Getting Very Upset And Worried Please Help!!! Posted: 12-19-03 14:28pm
Hi there,
im so sorry to post yet again but im going
insane.Please someone help me.Please read
my other posts before and you will
understand.
Well its now been 48 days since my last
period.I dont even have any signs of about
to start my period.So I am now exactly a
week late.Im getting really really
frustrated.As you know my last period was
on nov 3rd and it was a really really
heavy and extremly painful one.
And that was the last one I have had.I am
ttc.I have done numerous pee tests all neg
and all differnt ones!!!.
I have sypmtoms and I do not feel
"right".I started having headaches
first,my tummy feels bloated,my pee is
more yellow in coulour,i constantly feel
tired and very lazy and extremely
nauseated these have lasted more than two
weeks.I did go to my g.P I told her I
havnt come on yet and that the last period
was very bad and all she did was prescribe
some stong pain killers for the next
period but I havnt got it yet,so what do I
do? How long do I wait? Could I still be
pregnant.I certainly dont feel right and
havnt for about two weeks.My doc also said
I could go for blood tests for pcos but I
have to wait till I start my period!!!!
Please help me someone.
Still feeling sick
xx
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-19-03 17:36pm
Have you gotten a blood test to see if you
are pregnant? Ask them. Have you taken
any other tests?
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AMAZINGSTAR
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 53
Hi Posted: 12-19-03 18:19pm
No I havnt yet,i tryed to explain to the
doctor but she just said im not if the
tests were negative and offered to test me
for pcos but as I said I have to wait for
my period!!!!
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glitter8370
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Joined: 04 Nov 2003 Posts: 135 Location: bc canada
Go Get Tested... Posted: 12-19-03 21:07pm
You need to get tested... For your doctor
to tell u to wait for ur period when there
is a chance u could be pregnant is
stupid... Go get a home test or get
tested at a clinic u need to know
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missbuttons
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Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 94 Location: USA
Posted: 12-19-03 22:13pm
Hon, for your own benefit (and that of a
baby if you are pregnant), please see
another doctor. When you do find another
doctor, ask for a blood test.
A doctor who tells you that you are not
pregnant just because a hpt comes back
negative doesn't know what they are
talking about. It is very possible to be
pregnant and not have the hpt come up
positive.
Please seek the advice of another doctor.
And if they won't listen to you, then
find another. You can go to a local
clinic or planned parenthood if they are
in your area.
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AMAZINGSTAR
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Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 53
Im So Scared Now!! Posted: 12-22-03 01:57am
Hi me yet again,
im sorry but have no one else to tell my
worries to.
But now for the past few nights I keep
waking in the middle of the night with
really bad pains in my belly like period
pains,i go the bathroom thinking ive
started to blled but I still have not come
on,what is this?I still get twinges during
the day but not as bad as in the night for
some reason.My belly keeps cramping up!!!
Me and my boyf had sex the other day and
after I had the pain again,like period
pain I thought I thought I was going to
bleed but again wen to the bathroom and
nothing.It is now 50days since my last
period so im booking yet another
apppointment to see the doc or nurse,i
know I may have to be internally examined
and I am really nervous about this.
Any reassurance or advice would be graet
guys!!!!!
Scared and bewildered.
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Farah
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Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 201
Posted: 12-22-03 02:11am
Hey, calm down if you are pregnant
this stress isn't good.
here's what happened to me. When I was
pregnant I had a period on february 3rd.
Then in march, no period. Took a test
when I was two days late and it said
negative. So a week later I went to
planned parenthood and they gave me a test
and it was positive. Also, I got really
bad period like cramps and kept thinking I
was going to start and I didn't.
So, it is highly possible that you're
pregnant. Honestly, I agree with those
who are saying that you should not see
that Dr. Again. For a Dr. To act as if
it's unheard of to be pregnant after
testing negative with a home pregnancy
test, that's just ridiculous. So, go to
another Dr. And get a blood test. I
would say you are pregnant, but I am not a
medical professional. I will say that you
shouldn't have anything to worry about!
Hope that helps.
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AMAZINGSTAR
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 53
Thankyou So Much Posted: 12-22-03 02:17am
I also forgot to mention something,i also
feel bloated all the time and keep eating
I actually got up in the middle of the
night to eat!!! Lol,but heres the strange
question,someone said to me I looked
really thin!!! I dont get it!! I do not
feel thin at this momnet in time.I think
im going nuts.But iguess all I can do is
see the doc today.,i just want to say
thankyou to everyone who has taken the
time to reply to me.Im from the u.K im at
work at the moment I ma going to ring my
docs in a min and get an appointment for
afterwork.I promise I will keep you
updated as to what happens.I do hope I am
pregnat but am also worried something is
up because of these pains that keep waking
me up.Thanks again to everyone.I dont know
what I would have done if I didnt know
about this site.
