Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 1 Location: shelby north carolina
I Need Dating Advice Please Help? Posted: 12-21-05 09:37am
I am a 23 year old male and I work with a
22 year old girl who has a 2 year old son.
I love her very much,but when I ask her
out she always has an excuse. She is
single and just got out of a 6 year
relationship with the childs father about
2 months ago. I want to date her and she
knows that, but I am having a hard time.
We are good friends but I want more. She
calls me sometimes and she always me to do
stuff for her like washing her car on my
days off. Can anyone help me I would
greatly appericate your help. Thanks.
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curiousitykilledthecat
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 15 Location: Chicago
Female's Perspective... Posted: 12-22-05 13:09pm
I don't want to be rude so i'm going to
try to put this as gently as I possibly
can: get over it and move on! It sounds
like she doesn't want to hurt your
feelings by straight up rejecting you.
Instead, she knows you like her so she is
using you to do the "man chores" since her
baby father's no longer around to do them.
Get a clue and leave her alone, she is
playing you for a fool. If you want to
continue the friendship with her, stop
asking her out and letting her take
advantage of you.
Then again, it may be too soon for her to
jump into a new relationship when her last
one just ended. In which case, give it
some time, but don't pressure her. Either
way, just let her be for awhile. If she
wants to be with you, she will come around
to it. She knows how you feel about her
so let her make the decision for herself.
