For all you pro-choice who feel a baby is
an inconvenience to your career:
"the best way for a person to have happy
thoughts is to count his blessings and not
his cash."
- anonymous
take it how you will.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 12-21-05 12:37pm
Not all babies are blessings for all
women. A rape victim will not call a
pregnancy a blessing. A woman on birth
control trying to avoid pregnancy will not
always call a pregnancy a blessing.
Sorry, but I am truly happy with my life
the way it is.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 12-21-05 15:52pm
I count every day that I don't have
children as a blessing. Next point?
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sandyallen
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Posted: 12-23-05 01:15am
That is for sure, all children and babies
are not a godsend just look at some of
them. I count my blessings that women do
have a choice in abortion and voting and
that women can still be treated like
women, in some cases.
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sunshine424
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Posted: 12-23-05 01:20am
carifairy
wrote:
not all babies are blessings
for all women. A rape victim will not
call a pregnancy a blessing. A woman on
birth control trying to avoid pregnancy
will not always call a pregnancy a
blessing. Sorry, but I am truly happy
with my life the way it
is.
you missed the point completely. You seem
to value money most in your life. I just
think that is sad as it truly is the root
of all evil.
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sunshine424
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Posted: 12-23-05 01:21am
poopoopoo
wrote:
i count every day that I
don't have children as a blessing. Next
point?
you also find joy out of the actual
procedure of abortion, ripping and sucking
of human flesh. Next point?
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sunshine424
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Re: Quote Posted: 12-23-05 01:21am
whatisupwiththat
wrote:
and what should "she" count?
I count my blessings every day that I
am not forced to carry an unwanted
pregnancy to term for your anti female
views.
.H.A.H....Yea, you would!
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Carifairy
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Posted: 12-23-05 12:59pm
I place value on many things in life, and
my ability to not live off the government
through medicaid, welfare, food stamps
ect.. Without a job or career I could not
afford the basic necessities in life!
I value many things in life. I value my
relationship with my fiance', and the fact
that my soon to be mother in law likes me
and is happy that I am part of the family.
I feel blessed(and value) that I found
someone is so wonderful and caring, who
doesn't hit me, and we do not fight. I
value my nursing career, because I enjoy
helping the elderly and women so very
much. (i have worked in nursing homes
too.) I value other peoples health and
well being, it makes me feel humbled that
I helped to create a healthier living
situation for someone. Here I am healthy
and successful, why should I not share
this? I donate to charities, and help
women out. It is the most amazing
experience to help someone else out, to
see a person feel relieved that they can
recieve help.
I value so much in life, much more than
you know.
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Tylanas
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Re: Quote Posted: 12-23-05 23:12pm
sunshine424
wrote:
whatisupwiththat
wrote:
and what should "she" count?
I count my blessings every day that I
am not forced to carry an unwanted
pregnancy to term for your anti female
views.
.H.A.H....Yea, you
would!
that was weak, heh. And not insulting in
the least. You did mean it to be
insulting, right?
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sunshine424
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Re: Quote Posted: 12-23-05 23:36pm
eiri
wrote:
sunshine424
wrote:
whatisupwiththat
wrote:
and what should "she" count?
I count my blessings every day that I
am not forced to carry an unwanted
pregnancy to term for your anti female
views.
.H.A.H....Yea, you
would!
that was weak, heh. And not insulting in
the least. You did mean it to be
insulting,
right?
umm, no. I meant what I wrote. "yea, you
would". Are you dumb?
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sunshine424
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Posted: 12-23-05 23:39pm
carifairy
wrote:
i place value on many things
in life, and my ability to not live off
the government through medicaid, welfare,
food stamps ect.. Without a job or
career I could not afford the basic
necessities in life!
I value many things in life. I value my
relationship with my fiance', and the fact
that my soon to be mother in law likes me
and is happy that I am part of the family.
I feel blessed(and value) that I found
someone is so wonderful and caring, who
doesn't hit me, and we do not fight. I
value my nursing career, because I enjoy
helping the elderly and women so very
much. (i have worked in nursing homes
too.) I value other peoples health and
well being, it makes me feel humbled that
I helped to create a healthier living
situation for someone. Here I am healthy
and successful, why should I not share
this? I donate to charities, and help
women out. It is the most amazing
experience to help someone else out, to
see a person feel relieved that they can
recieve help.
I value so much in life, much more than
you know.
i think your a snob for voicing that your
"proud" that you don't need goverment
assistance. Did it ever occur to you that
some people, men and woman, at some point
in their lives, for whatever reason, may
need to turn to the govt for help. I
myself have never done so, but if I had
to, I sure as hell would, with no regrets.
I have paid taxes for many years, I am
entitled if I need help for whatever the
reason may be.
I'm glad you value your life, you should.
But you shouldn't "disvalue" others, like
the 3 children you killed. I'm glad you
respect the elderly, too bad you don't
respect he young. Oh yea....In fact, you
kill them. You do not have to tell me how
it feels to help a person, I love to do
so, I do every chance I get, and wish I
could do more. But you never helped your
own children now did you? I guess you
pick and choose, whatever is convenient to
you and your wallet right?
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 12-24-05 11:04am
sunshine424
wrote:
poopoopoo
wrote:
i count every day that I
don't have children as a blessing.
Next point?
you also find joy out of the actual
procedure of abortion, ripping and sucking
of human flesh. Next
point?
why did you feel the need to attack me
(and make up something completely inane
and psychotic to go with it)? Just
because I disagree with your views, why do
you make insane and ridiculous comments
like that? You sure don't do your cause
any favours with idiotic statements and
personal attacks like that. You just
sound like an obsessive, neurotic and
possible psychotic edit
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sandyallen
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Posted: 12-24-05 19:29pm
Good point poopoopoo!
