Ok I have a little bit of a problem and I
didnt know where else to go but here so
here it goes.Ok me and my boyfriend have
been together for three years and when we
have sex he allways complains about
stomach problems just before
ejaculation.And we had to stop a number of
times cause the pain really hurts him.
We made a deal that we wouldnt have sexual
intercourse until we have both gone to the
doctors and found out what the problem
was.Because I getting recurring infections
and I think its from him I have already
been to the doctors and been checked out
[everything was fine] but it seeems like
he doesnt want to go to the doctors to get
the blood work done and I dont know what
to do is something wrong with him or is
that a normal thing for guys ??? Do you
think that I should just tell him no sex
until you have gone to the doctors???
Please help I dont know what to do I am so
confused
any help would be greatly appreciated
thanks in advance
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Stevo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 May 2005 Posts: 14
Posted: 12-24-05 18:17pm
Yes I would make him go to the doctors.
He should realise that he needs to go.
He doesnt want to go, for fear of being
told he has something seriously wrong with
him. Thats a fairly normal reaction.
In the past I have had a similar thing, a
sharp sensation in the abdomen prior to
the big moment. It went away after a
while though. It may be due to
damage/bruising to a testicle, because to
my knowledge the nerves/piping connects
right back up to the top of the abdomen.
Im sure it is nothing serious but he
needs/should want to see the doctor. The
sooner he gets medical attention, the
quicker they can fix it. All the best.
