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kitty2luv
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Location: with my love
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How Do I Get Him to Love Me Agian
Posted: 12-21-05 01:00am
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Me n my ex have been broken up for 11 days
n its hard. I love him so much how can I
get him to forgive me ? I need help
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Spanky2005
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Joined: 30 Jul 2005
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Location: Philadelphia
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Posted: 12-21-05 01:05am
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If you feel it was your fault and you miss
him, the simplest thing is to call him up
and tell him to forgive you...
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 12-21-05 12:14pm
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I tried to ask him to forgive me , he
doesnt want to right now , he wants to be
alone for a while . But I am scared he
wont want me back :(
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kev000
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005
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Location: California
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Posted: 12-21-05 13:46pm
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Well, it might take a little more time,
and it also depends on what you might have
done to hurt him. Do you mind me askin
what happened?
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
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Posted: 12-21-05 14:04pm
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I treated him like crap . I made fun of
him , health forum*d and him for
everything he did wrong n he got tierd of
it , n I know he still cares if he didnt
he wouldnt call me or wouldnt pick up the
phone when I called him . Im been trying
to give him some space n its hard I spent
9 months w/ him and I love n care about
him , n u being a guy what do u think I
should do to get him back ?
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poohbear101
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Joined: 30 Nov 2004
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Posted: 12-21-05 17:09pm
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I think you should respect what he wants
and give him his space. Stop calling for
awhile and stop begging to be taken back.
You said you treated him like crap and
that everything he did wasn't good enough
because he was always wrong. No one wants
to be treated like that from the person
they're with and no one can blame him for
getting tired of it and leaving. Just let
him know that when he decides that hes
ready to talk that you'll be there and
leave it at that. Let him have his time.
You can't make anyone love you and if he
decides not to take you back yeah its
going to hurt but it's not something you
can force a person to do.
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kev000
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Location: California
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Posted: 12-21-05 18:01pm
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| kitty2luv
wrote: | | i treated him like crap .
I made fun of him , health question*d and
him for everything he did wrong n he got
tierd of it , n I know he still cares if
he didnt he wouldnt call me or wouldnt
pick up the phone when I called him . Im
been trying to give him some space n its
hard I spent 9 months w/ him and I love n
care about him , n u being a guy what do u
think I should do to get him back
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honestly, you have to show him that you
will treat him differently. And you have
to give him time. I agree that you
shouldnt call him all the time, maybe just
2-3 times a week, just to let him know you
are still there and you still love him and
are willing to change. That is really all
you can do. There's no way you can get
him back, he just has to come back to you.
So give him something great to come back
to. I wish you the best, as I am in a
similar situation, and I hope you find
happiness.
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
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Location: with my love
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Posted: 12-21-05 22:21pm
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Thanks so much . I have been giving him
cards telling him I love him n I am
changing for both of us because I didnt
like who I was n it took the 1 I love away
, n I am willing to do n e thing to get
him back , I try not calling him which I
have been getting better @ I tell him to
call me b4 he goes to be if he dont call
by 12 I call him but that only happend
once . I know he cares if he didnt he
wouldnt pick up my calls or call me , so
im giving him some space but I need to
learn how to give him more .... Thanks
again
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jales500
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Posted: 04-28-08 20:34pm
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tell him u can't stay without him and that
will be the last wrong
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Larlen
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Joined: 27 Jul 2007
Posts: 71
Location: New York, United States
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Posted: 04-29-08 07:50am
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giving him space is the best thing to do.
When I came to the forum and posted my
situation thats what everyone told me to
do and I admit at first it was very hard
and after 1 day I contacted him but then I
went two days and kept busy and did 3,4,
until it has been about 3 weeks now and
the funny thing is he's the one contacting
me now. So just give him his space and be
patient. Find things to keep busy with and
most of all try to discover who you really
are and can be without him Change your
look, catch up with friends and family,
and just go out. My realization came to me
one day while walking to the store. I
looked around and saw it was a beautiful
spring day and I said to myself: all this
happend and Im stuck in bed like the world
stoped - but it didnt. Everyone is still
living it didnt stop for me. Im going to
be happy!
I know its hard and even though your
reading this is will be hard but with time
everything gets better. I wish you all the
best a if you need to talk feel free to PM
me.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-30-08 07:29am
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Please do not bring old posts up. Thanks
guys!
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Larlen
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Posted: 04-30-08 07:35am
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what exactly do you mean? (assuming that
your referring to my post)
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-30-08 11:00am
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This post is from 05'. The person above
you dug it up and I just wanted to let
them know they shouldn't do it. I didn't
expect you to notice because I have done
it at times.
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Larlen
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Location: New York, United States
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Posted: 04-30-08 12:05pm
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Oppss I wonder how shes doing these days .
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-30-08 12:12pm
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I read through it and was wondering the
same thing actually.
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Larlen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2007
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Location: New York, United States
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Posted: 04-30-08 12:20pm
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Im going to PM her and see . . .
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