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Tylanas
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Re: Quote Posted: 12-24-05 21:18pm
sunshine424
wrote:
eiri
wrote:
sunshine424
wrote:
whatisupwiththat
wrote:
and what should "she" count?
I count my blessings every day that
I am not forced to carry an unwanted
pregnancy to term for your anti female
views.
.H.A.H....Yea, you
would!
that was weak, heh. And not insulting
in the least. You did mean it to be
insulting,
right?
umm, no. I meant what I wrote. "yea,
you would". Are you
dumb?
she would? Why? Come on, I can hear the
sneering in your voice when you say that,
the dripping scarcasm. No one says that
phrase nicely.
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sunshine424
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Posted: 12-25-05 22:29pm
poopoopoo
wrote:
sunshine424
wrote:
poopoopoo
wrote:
i count every day that I
don't have children as a blessing.
Next point?
you also find joy out of the actual
procedure of abortion, ripping and sucking
of human flesh. Next
point?
why did you feel the need to attack me
(and make up something completely inane
and psychotic to go with it)? Just
because I disagree with your views, why do
you make insane and ridiculous comments
like that? You sure don't do your cause
any favours with idiotic statements and
personal attacks like that. You just
sound like an obsessive, neurotic and
possible psychotic
person.
***i*** sound psychotic?! (lol) what
drugs are you on? What you just described
is you to a "t" my dear. So you can quit
trying to project your exact traits on me
to make your hateful self feel better. I
didn't attack you, I stated the truth
about you. I don't have a "cause". I
have a moral belief that abortion is
wrong, and any sane human being would
agree.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-25-05 22:39pm
I wont even comment on this topic.........
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sunshine424
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Posted: 12-25-05 22:42pm
tazzy d
wrote:
i wont even comment on this
topic.........
why? You always have good things to say
and state so please do so.
Merry christmas tanya. :o)
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-25-05 22:56pm
Because it is very difficult for me....
See before I had a child I couldnt
understand why everyone would make
comments like I never want a child or
walfare this and walefare that and other
things... But what people fail to realize
is a child is a gift .. A gift to you
from someone wether it is god or
whomever.. And about the money thing..
See there will never be a time where you
have enough money.. No one is ever
prepared enough for anything and that is
something that I really do believe and
even if you try to prepare yourself you
are never fully prepared for what life
itself has in store for you.. And see I
also hate when someone always talks about
walefare and etc.. See everyone in life I
mean everyone there wont be one sole on
earth who is not going to need help one
day in life.. Wether it is foodstamps to
make sure you dont starve, or medicaid to
make sure you can get meds. When you are
sick, or job training to get yourself back
on track. Or housing to keep you from
being homeless.. See people fail to
realize the the root to all evilness is
money.. Money cause proverty. Money
causes hunger and money causes
greediness.. But one thing that money
cant buy is love......... Love that you
have for yoursel or the love that you will
have for your child.. That hopefully one
day will love you back unconditionally..
And see when people take a life a life is
taken from them.. Maybe not now maybe not
tomorrow but someones life has been
taken.. Give a life take a life... Take
a life and I shall take take 3. That is
why you here that saying death always
comes in 3's... I believe a women should
have a choice about her body, but I also
believe that a child has the right to live
and make choices for themselves one day as
well... So that is why I didnt want to
comment on this topic.. But I hope
everyone understands.. Btw. I will do
whatever it takes to be a mom to my
children and if that means living on
walefare or pleading for whatever than
that is what I will do. If that means
working 1 2 or 3 jobs then that is what I
will do also.. So on that note.. Sorry
so long
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Carifairy
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Posted: 12-26-05 00:41am
I am not at all a snob..You say don't
wanna get pregnant?" use birth control.
Well what about women who have 5 kids and
are on welfare ect.. And cannot support
the ones they have? Is that
responsibilty? I am not against helping
women who need help, and men too. I
understand that at some point in our lives
we all may need help, but we try our best
to be self sufficient. Having more
children than you know you can care for
reasonably is not responsible.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 12-26-05 09:45am
sunshine424
wrote:
poopoopoo
wrote:
sunshine424
wrote:
poopoopoo
wrote:
i count every day that I
don't have children as a blessing.
Next point?
you also find joy out of the actual
procedure of abortion, ripping and sucking
of human flesh. Next
point?
why did you feel the need to attack me
(and make up something completely inane
and psychotic to go with it)? Just
because I disagree with your views, why do
you make insane and ridiculous comments
like that? You sure don't do your cause
any favours with idiotic statements and
personal attacks like that. You just
sound like an obsessive, neurotic and
possible psychotic
person.
***i*** sound psychotic?! (lol) what
drugs are you on? What you just
described is you to a "t" my dear. So
you can quit trying to project your exact
traits on me to make your hateful self
feel better. I didn't attack you, I
stated the truth about you. I don't have
a "cause". I have a moral belief that
abortion is wrong, and any sane human
being would
agree.
you made a personal attack on me which was
entirely unwarranted, and completely
false. You ascribed some pretty strantge
ideas to me -- which I never had, but
clearly is something you think about.
What right do you have to come on here and
make claims about how I feel about things?
You did not describe me in any way, but
gave a pretty good indication about the
sorts of things you think about. I won't
speculate as to why you are obsessing
about ripping fetuses out of wombs, etc.,
but if those are the things that you are
thinking about, don't try to transfer them
to other people. The idea of abortion
does not give me "joy". You are the one
who has these mental images -- that is
something for you to deal with, but don't
try to claim that it is me who has these
thoughts.
I am pro-choice. If you cannot deal with
the idea that not everyone wants children,
or wants to be pregnant, that is your
problem. But your sick little claims,
your personal attacks, and your inability
to have a civil discussion are seriously
disturbed.