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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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My Boyfriend Wont Have Sex With Me..............
Posted: 12-22-05 15:21pm
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Well me and my boy friend been togetehr
for almost 3 years we have 2 kids
together and he never has any time for me
he is always on the computer also he wont
have sex with me.
We have sex liek 2 times ever 3 to 4
months I jsut dont now what to do any more
I cry ever night baout it . I try
talking to him to him he tells me to shut
the f*** up tahst what I get ever time I
try talking to him I dont now if he is
cheating or am I not sexy enogh for him I
just dont now any more is he doing this
cause he doesnt want to be with me.Also I
ask him like go to the store he tells me
no iam to tired but he runs right to get
comp stuff its like I ask him to do some
thing its always no but for comp parts he
runs right out the door...
Please some tell me what to do
tell me what to think
its getting to me now that he doesnt want
any more
thnks antonia
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xvee
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Location: Maryland
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Posted: 12-27-05 15:09pm
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Hm... That sounds absolutely horrible.
Is your boyfriend addicted to online porn
or something? I wish I can tell you to
get the hell out of there but you also
have two kids. There must be something
more to this...
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Hey
Posted: 12-27-05 19:31pm
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I try to talk to him about it he tells me
to shut the fu** up what should I think
he is cheating iam or wrong or u tell me
what to think would u guys your spouce
was cheating to if they wouldnt have sex
with u
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Fairy*Godmother
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Wake Up Call
Posted: 12-27-05 20:12pm
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Doesn't' take a fairy godmother to tell
you, hey girl, wake up.......If this man
is putting a computer before you and the
children, hello....If he will not even
talk about this with you, sounds like from
denial. As long as you put up with him
telling you to shut the "f" up, he will
...And as long as you allow him to treat
you and the kids like this ....He will.
You have the choice to live like this or
move on. It is not healthy for you or
your children. Life is too short for a
person to have to live in a situation like
this. Get some testicles girl and give
him the choice to straighten up and fly
right, or take his computer and hit the
highway.........You deserve more in
life....Keep us posted we are out here
cheering you on! I see too many young
women putting up with bull s........Too
many good men out there who will
appreciate you! 8)
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Hey
Posted: 12-27-05 23:01pm
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He says hew loves he even talked about
getting married the other day he says he
is happy with me and are kidshe doesnt go
out he goes to work and come right home he
gets no strange phone calls he says its
stress...
Can that be trus can stress cause this he
says it is I dont now any more..........
Thanks
toni
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xvee
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Location: Maryland
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Hm..
Posted: 12-28-05 13:14pm
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A man that tells you to shut the f*** up
has no respect for you, especially when
you need to talk to him about this. If he
continuously blames it on stress are you
really gonna allow that? Maybe you two
should try counseling, that may help.
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Hey
Posted: 12-28-05 13:48pm
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Last night I snapped on him about it and
then we sex last night after he tells me
that we will work on it and things will
be ok he siad he was sorry for not talking
to me last night I must said ever thing
to brake some ones heart...So now we will
see what happens in time if it doesnt get
better we are done
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Well Up Date
Posted: 01-09-06 09:15am
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Well ever thing is still the same still
wont have sex with me still doesnt have
any time for me still always on the comp
I give up npw he just doesnt care for me
now I know how he realy feels
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xvee
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Posts: 25
Location: Maryland
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Posted: 01-12-06 15:21pm
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Dont be weak, regain yourself and
file a divorce. There are many men
out there who would treat you so much
better. Your `husband` is a jerk.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 01-12-06 15:44pm
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I realize that no one can tell you what to
do but it is definitely time to move on!
Their are a lot of places to go nowadays!
Thank goodness their is a choice
nowadays and we do not have to sit there
and take it, althogh sex is not
everything, when it comes down to abuse,
that is not healthy in any relationship.
Good luck!
Keep us posted!
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Hey
Posted: 01-12-06 23:26pm
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We sat down like a week and talked about
every thing he told me he will change and
we will have more sex
we had sex like ever day this week
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xvee
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Location: Maryland
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Posted: 01-23-06 14:23pm
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Post here on any kind of update.
When guys say they will change im
always kinda skeptical about it.
I hope it all goes well for you.
You really seem like you deserve alot :)
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Toni9999
Posted: 02-28-06 14:16pm
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Well,has he changed or is he still the
same?How are things going?
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Update
Posted: 03-06-06 11:04am
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Things arent going good at all we still
dont have sex we still dont go any were
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Lalee
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Joined: 26 Jan 2006
Posts: 991
Location: South Carolina
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Re: Hey
Posted: 03-08-06 00:57am
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| tonii9999
wrote: | he says hew loves he even
talked about getting married the other day
he says he is happy with me and are kids
toni |
of course he's happy with you. He can do
what he wants and walk all over you, and
you stay there and take it. What is there
for him not to like?
I've seen your posts and his posts and how
you talk about each other and how you
apparently feel abou each other. I've
said it before, and i'll say it again: you
need to get out of that relationship if
you ever expect to be happy.
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tonii9999
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005
Posts: 81
Location: philly
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Well Update
Posted: 03-26-06 19:36pm
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So far things have been great we been sex
a little more now we havent got into a
fight in a long time people thanks for
all the help ....
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MissTiddlypeeps
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: manchester
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Re
Posted: 10-06-06 14:34pm
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Honey I had the same problem (he was
abusive as well thou) I used to ly in bed
n listen to him watching porn on tv
downstairs,i wont go into the details but
hed know I was in tears n deny it all,( as
if im deaf ).Im sorry if this sounds blunt
but I dont think u have a future......And
believe me I wish some1 would have told me
that years ago, please do something about
it now before its too late, I went to hell
n back n wouldnt wish it on anyone...The
way it makes u feel is undescribable to
anyone unless they have been through it,
all the best x
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