Basically i've been with my girlfriend for
nearly 2 years and we spent mostly all the
time together, it was great. But about 3
months ago her friends from the army
started coming home every weekend to see
her. So she started to see them at the
weekend, I was fine with this because they
are her friends. But after a while she
started lying to me and ditching me to see
them. Lying like saying she was going out
with her mum but she was really going out
with them so I was like ????. But now its
xmas they are home for about 4 weeks and I
proberly see her about 3 times a week for
maybe 5 hours. And when I say please stay
with me a full day shes like "but i'd
rather see my friends", so now im
basically feeling like poo. I don't know
what ive done wrong for her not to be
wanting to see me. What do you guys think
I should do?
Thanks in advance...
Random_guy
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gemski
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2005 Posts: 11
Hope I Can Help Some Posted: 12-29-05 21:02pm
Have you talked to her about it, told her
how you feel? I would let her know that
it hurts you. I have been with my fiance
since I was 17 I am now 23. I will tell
you from a womens point of view I was an
emotional rollercoaster. There was times
I would do what I wanted and just want
left alone, then there were times I didnt
know if I wanted to be with him. We
broke up and after a few weeks I realized
what the hell was I doing. I was in love
with this person, and I didn't show it cuz
I was so confused. We are now in a happy
realtionship, but honestly I just needed
a wake up call. All I can truly say is
let her know how you feel and follow your
heart. I wish you luck!!!
