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zEdwin
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I Need Your Help And Suggestion People About Fingering
Posted: 12-19-03 04:20am
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Please help me.........Me and my
girlfriend had an agreement before that we
won't have sex until marriage because we
are afraid of pregnancy...But we do oral
stuff and handjobs, fingering and that is
all. This happened on dec 5th...I first
did oral with my girl friend then after
that she gave me a handjob, before
ejaculating I always ready a tissues in my
hand for it not to spill out....Then I put
the tissues in my penis when I was about
to ejaculate ...After the event I saw that
my right hand had some semen and I wipe it
off with the tissue of semen....Then we
went to the bathroom and I throwed the
tissue at the trash.....After that event I
don't remember if I washed my hands or not
but my girlfriend always washes her
hand.....Then I went to brush my teeth
then use the towel after that, then went
to drink a glass of water and plugged the
dvd player to the tv because it was not
set......After that we got hot again.....I
gave her oral again then I fingered her a
little and then I realize of what happen
if ever washed my hands or not, then I
rushed to the bathroom to wash my hands
properly then continue on what I was
doing.....Right now I am really scared if
I got her pregnant or not .....She has a
irregular period, her period cycle last 2
months ago was october 4 then on november
13. Maybe its because she has a goiter
problem that is under medication for the
past few months....I am freaking out right
now I don't know what to do her period
hasn't come yet ....I tried surfing the
net for days and have not found a case of
women get pregnant of fingering, but some
said that there is a possibility......Im
really confused
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saturn24
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Posted: 12-19-03 04:47am
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Unless you came on your hand and
imediately put it into your girlfriend, I
would really not worry. Sperm usually
dies off very quickly after coming out.
( I couldn't think of any other way to say
it) the chances are very slim.
But just to let you know something else
about the whole fingering thing. You
should have washed your hands before
getting hot again. Women can get all
kinds of infections from just the
slightest amount of bacteria. Just to
let you know.
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-19-03 10:53am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-30-04 14:48pm; edited 1 time in total
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zEdwin
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Posted: 12-19-03 12:16pm
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Thank you for replying insurancegirl and
saturn24, you really made my day 
..........But right now I am praying that
she gets her period the bad thing here is
that she has an almost irregular
cycle....Maybe its because of her goiter
which is found out months ago and she is
under medication for treatment for her
goiter.... 
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jezzica04
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Posted: 12-19-03 12:55pm
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Yea I agree it was too long to get her
pregnant. Sperm usually die within a
minute or less so don't worry. I
guarantee that shes not pregnant at all.
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-19-03 13:03pm
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Yeah your fine. Thats way too long for
you to have your sperm live to get her
pregnant.
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zEdwin
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Posted: 12-19-03 13:39pm
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Thank you for all the reply  .........Just to
give all the details.....The event where I
brushed my teeth etc.... Took around
15-25 minutes, and also the way I fingered
her I didn't go all the way in because I
know it hurts for her part and she is
still a virgin, only rubbed it a few times
then realizing it, majority of what I had
done was oral sex to her........Hope she
could have her period 
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-19-03 13:41pm
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She will, dont stress about it. Dont have
her stress either, because then it will be
late. Good luck
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-19-03 13:45pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-30-04 14:48pm; edited 1 time in total
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zEdwin
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Posted: 12-19-03 13:59pm
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Actually she doesn't know anything about
this......Its just me who is stressed out
and worried.......2 days after the
incident she had a whitish fluid coming
out of her vagina...I think this is
vaginal discharge., this happened to her I
think when I gave her oral before
also....Then the other day she told me
when she tried to pee she had a little
cramp maybe trying to urinate by force
then the other also her back has a little
pain and told me that the remote control
of the tv was at her back while she was
sleeping till waking up., right now her
back is okay and no complains about
cramping...This things made my mind
worrried and am panicking the whole
time....Thank you for all the replies and
supports that you are giving me
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-19-03 14:13pm
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Discharge is normal. But things will be
fine. Just dont think about it. Think
about other things and her period will
come. They are always late. I know im
always about a week to two weeks late.
Its just how they are. You should have no
problem since her period is already
irregular.
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glitter8370
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U Guys..
Posted: 12-19-03 16:53pm
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Hey guys r all saying sperm dies right
after ejaculation... Not true sperm can
live up to 5 hours... I wouldnt worry
though.. U touched alot of things after
doing this.. So I doubt ur gf will get
pregnant
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saturn24
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Posted: 12-19-03 18:41pm
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Well if you want to get that technical,
you are wrong. They can live up to 72
hours. But what we are saying is since
his hand came into contact with a lot of
other things and it is not like he came on
his hand and put it all up into her, then
the sperm would die quickly.
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-19-03 18:54pm
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But wouldnt it dry up after a few hours?
I mean lets say he came on a couch or
something (example) and about 3 hours
later, is should dry up right? Like all
flaky? Im just asking so I know, im not
saying your wrong or anything! Just
curious!
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zEdwin
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Posted: 12-21-03 11:09am
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Hi, im back again and am still waiting
.........And still can't get it out of
my mind, just want to ask if many people
got pregnant because of this kind of cases
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 12-22-03 09:41am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-30-04 14:49pm; edited 1 time in total
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zEdwin
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Posted: 12-22-03 23:33pm
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Thank you again for replying insurance
girl, thanks for giving me hope 
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saturn24
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Posted: 12-23-03 04:07am
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Nikki, you are right about the drying out
part. Once they dry out they are dead.
They live up to 72 hours if you take an
actual sperm sample and cover it and keep
it at room temperature. I only stated
that on here because one of the posts
wanted to get technical, so I got
technical... Lol.
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 12-23-03 11:16am
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Oh ok! Lol thanks! Thats what I thought.
Like once its all dried up its dead! Lol
thanks again!!!
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angelica buono
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Posted: 12-24-03 02:53am
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The chances are like less than slim, but
if she is late and you are anxious about
it, just get a home test. Even though in
your case pregnancy is super unlikely, it
would maybe make you feel better to see a
physical negative result
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