Xx xx xx
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Farah
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Joined: 03 Oct 2003 Posts: 201
Posted: 12-22-03 03:15am
Glad you're going to the Dr. Actually, it
is very common to lose a little a weight,
or atleast appear to, in early pregnancy.
Hope that helps.
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AMAZINGSTAR
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Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 53
Me Again Posted: 12-22-03 03:32am
Just thought I would let you know,ive
booked an appontment for 3.45pm uk time.I
booked it with the nurse this time,but
guess what , the doc I saw first time is
going to be in the room to!!! Great,but
im going to tell them my symptoms and ask
for a blood test.But I may have to have an
internal wouldnt i? If I did have to and
I may be pregnant wouldnt that damage the
baby in any way at this early stage.Anyway
I will post later tonight and let you all
know what happens.
Thanks again
xx xx
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Amberlee123
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Joined: 08 Dec 2003 Posts: 185 Location: Tennessee
Posted: 12-23-03 12:40pm
Alot of times, mostly first time pregnancy
you will loose weight before gaining some.
June 4th was my last period and around
the end of june- eraly july I was having
bloated feeling and menstral like cramps,
july 10th I went to crissis preg center
and took a hpt around 10am and it showed
negative imediatly I went to walgreens got
a error proof test and took it at about
noon and it showed up positive. I am now
29 weeks along. You should go see someone
other than your usual doc.
Good luck,
amberlee
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mm0678
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2003 Posts: 13 Location: new york
Posted: 12-27-03 11:39am
I agree with the others. See a different
doctor! I'm on my 3rd child now and not
very far along. I just found out like 2
weeks ago. But one thing with my body
during this pregnancy is that with any
type of gas I get, my belly feels like it
is on fire!. I feel like I am about to
gush out blood from every hole in my body.
I go to the bathroom and let some of it
go and my belly fire goes away. When I
was pregnant with my first, I was about 4
months along and I went to the emergency
room with worse pains than contractions.
I mean I thought my belly was just going
to split open. My doctor could'nt figure
it out at first. The baby was fine,
everything in side was fine. So he gave
me something, I want to say immodium but
i'm not sure, and within a few minutes I
farted and all the pressure was realesed
and I felt fine after. Same now, I think
my uterus is sensitive to gas! This may
not be your problem but maybe its
something to put on your opptions list.
Maybe chilling out on the sex a little bit
may help too.
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purple333
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Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 1420 Location: Sydney
Posted: 12-27-03 11:46am
Amazingstar,
i love that name!! How are things? What
happened at the drs? Have you seen
another dr or gone to a clinic???? Please
post & let us know!!
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AMAZINGSTAR
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 53
Its Me Posted: 12-29-03 10:09am
Hi there everyone,
i thought I would let you all know what
has happened to me.Well my period actually
started on christmas day!! No real pain
so it wasnt to bad apart from the
dissapointmennt of course so I infact
skipped a period because it was 52 days
after my last one.If you remeber from my
previous posts my last period on november
3rd was extremely bad.I did go back to the
doctor on dec 23rd and I had blood tests
taken.My doctor said I could have had a
misscarrige on that nov 3rd.Im having
blood tests run for all sorts of things,to
see if I was pregnant but am not now I am
also being tested for pcos.I felt really
stupid thats why I havnt posted for a
while.I just wanted to say a big thankyou
for all those people who took the time to
reply to me in my stupid paniked state.I
think ive decided to stop trying for a
while because I think there may be
something not right down there.Im feeling
a bit down and a bit dissaponited at the
momnet and am scared if I do have
pcos.Thanks to everyone again and im
sorry.
All my love
amazingstar
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missbuttons
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Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 94 Location: USA
Posted: 12-29-03 10:24am
Honey, you have nothing to be sorry about
*hugs*. I can understand how scared you
are, and you have every reason to be. At
least now though, you may have your reason
why it took so long for your next period.
Sometimes it can be a relief to know what
is actually wrong.
You will be in my thoughts and I hope
everything turns out well for you:)
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purple333
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Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 1420 Location: Sydney
Posted: 12-31-03 04:40am
Amazingstar,
hey, we all need help, support &
advice at times, especially when we may be
pregnant, when drs aren't really being
helpful & when we're scared. That's
what this forum is all about, it's why
we're all here - to help & suppport
each other.
I think though that maybe giving yourself
a rest from ttc & having some time
out, not just for your body but for you
emotionally, in many ways the hardest part
of ttc is the emotional stuff.
Don't ever feel stupid for needing
support/advice & do have all those
tests, it rules stuff out & reassures
you for the future, or if there is a
problem it can be faced & dealth
with!!
if you are pregnant
this stress isn't good. 
