hey everyone...Well...This is how it
is...I met this guy a while back and we
have a 9 year age difference.I'm 19 and
he's 28.From day one of our relationship
he has been a busy man.He works from 7 in
the morning until 5 or 6 in the
afternoon.In the beginning I could always
call him and no matter what..He would
answer.If not..He would call me back.He
has been trying to get me pregnant for 2
months now.I assume he is because he
always takes the condom off or refuses to
wear it.Anyway..My period was very late
and I went the the clinic.The whole time I
was there he constantly called and wanted
to come by and pick me up later that
day.Now that i'm almost sure that i'm
pregnant...He won't answer any of my phone
calls.The only way he calls is if I send
him text messages telling him how I feel.I
told him that i'm considering abortion and
he told me that he would hurt me if he
found out.So what am I supposed to do?Be
pregnant and alone?
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kb77
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 100
Posted: 01-05-06 23:53pm
Girl that is a crazy situation!
He either wants you or he doesn't. My
boyfriend is older than me as well. Im 20
and he is 25 so it's still hard. He has
been trying to get me pregnant since I was
18. I got pregnant once and miscarried.
All I would say is, first decide if you
want the baby. I may be difficult but it
can be done alone. Then tell him your
plan. He may think that your just making
threats with abortion to get him to talk
to you. This is serious though, its a
baby! H e should treat you better, and
call. He should be a man and step up to
the plate. It's time for him to take care
of you and the baby.
