Delayed Ejaculation/lack of Stimulation Posted: 01-02-06 06:42am
Sorry, this messgae is a bit long but I
really need help so please stick with
me!!!
I'm 16 yrs old, and I have just started
having intercourse with my girlfriend of 2
months. I was a virgin before this.
We've had sex 3 times now and i've never
ejaculated whilst having intercourse.
I've heard this could be delayed
ejaculation, but we have masturbuted
together and I have ejaculated in her
presense and i'm pretty sure I don't have
a psychological problem? I suppose the
fact i'm worrying about coming or not cud
have reverse effects??
I have been faking orgasm, because i'm
scared it will piss her off or make her
feel uncomfortable. I am happy not
ejaculating but obviosly I want to get
over this problem early so I don't have it
the rest of my life and I do want to feel
the sensations or coming inside the girl I
love...
I have heard that this could also be
because I masturbate alot, with quite alot
of pressure on my penis which could be
reducing sensitivity. Apparently using an
larger condom and lube inside can help
increase stimulation, I am 7.2" inches
long and quite wide so could the condom be
reducing stimulaton??
The other worry is I think I have slot of
foreskin and when I pull it back it may be
covering the base of the head, could this
reduce stimulaton. The glans are stil
showing....
I'm goin to explain my problem to my gf
this weekend, but any advise on how I can
say it so as not to make her feel stuff I
love having sex at the moment, just
watching her enjoying herself and I don't
wnt to change anything becasue of this
problem...
What should I do, please help me!!!
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-14-06 22:14pm
I can almost completely gaurentee (based
on ur age) to you that it's nerves. As
much as you might not want to beleive it,
this is the cause of problems like this in
atleast 90-95% of cases in guys ur age....
It could also be that your not in the
right "mental state," but I think you
being nervous is more likely. Let me
know if you have any more questions.
