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Q: Left With My Baby
asked by: cilla2006 on December 28th, 2005
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I got with my first love from 9th grade again this past may which who I was with in 9th grade for almost a year. We got together and may me not knowing that he had his ex girlfriend pregnant, she was 4 months when we got together so I found out and I decided to stay with him and be there for him through that time, until august came and I found out that he was cheating on me with her basically trying to be with us both at the same time. I stayed with him thinking it was only onw time I come to find out that he was doing it from day one, we had let each other go in october and then he came back to me saying that he has changed and he wont hurt me and well he did it again so basiclly he was back and forth with both of us. Well the time that we were together since then he watned to have a baby with me and he told me that he was going to be twith me and not hurt me again and that all hes trying to do is look for a family and I was like fine. Well he did it to me again dec 18 so since then we have not talk. Until today I found out that I am pregnant, I dont know what to do, I told him and hes not denying it (yet) but I feel like I need him like I still wanna have a family with him regardless of all the things that he has done to me but I know that he is not good for me. So I dont know what to do should I raise this baby alone or should I try to work things out with him? Please I need help, advice anything
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diamondsz
replied on December 28th, 2005
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To be honest hes not any good for you, I would let himn only in ur life just to see your child and to be in its life as well as for child support. Some men just cant seem to calm down or commit themselves but how many times is he going to hurt you before you actually wake up? Dont put yourslef in the poison of an environment because you child will need to be loved as well and you may do better with a guy who will treat you 50/50 and love both you and ur unborn child. Its your choice to make but how do you want your child raised? What type of futur do you want for you child?? I know its hard but in the end it may just work out, seems like this guy needs a wake up call how many more woman will he get pregnant??
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