likely an extension of her underlying schizophrenia, it would not correctly be categorized as pseudocyesis.8 I present here the case of a patient who presented with a false pregnancy and offer a discussion of the misinterpretation of physical symptoms by some psychiatric patients.


Case report


ms. W., a mildly obese african american woman in her late thirties, presented to the emergency room (er) screaming with pain, stating she was 9 months pregnant and about to deliver. Both the er physician and the obstetrics resident examined her. A quantitative b-hcg and an ultrasound were obtained. The results of both studies were negative. When ms. W. Was told she was not pregnant, she angrily cursed at the er staff, claiming that they were colluding in a plot against her and her baby. On physical examination, she appeared of stated age with a significantly distended abdomen. Ms. W.'s umbilicus was inverted, and she had normal bowel sounds. No abdominal palpation was documented. Gynecologic exam revealed no other changes associated with pregnancy. The remainder of the physical examination was unremarkable. Psychiatry was consulted. Ms. W.'s medical records indicated a long history of schizophrenia treated with trifluoperazine (stelazine), a typical antipsychotic. As she persisted in her belief of pregnancy, she was admitted to the inpatient psychiatry unit.

On further interview, ms. W. Persisted in her belief of being pregnant. She stated she had been pregnant 10 or more times and that "doctors from space" would somehow remove these children from her belly while she was asleep. Ms. W. Did not know the name of her outpatient psychiatrist and did not know the last time she had taken her medication. Mental status exam revealed a neatly dressed and groomed woman who spoke with normal rate, volume, and prosody. She had very mild suppressible lip smacking, otherwise no abnormal psychomotor activity. Ms. W.'s thought processes were circumstantial and her thought content was dominated by the aforementioned delusion. She was without suicidal or homicidal ideation.


On intake physical examination, ms. W. Had a murphy's sign (pain on inspiration during palpation of the right upper abdominal quadrant). A right upper quadrant (ruq) ultrasound was ordered; however, the evening before the study ms. W. Experienced an episode of extreme abdominal pain and was returned to the emergency room. Once again, she believed these were labor pains. A ruq ultrasound showed evidence of cholecystitis and several gallstones. Ms. W. Was scheduled for cholecystectomy. When it was explained to her that she had an inflamed gallbladder as the cause of her pain, she did seem to finally accept that she was not pregnant. Ms. W. Did, though, express that she hoped the surgeon would "look around inside just to make sure."


discussion

the most common physical signs present in women with false pregnancy include abdominal enlargement, menstrual disturbance, quickening, a history of infertility, breast changes, weight gain, galactorrhea, cervical softening, and uterine enlargement. The mechanism of abdominal distention in false pregnancy is unknown, but theories have included excess bowel gas, gaseous uterine distention, fecal impaction, bladder retention, or abdominal wall muscle spasm. In contrast to a normal pregnancy, the umbilicus remains inverted, in the abdominal distention of a false pregnancy (as in ms. W.'s case).9

there is value in distinguishing hallucination from illusion, particularly in working with a chronically mentally ill population. Hallucinations are false sensory perceptions that have no basis in actual external stimuli. In other words, hallucinations are completely a construct of the patient's mind. For example, visual hallucinations do not disappear when these patients close their eyes—hallucinations are a creation of the mind, not of the eyes. Illusions, though, are misperceptions or misinterpretations of very real stimuli. Ms. W. Suffered from severe pain secondary to an inflamed gallbladder. As do many patients with schizophrenia, her mind created an explanation that made sense to her. This involved incorporating her physical pain into a bizarre delusion. Ms. W. Had abdominal pain, and pregnant women have abdominal pain, therefore she concluded that she was pregnant. It did not occur to ms. W. That she had not missed any periods or not gained any weight in the past 9 months and that pregnancy was unlikely.

Psychiatric patients frequently suffer from medical conditions not detected on their first evaluation. Psychiatric inpatients have associated medical disorders on admission 24% to 60% of the time, and the referring providers fail to diagnose these ailments almost half the time. Schizophrenic patients, in particular, have concomitant medical illness up to 80% of the time.10 on review of 52 cases of false pregnancy, I found that only 2 of the cases specifically mentioned the examination of the ruq (i.E., no hepatomegaly or murphy's sign)—despite presentation to physicians with significant abdominal complaints. Given this information, physicians should consider creatively the possible etiologies of patients' fundamental complaints or their observed behavior.

Psychotic patients do their best to explain their symptoms given their limitations. In this case, ms. W.'s pain was an illusion, a misperception of a very real condition. Future research in the perception and treatment of pain in schizophrenic patients is warranted. Functional imaging can be applied to see if schizophrenic patients process painful stimuli in the same anatomical areas as control subjects. A discrepancy might suggest deficits in specific processing pathways, like the dominant hemisphere lesions observed in some patients with conversion disorder or somatization disorder.11 clinicians should be wary of significant underlying medical illness in patients presenting with false pregnancy or any other state in which reality testing is impaired and should perform thorough physical examinations—particularly in light of any specific physical complaints.

The views expressed in this article are those of the author and do not reflect the official policy of the department of defense or any other department of the united states government.


Http:/ /psy.Psychiatryonline.Org/cgi/content/full /41/5/450
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if this is not the case, i'm sorry and forgive me, if it is seek help, before it harm you. Stop trying to make others believe you and start helping yourself.


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fatfamily02

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Why??????
Posted: 12-21-05 01:38am

We were having such a nice time, I cant deal with more.............

I have been telling .God's story in my life, and I have that right!!!!!
I dont need anyone's approval--i know im pregnant--dont need ya'all opinions to give me faith, or approval. If I were going by everyone's opinion---i would be in great trouble

what do you want me to say---""""all these neglectful .Dr stories--it is all a lie. And I am so confused. I must be mistaken, the flipping flopping kickin body's inside of me must be giant worms.---yeah, that must be it!!!"""

praise .God, for .He is good. **** thank you .God*****


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