I kinda know what the problem is but I
have no idea how to cure it really, but
anyways heres the story:
im 20 now but I remember back ine
lementary school I would get hard thinking
about a girls hair thats how good it was
lol, but I started getting into watching
porn and such on the computer, that was
fine and dandy I had no problems outside,
but the thing is I kept watching more and
more porn and I believe it desensitized me
to the point where normal intimate
encounters with girls just isnt possible,
I had girlfriends and I had some trouble
but always managed to get it up, but now
it seems like it just doesnt happen
anymore, I cant get it up even if my life
depended on it, I cut the amount of porn I
watch by like 90% but still nothing, I
dont really want to go on viagra or
anything
it just seems like my mind isnt releasing
the certain chemicals to inititate a
hardon because its not seeing some crazy
porn
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cd998776
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Posted: 12-29-05 23:05pm
The chemicals released from the brain
occur during orgasm, and not wen you get
an erection. Can you get an erection
during masturbation and what not? Say if
you weren't looking at porn? Based on
your age, it's probably just nerves.
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Citrus
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Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 18 Location: New York
Posted: 12-30-05 00:29am
The "reaction" that takes place during
erection is no more than your heart
beating at an higher rate. When this
happens, a canal if you will is opened in
the base of your penis allowing for
adequate blood flow to fill expanding
tissue in your penis. I highly doubt this
is a heart problem, you may have
circulatory issues, or you may just need
viagra. Sorry dude.
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hampton12
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Joined: 29 Dec 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 12-30-05 12:13pm
Its not physical, I can get up by myself
or watching porn , but maybe it is just
nerves, I need to calm down, I dont know,
easier said then done lol
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-01-06 15:46pm
hampton12
wrote:
but maybe it is just
nerves, I need to calm down, I dont know,
easier said then done
lol
very possible...
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camron_m21
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Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Hanoverton Ohio
Posted: 01-08-06 17:40pm
Know what's really bad? I'm 16, and I
can't get an erection.
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-14-06 22:22pm
camron_m21
wrote:
know what's really bad?
I'm 16, and I can't get an
erection.
well dude, what's your story/problem?
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camron_m21
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Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Hanoverton Ohio
Posted: 01-17-06 21:07pm
Meh, I overdid it. Then one day...
Psshh... Nothing.
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-22-06 12:19pm
Over did it like what? I'm sorry but if
you want help, your going to have to be a
little more specific.
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jaxnfury
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Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Posts: 1
Posted: 01-27-06 10:36am
I'm having pretty much the same problem.
Here is my story.
I broke up with my gf of 2 1/2 years
on.... Christmas day, I didnt really want
or love her in that way anymore. I also
didnt want to break up with her on
christmas, but I couldnt pretend to be
happy with her anymore. The sex with my
ex was fine, it was great, it was sex, I
was always hard and good to go, pretty
much.
Now its a month on and I have met someone
new, she is amazing, i'm falling for her
pretty hard and am very attracted to her,
but last night we tried to have sex for
the first time.... I just couldnt make
it, I was so scared, nervous, I was
shaking like mad. I thought it was some
lube we were using at first, but we tried
a couple times throughout the day, I got
bits, but then I got worried about it or
scared or whatever im not really sure, and
lost it. I felt sooooo embarrassed, but
she was good, she was very understanding
and I told her how scared I was because I
liked her so much, and she really likes me
too, I want her so bad but even today,
when I try stuff on my own I can barely
get anything, and if I do its not for
long, the second I stop touching it, the
erection goes.
Im getting really worried and nervous
about it and performing which I think may
be the main cause, but im not sure if
there might be another reason. When I
touch my penis, it doesnt even actually
feel the same, just kinda soft and
inactive, like it is dead or something, I
barely get any stimulation.
I changed my diet recently, I used to eat
all the wrong foods but not ive changed
all that and im eating great and working
out, I drink eas myoplex protein shakes to
help with working out and eating right. I
dont eat alot of red meat as I used to, I
used to eat loads of meat, burgers, steak
etc etc but now its mostly chicken.
What can I do? Im not sure myself if
there is anything I can do since it seems
to me like a mind problem, I think since
being on my new diet I dont have as much
testosterone also, but im not sure.
Heeeeeelp, im so confused.
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Darin
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Joined: 14 Nov 2004 Posts: 38 Location: Summerside, P.E.I, Canada
Posted: 02-18-06 19:34pm
It's a mental thing.
