Possibly Pregnant..does He Even Care Posted: 12-23-05 01:29am
Hey everyone...Well...This is how it
is...I met this guy a while back and we
have a 9 year age difference.I'm 19 and
he's 28.From day one of our relationship
he has been a busy man.He works from 7 in
the morning until 5 or 6 in the
afternoon.In the beginning I could always
call him and no matter what..He would
answer.If not..He would call me back.He
has been trying to get me pregnant for 2
months now.I assume he is because he
always takes the condom off or refuses to
wear it.Anyway..My period was very late
and I went the the clinic.The whole time I
was there he constantly called and wanted
to come by and pick me up later that
day.Now that i'm almost sure that i'm
pregnant...He won't answer any of my phone
calls.The only way he calls is if I send
him text messages telling him how I feel.I
told him that i'm considering abortion and
he told me that he would hurt me if he
found out.So what am I supposed to do?Be
pregnant and alone?
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 12-25-05 15:23pm
You could dump his arse and then get the
abortion. And if he trys any thing call
the cops. And go stay somewhere he can't
find you for a bit.
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Mississippi
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 70
Posted: 12-26-05 19:05pm
Well..I found out he was cheating and that
was the worst thing.He wouldn't answer any
of my calls or anything.I found all this
out on christmas day..That broke my heart
to pieces.I couldn't cry though.I told her
that I was pregnant.That broke her heart
too.Now things are tough.I told him i'm
having an abortion and he doesn't care.I
can't believe I considered abortuon.I know
its hard but this would be my first child
and hopefully I can handle it alone
because my child is going to be something
amazing.His father will only wish that he
could be in his life.
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 12-29-05 04:04am
True first kid is something special. Me
and my x had a scare. She thought she was
pregers. And I was so scared that how I
got on here. Anyway she wasn't but then I
thawt if she was I would fell really bad
if she got rid of it. Like I only young
but still the idea of being a dad is
awasome. Don't wanna be for a few years
like 7 or 8. Yeah if you do keep it he
will no wat he missing out on. Just
something to think about I now a few girls
that have gotten rid of there unborn babys
and they have changed and not in a good
way. It has stayed with then. Hope it
helps
