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My Updates Posted: 12-22-05 03:32am


Since my problem is very much unpredictable lol, I decided to start this new thread as a place to post updates about me. Will appreciate any comments. ^^i guess my "horny days" are back. I tried masturbating today in the morning and found myself very horny...Partly because I was looking at a girl who really aroused me, but that's surely not it. I could still get a good erection just thinking. I lasted for at least 15 mins and it didn't seem to limp. I ejaculated which felt like the best one in a while. In the evening I tried to see if it still worked...I got even hornier. It was rock hard. I ejaculated after 20 mins, it was very good except when I moved my hand to click on my mouse, when it would get a lil softer. I probably should not have continued...I masturbated twice today. But I was so horny. This is good for now but only confuses me more: why the hell did I suddenly get horny today? (the weird cycle is back!) I jacked once yesterday, didn't the day before, and did once two days ago. It shows masturbation frequency doesn't have anything to do with my ed. I even wonder if there could be a medical explanation for me. :)

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Posted: 12-22-05 12:18pm


It sounds like you might just be sexually bored. It happens. I read your other posts and you seem to be having mostly psychological symptoms, which indicates to me that you're just bored or need more variety. Suggestions: 1) try new porn 2) try it with a partner 3) try jerking with a friend (non sexual) 4) try anal stimulation/prostate stimulation 5) try sex toys. Give some of these things a try and see if they help out.

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Posted: 12-22-05 14:40pm


Thank you very much. Although I don't agree with my problem being phychological, I want you guys to know how much I appreciate your support. I might try out your suggestions at some point when I do get bored. : 0) so I got up this morning and my penis lost horny sensation. I thought oh god I got only one horny day this time?? But I just wacked off and it felt fantastic. Same girl but I so love her and I lasted for 45 mins...Never thought I would go that long. It didn't go limp at all the whole time. If I was like that every day or at least most of the time I wouldn't be on this forum. I'm really going nuts not knowing why the weird cycle. Would hormonal changes explain it? But the doc said it's not possible for testosterone to behave like that...Now I doubt it because he's no specialist on endocrinology. Or is there a disease that makes your hormones change so rapidly? What do ya think? I say it's not phychological because it doesn't matter if it's porn or imagining or whatever. The horny days come and go. I do get a lil hornier if I find something new I like, but it's not the reason for the cycle. I know this for sure.

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Re: My Updates
Posted: 12-22-05 16:37pm

impotentyouth wrote:

since my problem is very much unpredictable lol, I decided to start this new thread as a place to post updates about me. Will appreciate any comments.

^^i guess my "horny days" are back. I tried masturbating today in the morning and found myself very horny...Partly because I was looking at a girl who really aroused me, but that's surely not it. I could still get a good erection just thinking. I lasted for at least 15 mins and it didn't seem to limp. I ejaculated which felt like the best one in a while.

In the evening I tried to see if it still worked...I got even hornier. It was rock hard. I ejaculated after 20 mins, it was very good except when I moved my hand to click on my mouse, when it would get a lil softer. I probably should not have continued...I masturbated twice today. But I was so horny. This is good for now but only confuses me more: why the hell did I suddenly get horny today? (the weird cycle is back!) I jacked once yesterday, didn't the day before, and did once two days ago. It shows masturbation frequency doesn't have anything to do with my ed. I even wonder if there could be a medical explanation for me. :)

just out of curiosity, what worked for you? What did you do (or not do) that brought you back to your old self?

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Posted: 12-22-05 17:15pm


3) try jerking with a friend (non sexual) how can that be non sexual? :lol:

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Re: My Updates Posted: 12-22-05 18:23pm


Just out of curiosity, what worked for you? What did you do (or not do) that brought you back to your old self?[/quote] i did nothing. I did the same things that I do normally. Just found out about it when I started jerking. That's why I say it's weird. It's bizarre. My pubic area feels horny and hot most of the time. My penis doesn't need recovery at all...I can see the veins in it when erect and it's red and hot. I jacked three times today, hard to rock hard...I admit I am addicted to the porn girl. I even got a free password of her site and downloaded all her movies. Keep jacking when horny before I go nuts!! I know it's not healthy.....I'll stop for today. Drop comments about my bizarre cycle. I'd rather be average every day than horny some days and impotent the others.

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Posted: 12-24-05 01:35am


I never have problems getting hard masterbating. Some days im hornier aswell, but in general I can always get some what of an erection masterbating and it can last a while as long as I dont get distracted. My problem is when im with a girl. I cant seem to maintain it properly. Goes numb right after I put on the condom. I hate condoms. So I dont know what this could all mean. Mine could be all in my head and fear of being judged or simply I might have mastered masterbating myself so even the real thing wont match up. I also think depression and mood plays a huge role on this. Lately im a bit depressed. Im gona see a doctor but anti depressants are the worst thing for ed.

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Posted: 12-24-05 02:31am


I hope you are going to be better. I have been having good erections the past 3 days...I hope I can keep it up but all I can do is hope. I don't really get depressed even on the days when I can't get an erection. I'm just very worried. But it doesn't interfere with my life. Phychological or stress-related factors are definitely 100% not involved in my case.

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Posted: 12-26-05 18:35pm

noooo wrote:

i never have problems getting hard masterbating.

Some days im hornier aswell, but in general I can always get some what of an erection masterbating and it can last a while as long as I dont get distracted. My problem is when im with a girl. I cant seem to maintain it properly. Goes numb right after I put on the condom. I hate condoms.

So I dont know what this could all mean. Mine could be all in my head and fear of being judged or simply I might have mastered masterbating myself so even the real thing wont match up.
I also think depression and mood plays a huge role on this. Lately im a bit depressed. Im gona see a doctor but anti depressants are the worst thing for ed.

might need a bigger condom. Nerves might also be playing a role.

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Posted: 12-26-05 19:56pm


Ok. Bizarre stuff is continuuuing... I was horny(not too much) and very potent for four days and a half. It ended last night. On these days, my penis felt hot as well as my pubic area; my face could get hot when I masturbated; I could get it up more easily without touching it; the penis was more robust...I could see veins in it when erect; the sensation when I masturbated was totally different.. Last night when I checked I lost the horniness(more precisely that sensation in penis. The horniness in my mind didn't change). I could still get it up today and kept it that way for awhile, but not as spontaneous. More importantly I didn't get much pleasure from stroking...It was like it was kinda numb. The sensation was numb the whole time...Nothing like the past 5 days. I was looking at the same porn and I was equally turned on in my heart...Not in the penis. Again I guess my hormonal level (maybe testosterone) dropped last night. So I suddenly became less horny and thus worse erections.

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Posted: 12-27-05 23:12pm


I wonder if you have a nerve problem of some sort based on the "numbness." have you seen a doctor? It could be just something that affects you sometimes, and not always.....

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Posted: 12-28-05 04:07am


Yeah I had wondered about that, but the last doc said it wasn't possible. But he also also low testosterone wouldn't hehave this way, which I doubt. I'm trying to look for information regarding low t and hormonal disorders.

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Posted: 12-28-05 04:10am


Ps: I also had low libido these two days. I don't feel like looking at porn at all and neither does my body. It's also an indicator of hormonal problems.

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Posted: 12-29-05 22:45pm

impotentyouth wrote:

yeah I had wondered about that, but the last doc said it wasn't possible. But he also also low testosterone wouldn't hehave this way, which I doubt. I'm trying to look for information regarding low t and hormonal disorders.

it's far from impossible, and is the most common cause of continued "numbness."