1. Met girl
2. Had sex with girl.
3. Says she is on "shot"
4. Tells me shot didn't work, she might
be pregnant
5. Girl seems off the wall, very strange,
ill-tempered, seemingly a lyer.
6. Girl already has 2 kids from 2
different guys
7. Does pregnancy test. 11/11
8. Not pregant 11/11
9. We don't talk for more than a month.
She has a bad temper, so I stop talking to
her. She's still kind of upset
10. 12/20/05 - emails me that she went to
the doctor in the morning and that the
doctor says shes pregnat - sounds fishy..
She emailed me at 10:30 from work. (how
can she go to the doctor, doctor does the
test, finds the results, and then email me
at 10:30)
11. Tells me she's having an abortion.
So I offer to go with her. She says its
too late today and she's feeling sick (she
has bronchitis - taking antibiotics)
12. I say, let's go to the abortion
clinic tomorrow morning.
13. She calls me at night and says she
can't go because she's feeling sick and
"you can't go to the clinic when your
sick".
14. 4:30 today. She gets upset at me and
threatens to have the baby. I say, "it's
your choice, do what you want" (though I
really don't want her to have the baby.
She gets upset and hangs up on me. (she's
crazy)
so do you guys think this girl is lying or
what? I'm in the most screwed up position
now. I had nightmares last nite. I don't
want a baby with this girl. She's crazy,
suffers from depression, and I don't get
along with her. What do you guys think.
Advice please... Anything... I
personally think she's lying, but i'm not
sure....
Bizman
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kenashra
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2005 Posts: 62 Location: LA
Posted: 12-22-05 00:24am
I think you maybe should have thought
about the crazy disposition before you
screwed around with her. She didn't just
get crazy did she?
I think you better sit her down and ask
her if she is really pregnant and is it
for you. If so, you guys have some
thinking to do.
Ive known a lot of girls who said they
were pregnant because they were psychos
and wanted to keep the guy not to mention
they wanted the attention lol.
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priscilla914
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Oct 2005 Posts: 14 Location: jersey city
Posted: 12-22-05 08:47am
Yea I think she is lying too. I maybe
wrong too but maybe she might just be
looking for some attention so be careful
cause from what I understand the shot is
99.8 percent effective. So why dont you
bring a pregnancy test to her house and
have her take it in front of you and if
she doesn't tell her to stop trying to get
in touch with u until she lets you see the
results...Ooo... And by the way the
doctors always give you a proof of
pregnancy paper..........So be
careful..........W/b
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princessdiana7586
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 49
Posted: 12-22-05 08:50am
Sounds like she's lying to you just to
keep you around. My advice: stay away
from her...If she really is pregnant first
make sure it is your baby and then you'll
have to deal with the consequences...But
that doesn't mean you have to talk to the
psycho.
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 12-22-05 10:32am
Hey, sometimes it takes up to 5 weeks
after the deed to get positive pregnancy
test. No contraceptive is 100%, (she
could have been lying about that) you cant
go to the clinic while sick, she took the
pregnancy test a couple days ago--got the
results that morning, or she could have
went that morning--by 10:30 she had plenty
of time to go--opens at 8:00, they dont
always give you a paper for pregnancy--if
you are seen in the emergency room. So
she could also be telling the truth.
If she was good enough to have sex
with-she is good enough to have a baby
with. Even if she is complete psycho,
it is still your baby--and that is all
that matters.
Hope you find out the truth----good luck
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tigresacanela24
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 12-22-05 11:44am
priscilla914
wrote:
yea I think she is lying
too. I maybe wrong too but maybe she
might just be looking for some attention
so be careful cause from what I understand
the shot is 99.8 percent effective. So
why dont you bring a pregnancy test to her
house and have her take it in front of you
and if she doesn't tell her to stop
trying to get in touch with u until she
lets you see the results...Ooo... And by
the way the doctors always give you a
proof of pregnancy paper..........So be
careful..........W/b
i went to the doctor's office and never
got a proof of pregnancy paper...
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bizman
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 12-22-05 12:05pm
Thanks for the replies. Talking about
this helps me out a lot...
About the 10:30 situation. She went to
her regular doctor for an appointment that
morning for bronchitis. So how could the
doctor go from seeing her for bronchitis
to diagnosing her with pregnancy so
quickly... And then her emailing me by
10:30 from work that she's pregnant.
Also, I called a local clinic and they
said the bronchitis shouldn't affect the
abortion and she could have went, no
problem. (she was probably lying).
Thirdly, yes, I will definately have a
paternity test if after all this, she has
a baby.
Also, if this girl is lying, she is
definately evil for putting me through
this...
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curiousitykilledthecat
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 15 Location: Chicago
Bizman: Posted: 12-22-05 12:28pm
Sounds to me that she could or could not
be telling the truth. Birth control and
home pregnancy tests are not always
accurate (just ask my friend). Also,
clinics usually open at 8 am and it is
possible to get the results that early.
Trust your gut instinct. If you really
feel like she is lying, then she probably
is. Don't waste your money paying for an
abortion because she could be taking you
for a ride.
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nic25
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 8
Posted: 12-22-05 12:56pm
If I were u I show up on her door been all
nice make out u wanna sort things then ask
her to do a test so u can both start
planning for the future together the shot
is 98% reilable so there's a 2% chance she
is if the test is negative which I think
it will be just walk out and u know the
truth shouts a evil way to do it but u
find the truth out then u can change your
number and get her out your life I think
carfully in future of who u sleep with u
should always use a condom it protects u
against sti good luck
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tigresacanela24
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Bizman.... Posted: 12-22-05 12:58pm
She could very easily have found out she
was pregnant by 10:30 in the morning.
(birth control is definitely not always
effective, I have a friend that got
pregnant on depo. Also weight is also
an issue when speaking about the
effectiveness of birth control...Anyway I
digress). First off any time you go to
the doctor (at least here) and you're a
woman the first two questions they ask is
if there's a possibility that you could be
pregnant and do you have gas :roll: . I
went to my doctor's office (admittedly I
already knew I was pregnant) and my doctor
took less than five minutes to confirm
that fact without any results from urine
or blood samples. Apparently a pregnant
uterus feels different from a non pregnant
one (the heartbeat was a dead giveaway too
there). My total visit time was 10
minutes. She had more than enough time
to find out. Now having said all that I
have to tell you that I believe that she's
lying. There's too many things in her
story that don't add up. Demand some
type of proof, ask to go with her to her
check-ups. Something. I know too many
girls who got away with doing that to guys
to keep them and then conveniently had a
miscarriage or got pregnant in a hurry...
Watch out is all i'm saying.
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Ta-ra
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 97 Location: uk
Posted: 12-22-05 23:50pm
Its hard to tell really. Do what the
others say and do a home pregnancy test .
She has to show u the results dont think
she can cheat teh results. If shes
pregnant or not it be on her record alll
stored on computer at docs. Of course if
u can go in with her u can peep at screen
and see what it says. Or take the easy
option and do home test first do the docs
one like 2weeks later or summat.
I dont think its enough time to do a doc
test then get results same morning.
I did home test and it was pos. Did docs
like 2/weeks later I had to wait and it
said pos aswell. At 11weeks 6days I
miscarried. Its worth it or just dont
bother with her. Dont answer calls
nothing if u think shes lieing.
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