I'm in a happy, comfortable loving
relaxtionship with my b/f, we feel really
comfortable around eachother and have
decided on his next b-day (roughly a
year), we will have intercourse...
Now i'm "underage", but of course, this is
my desicion and I wan't to know how I
could get the pill.
My mother has always said that she would
get it for me if I was really determined,
because she'd rather I have protected sex
than go off and do it anyway without
protection..
I'm not sure if I wan't to tell her my
decision, and maybe a condom would be fine
alone?
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BigJoe
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2005 Posts: 7 Location: New England
Posted: 12-23-05 15:29pm
Why don't you give planned parenthood a
call? I'm not aware of rules about age,
but they could surely help you out and you
can remain anonymous if you like.
Good luck and be careful!
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jessesgirl
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Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2877
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Posted: 12-23-05 15:30pm
Same situation happened to me. I started
dating a guy and we decided to wait a
little over a year to have sex. My mom
had always told me that she'd rather put
me on the pill than me get pregnant at a
young age. When the time came a little
over a year later we started having sex
with condoms because I was too afraid to
tell my mom. After having a few
pregnancy scares I decided to tell her.
She then put me on the pill. I was
nervous, but believe me it was worth it.
That opened up communication between me
and my mom and I felt safer having sex
with my boyfriend.
That's wonderful that ya'll are waiting at
least a little while. It'll make you
feel better that he's not just with you
for the sex. I say talk to your mom,
it'll make her feel better too.
Oh yeah, and the boyfriend that I started
dating and slept with at only 14 is my
husband now. I'm 22 and we just got
married in october. We're trying for our
first child. It's exciting.
Talk to your mom, wait for sex, and it'll
be all worth it.
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Unhappy Chazz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 9
Posted: 12-23-05 16:01pm
Okay, thanks :)
we really do love eachother, and I know
people are like "ermm, no only adults can
be in love" and stuff, but it's my
feelings and only I can determine them..
Theres a local clinic place called
connect, that you can go there about
anything sexual, etc, and it's all
confidental, you can even use a fake name,
etc.. A woman came into our school
talking about it.
I will talk to my mum about it next year
nearer the time, i've never been
uncomfortable talking about sexual issues
with her, so it's not that i'm
worried...
Thanks for replying.
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Carifairy
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Joined: 12 Nov 2005 Posts: 2610 Location: Charlotte n.c.
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Posted: 12-23-05 16:17pm
Planned parenthood will see you without
parental consent, and they charge you very
little (usually) if you are a teen :)
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solar001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Nov 2005 Posts: 82 Location: Weston, FL
Definitely Posted: 12-24-05 20:16pm
I definitely recommend talking to your mom
and getting on bc. Hormonal birth control
also offers other benefits, if you're like
me, and have horrible periods, it will
more than likely help with that as well.
There are several versions out now, mainly
the pill and the ring (i'm sure that the
patch will be taken off the market soon).
I use the ring and we always use condoms
during sex, since we're not married yet.
Best of luck to you, I hope that you have
a pleasant experience.
