Pretty Stupid Question But My B/f Thinks I Dont Do Good...

Look before I used to have only oral sex so I can tell u a few things. Sound gross I know but here goes. Okay make sure your mouth isnt dry drink water before and play with it first. Lick the top all over like you craving it as if its a lolly pop. Then when you put it in the with the tip of your toungue lick the center of the shaft as you suck up and down. Like how do I explain the center from the side where the testicles are. Also try sucking it from the side instead of you b/w his legs be on his side by his hips. Also when your the regular way b/w his legs try with the edge of your toungue to lick the sides of his shaft and memeber the head is the most sensitve, so lick and suck it slowly and hard try diff. Things. Hey and dont ignore his testicles give them a little attention too with your hand or with your mouth. Ask him what he likes dont forget to get the favor back try 69 . Dont wworry about it too much just let go. Tello him to touch yo too so you can be also turned on.
Hope this helps.
B ye have fun

Babycakes,
your boyfriend should be a little more helpful than that. Try different things and ask him to let you know what he likes the most, since he probably doesn't know yet anyway. If he will do it, it might help to watch him masturbate. Then you can see how he likes to be touched. Also, use your hand so that you can take a breather every once in a while, just make sure that it's well lubricated. Make sure he understands that you won't be able to get better without his help.

I usually lick the head a little first to tease him. There's a really senesitve spot right under the head (i don't really know any technical terms).
Mix it up a lot (sucking, licking, intensity).
Go deeper slowly.
I find I can go really deep as long as I go slow (i've gotten all 6 inches in my mouth :)) but that takes a lot of practice.
I reccommend put what you feel comfortable in your mouth, suck and move up and down. Give him a hand job at the same time in the direction your doing the blow job.

And have him touch your body and your chest as your doing it. This turns him on more and you. You don't have to tell him this, but just move his hands and show him what you want.

Start out slowly, touch the penis, stroke, gently grip it in your hand, slowly moving up and down the shaft, getting faster as he becomes aroused. He may be producing lubrication (pre-cum) at this time.

Then kiss, lick and start to suck on the head of the penis. Flick your tongue on the head, then up and down the shaft of the penis. You can also kiss, lick, and suck his testicles while stroking his penis. Now, gently take the head of his penis in your mouth and allow lots of saliva to flow down the shaft of his penis for lubrication. At the same time, you stimulate the shaft with your hand. Go slowly at first, then much faster, still being very gentle because the penis is very sensitive.

We all have a gag reflex at the back of our throat, so if you take his whole penis into your mouth, you will hit your gag reflex and feel like "barfing" so, here's the secret, only take the head into your mouth, co-ordinate hand and head movement into a smooth rhythmic movement. His breathing and body will tell you when he is about to ejaculate. Ask him to indicate what pressure and speed he would like. If you don't want him to ejaculate into your mouth, he should warn you just before he comes. Ejaculate won't hurt you, but it is definitely an acquired taste and many people prefer not to have it in their mouth.

It's really not that hard to get the whole thing in your mouth. Just go really slowly and make sure you breath through your nose. It takes a lot of concentration. But you can used to it.
I know my man enjoys it a lot, even though its harder for me to keep a rythm going once its all in.

Everyone gave some really great tips. You should also read cosmo, there are always great sex tips in there and everything is usually explained pretty clearly.

I think he's an fool for telling you that u suck at sucking. Totally not sensitive. He better give u good head.

Heh. If he told me I sucked. I'd bite :twisted:

i dunno. When i'd share my trademark move, but nah lol.

Advice:
1) don't use teeth
2) teasing is good
3) lick the head, but also lick the 1cm area below the head
4) swallow if you want to, but spit if it's way too gross (or too much)
5) if he can't be constructive with criticism, then it's his fault

You guys are making me want to give head now.

Also try while you are going in a up and down motion with your mouth giving him some tounge work also, that work a lot also.

Also what I do is put a slight amount of pressure on the large vien right above his balls just to get him going and it works really well.

Use some tasty lubricant! I think as you get older you learn more and get better at it!

Don't put up with someone telling you you're not "that good" or not good enough... I have had a guy tell me something similar, and now that I am older, if I could go back to when I was that age, I wouldn't put up with it :)) ...You seem like youre subjecting yourself to his criticism and getting really anxious and feeling put down over what he says... Just because one guy tells you you're "not that good" doesn't mean it's the truth... But don't go looking for acceptance from other guys... Is *he* that good for you? Maybe hes not bringing the best out in you... A good guy who's good in bed should teach you how to please him and be good at teaching you and make it good for you... Don't make the mistake of subjecting yourself to being put down... And if you can wait for marriage and until youre committed for life...