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w0rldd0minat0r
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Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-01-06 17:45pm
Might be a blood problem if u smoke that
might be a factor im not as rigid as I
used to be after a yr of smoking! Lol
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scaredssri
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Joined: 05 Mar 2006 Posts: 3
Hey Janxfury Posted: 03-05-06 14:17pm
Dude, I know exactly how you feel. I have
the exact same problem recently. I just
broke up with my ex around xmas, didn't
want her sexually anymore, wasn't in love
anymore either. Well, I met this new
girl, I am so into her, I am nervous as
caca. The thing is I can get an erection,
but the second we go to do it, I go limp.
I am afraid as all doing it hell. I don't
want it to ruin this new thing. It seems
like it is nerves. . . . But can
viagra help with this? I am only 27. I
wake up with morning erections, so my unit
seems to still work. . . .I am nerved
out I think. I have not been masturbating
lately either, I used to do it a lot but I
went like a week or two without, and I did
it this morning and came before I even got
hard!!!!!!!????? Is it broken? Should I
try viagra or something? I don't smoke, I
exercise, I am a vegetarian, should I eat
more meat? Do I just think about it too
much. . . But how the hell can I not,
when it is so important to me? Advice
anyone? Are we going to be like this
forever?
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w0rldd0minat0r
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Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-05-06 15:35pm
Lmao at camron
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Darren06
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Mar 2006 Posts: 1
Posted: 03-06-06 13:55pm
I don't know if I should be relieved about
finding this forum or not lol, i'm 20 and
still a virgin cause of the same problem.
It was going so well foreplay lasted a
good hour or so standing at attention and
when it came to all these years of waiting
bang it happened.
Funny thing was I never felt him going
down so I tried a bit more foreplay and
just about got it semi and then I had to
give up, I could never of imagined a
beautiful girl lying on my bed and not
being able to go through with it. I
don't know if I ever punched the wall as
much in my life lol.
Thank god it happens to others that will
some how help me through it, im now going
go to the shop and buy a load of bananas
and bottled water to see if it'll nourish
my brain a little.
Plz wish me luck and every one else on the
same boat we will all get through it and
have the best night(s) of our lives.
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scaredssri
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Joined: 05 Mar 2006 Posts: 3
Dude Posted: 03-10-06 08:43am
Dude, don't worry, that same thing
happened my first time when I was 16. You
can't have an hour of foreplay. medical
question around for ten minutes or so next
time, then go at it. I remeber the first
time I had a willing partner I was
sixteen, and we messed around for about an
hour, and after that I was so tuckered I
couldn't get it up anymore. The next time
was fine, don't think too much or you will
freak out.
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Human
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Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 89
Re: Cant Get It Up Posted: 05-03-06 05:48am
hampton12
wrote:
i kept watching more and
more porn and I believe it desensitized me
to the point where normal intimate
encounters with girls just isnt
possible
yup had the same problem. Porn def
desensitizes you to normal sex. First
you just like big boobs, then asses, then
you go through all your fav porn stars,
slowly but surely you go through every
fantasy getting kinkier and kinkier until
simply seeing a naked girl in front of you
just doesn't cut it. You gotta stop,
watch it as little as possible. The only
problem is it takes years to recover
fully. The way I explained it to myself
was it would take me 30 years of sex to be
able to act out every sexual fantasy in
real life but with porn in 8-9 years I saw
it all (watching every day). I
calculated I must have seen 5000+ naked
women in every possible position/sex scene
imaginable. Anytime I had an urge I was
able to satisfy it immediatley and with
exactly the kinda things I wanted to
watch/do. I just don't think the male
body is supposed to have that kind of easy
access, such a thing does not exist in
nature.
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PHIL9301
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Aug 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 08-01-07 09:04am
ok i have a problem, im 14 and i was by
this pool for a whole day. then we started
wanting to do something but i couldnt get
it up. is it because it was my first time
or was it from somthing else?
o ya P.S.-like i have no problem getting
erections on my own.
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younglad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2007 Posts: 104 Location: , UK, England, London
Posted: 08-15-07 08:46am
hi all,, i just read this post and lots of
ppl tlking. can any one help here > i
have never had erection properly. my one
points down and is like a curvish thing i
guess, but its not fully up, never has
been. i can orgasm etc, but my erections
r poor and feel not so sensational and i
go soft easily. but im not hard enough in
the 1st place and i can make it move up
and down myself. (on a full proper
erection it remains in its place and u
cannot move it up and down by ur pc
muscles right? like swing it urself
without using ur hands? right??? ony my
pointing down one i can, which means i do
av a major probs then). and they point
down. never had morning erection too etc.
any ideas? had hernia operation as baby
too.
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aus123
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Joined: 12 Aug 2007 Posts: 12
Posted: 08-17-07 11:21am
camron_m21
wrote:
Meh, I overdid it. Then one
day... Psshh...
Nothing.
