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ineedhelp16
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Location: pennsylvania
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Help Please!!!
Posted: 12-20-05 15:42pm
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Ok...I'm really freaking out. About 3
days ago my boyfriend and I had sex. I've
been on birth control for my irregular
period for about a week and a half. He
was only inside of me for about 10 seconds
at most because I started bleeding (my
hymen broke, it was my first time) and he
didnt ejaculate inside of me. But i'm
still worried....I really need some advice
on this that would be great! Thank you!
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kenashra
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Posted: 12-20-05 16:08pm
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You are more than likely not pregnant.
It's best to use protection though.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 12-20-05 16:15pm
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You are protected after using birth
control for 7 days continuously.(everyday)
you are protected, but as an added measure
condoms are highly effective at giving an
extra peace of mind.
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ineedhelp16
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Posted: 12-20-05 16:28pm
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I'm also cramping....Not really bad...I
usually cramp before my period...My period
is due in a week...Is this a bad sign?
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ineedhelp16
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Posted: 01-17-06 17:21pm
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Ok well my period came...I also took two
tests though because I wasnt sure if it
was just implantation bleeding. But my
period was really heavy though which is
normal for me but it only lasted for about
4 days. The two tests I took came back
negative and I took them in the morning.
I know this sounds crazy but I think I
might still be having symptoms...Such as
tender breasts...Headaches and I have had
to use the bathroom alot. I dont know
what to think at this point....Does
anybody have an opinion?
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sweetbabyrae
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Posted: 01-17-06 21:22pm
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I highly doubt you are pregnant. Your
symptoms are probably due to your period.
I would consider using protection from now
on. Good luck
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karlisle
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Posted: 01-18-06 17:24pm
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The headaches, short period, tender
breasts and all that are all side effects
of the pill. And just because you're
on the pill doesnt mean you should be
having sex... And also def still use
condoms.. You dont want any stds..
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ineedhelp16
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Posted: 01-23-06 17:46pm
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Ok well ...Yeah I really doubt i'm
pregnant..I've taken 2 early response
tests and 2 clear blue tests and all 4
came out negative. I'm waiting for my
period to come this week. But I always
have to use the bathroom...Like crazy
frequent urination! It's really
odd...It;s like this weird "orgasmic"
pressure I guess you could say. I dont
know what it is...I dont have an std
because this was the first time both of us
have had sex and hes not infected.
Everyone tells me its stress....Does
anybody have an opinion? Is this common
after the first time you have sex? Just
wondering......
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liwikiwi
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Posted: 01-23-06 18:55pm
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Most of the stuff is probably just from
starting b./c and losing ur virginity
good luck though
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cooperdooper
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Posted: 01-23-06 22:38pm
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Chill out your not pregnant. First off
atfer 7 days (if you started the sunday
after your period) then your completely
protected. And if he was only in you for
about 10 seconds then that wasnt enough
time for him to cum or even pre cum so
your fine. I used to freak out just like
you about this stuff id go out and buy
pregnancy tests all the time thinking I
was pregnant. My tip of the day set an
alarm on your phone that goes off at the
same time everyday that'll remind you to
take your pill everyday at the same time
and then the worrying will stop. After
all that worrying in the beginning I dont
even give it a second thought anymore.
And my period comes on the same day every
month to confirm. Lots of love.
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Cambion
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Posted: 01-24-06 01:57am
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The pill can do some weird stuff to your
body. Some women will experience no side
effects, while others will think they're
pregnant because they feel every last damn
side effect. When I was on birth control,
the first 2 weeks into the pills I gained
6 pounds, my breasts grew noticeably, and
I felt nautious in the morning. It will
play some tricks with your cycle too -
might make your period come earlier,
later, or not at all. It could make your
period longer, shorter, heavier, or
lighter.
I think you're just fine and that you're
just stressing out. Try to relax, and
definitely invest in some condoms and
spermicide if you're going to be sexually
active. Protect yourself as much as
possible if you want to take that step in
your relationship so you won't freak
yourself out again.
| Quote: | | like crazy
frequent urination! It's really
odd...It;s like this weird "orgasmic"
pressure I guess you could
say. |
i get that "orgasmic" pressure as well
when I need to use the bathroom. I have
no idea why it happens, but i'm not
complaining xd.
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ineedhelp16
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Location: pennsylvania
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Posted: 01-25-06 17:33pm
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Thanks so much for for your comments.
They helped alot! And yeah i'm not
pregnant cause my period came on time this
month and its heavy like normal...So i'm
all good! :-) haha no way am I going to
have sex again before marriage...I dont
think I could go through this again!
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
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Posted: 01-25-06 19:41pm
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You need to cut that out.... U arent
pregnant I dont think ur pregnant and u
have nothing to be freaking out about. Im
sorry if I sound rude with what I say but
im kinda tierd of people doing really
stupid things and then freaking out cause
they might be pregnant. If you dont want
a baby there are ways to prevent it. Get
on bc and wear a condom.
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sarahmarie
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Posted: 02-03-06 04:31am
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Hahahahaha, I know whats going on, the
exact same stuff happened to me and I was
freaking out. (the 'orgasmic' peeing
especially) I went to my doctor, and I
found out I had a bladder infection. Its
nothing bad, but you might wanna go see ur
doc and get some meds or it prolly just
get worse. :)
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sarahmarie
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Posted: 02-03-06 04:32am
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Hahahahaha, I know whats going on, the
exact same stuff happened to me and I was
freaking out. (the 'orgasmic' peeing
especially) I went to my doctor, and I
found out I had a bladder infection. Its
nothing bad, but you might wanna go see ur
doc and get some meds or it prolly just
get worse. :)
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orlylover15
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Location: Maine
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Re: Help Please!!!
Posted: 02-03-06 20:32pm
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| ineedhelp16
wrote: | | ok...I'm really freaking
out. About 3 days ago my boyfriend and I
had sex. I've been on birth control for
my irregular period for about a week and a
half. He was only inside of me for about
10 seconds at most because I started
bleeding (my hymen broke, it was my first
time) and he didnt ejaculate inside of me.
But i'm still worried....I really need
some advice on this that would be great!
Thank you! |
i seriously doubt that ur pregnat. I mean
u were on birth control... It probably
would of bean good to use the rubber
though.
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ineedhelp16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: pennsylvania
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Posted: 02-07-06 21:52pm
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Yeah I went to the doctor and the
gyno...They did a urinalysis and
everything came back normal...And both
doctors said that its not anything
serious...So I dont know what it
was...Stress maybe...But its getting
better ...Its practically almost gone
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ineedhelp16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: pennsylvania
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Posted: 02-12-06 18:05pm
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Ok well...The orgasmic pressure and peeing
thing hasnt stopped...Its been over a
month. As I said before they did a
urinary analysis and everything came back
normal. I also went to the gyno and she
checked to see if anything was pushing on
my bladder and it wasnt...So does anybody
have any idea what this could be? Are
there infections that they cant tell you
have from a urinary analysis? I bled alot
after having sex...Is that a problem? Do
you think its from birth control? Any
opinions would be great...I have no idea
whats going on with my body! Please
help...
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ineedhelp16
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Posted: 02-12-06 18:07pm
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And I also forgot to mention that it's not
an std bc it was the both time we have had
sex and hes not having any problems...Also
there is no burning...Itching..Pain
whatsoever
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ineedhelp16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Location: pennsylvania
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Posted: 02-16-06 15:47pm
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Somebody please help......I'm freaking out
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