over the past few months I started
worrying about my frenulum
it's too short and i'm afraid it will
hurt/cut when i'll have sex
when I was little (i think I was about 2
or 3 years old) I got a little surgery for
it but I guess it kinda grew wrong again?
I'm not circumcised
i'm 19 now
my question is kinda, when i'll have sex
wearing a condom, and my foreskin is
pulled back just over the glans, will it
ummm work? Or do you really have to
pull it all the way back? Cuz that
makes my glans bend downwards quite a lot
i'm afraid to get a frenuloplasty, I read
a story about this guy and he describes it
as the worst pain ever, and over night it
started bleeding and his whole bed was
covered in blood
also i'd find it rather strange to tell my
parents "hey I 'discovered' I got frenulum
breve!"
maybe some of you have experience with
this, so please let me know, especially
about the condom part,
cheers
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Breve
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Posted: 01-04-06 11:47am
Ok I just tried on a condom for the first
time in my life and I must say it was
quite impossible
the frenulum pulls my glans downwards and
the not-fully pulled back forskin 'blocks'
the condom
i feel so bad :( I don't know what to do
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kword
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Posted: 01-04-06 20:46pm
Does this hurt when you are erect?
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Breve
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Posted: 01-05-06 02:04am
kword
wrote:
does this hurt when you are
erect?
not really, when I pull the foreskin
further than the glans the frenulum just
pulls
i told my girlfriend about this last
night, she was cool with it and said I
should get that frenuloplasty done
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ian_cana
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Posted: 01-05-06 02:32am
Hey, my banjo string isnt exactly long
either. So I would like to ask the guys
this question (uncircumsized):
when you are fully erected, once you pull
back your foreskin as far as you can w/o
pain or discomfort, is there any foreskin
left over that cant be pulled back due to
your banjo string?
If so, how much?
I, personaly have a band of skin 0.5-1 cm
benieth the rim
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Breve
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Posted: 01-05-06 02:39am
ian_cana
wrote:
hey, my banjo string isnt
exactly long either. So I would like to
ask the guys this question
(uncircumsized):
when you are fully erected, once you pull
back your foreskin as far as you can w/o
pain or discomfort, is there any foreskin
left over that cant be pulled back due to
your banjo string?
If so, how much?
I, personaly have a band of skin 0.5-1 cm
benieth the
rim
yeah me too, it's some rolled up foreskin
that can't fo further because of the short
frenulum, it's almost immidiatly under the
rim
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ian_cana
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Posted: 01-05-06 02:50am
Alright, so, did yours rip or do you jsut
have some phobia against it.
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Breve
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Posted: 01-05-06 04:40am
I'm pretty sure it will hurt and maybe rip
when I penetrate
oh, plus the fact that my girlfriend is
not very tall...
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ian_cana
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Posted: 01-05-06 12:39pm
Last night I tryed looking for info on how
far back exactly the skin should be
pulled. I found this site [Dead
Link] and through this link on the
same site: [Dead Link] you can see
pics of a retracted foreskin. Thats
about exactly what mine looks like. The
site talked about the buildup of excess
skin in that same area to be a good thing.
Hey breve, your links arent working. I
managed to find my way to the first 3
pages however. But the last I cant find.
Anyways. If you say you can get the first
pic but none other than your situation
seems worse then mine. Although, I can
get the 2nd but the 3rd doesnt even lok
erected, in addition, I would be surprised
if someone could fully retract their
foreskin.
I was thinking about it for a while today
and I think its probible that if you 'wear
it out' alot than the skin should ease up
and loosten. Thats jsut my uneducated
recomendation.
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rob_uk
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Posted: 01-06-06 07:19am
Hi,
i just thought id add this incase it
happens to you or anyone else. Last year
I was having sex with a girl and she was
on top, I guess she went down a little
hard at a point and my frenulum ripped. I
felt a little nip but I centainly wasnt in
agony as we carried on having sex.
It wasnt until afterard that we noticed
there was quite a lot of blood. Which is
to expected as all the blood is flowing to
your penis when its erect.
Anyway, it took a couple of weeks but then
I was able to have sex again and
everything is fine. It doesnt look any
different, the foreskin goes a little
futher back now but nothing unusual.
Anyway, I dont know if that helps anyone,
I just thought id mention if anyones does
happen to rip, its not a serious problem
although it can seem scarey
:)
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ian_cana
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Posted: 01-07-06 02:25am
Yea, it did thanks. This whole 'ripping'
makes me twinge. Its liek watching
papercuts.
Thanks again.
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Breve
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Posted: 01-07-06 03:28am
Ok thanks for the ermm 'advice' rob_uk :)
i think i'll just have to get a little
surgery done then, i'm a bit scared tho
and I don't look forward to the whole
healing process
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ian_cana
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Posted: 01-07-06 13:13pm
Make sure youre under local anithstecic,
rob's story may make it sounds like
nothing but I have heard it can be
painful. However, the anithstetic will
make all the difference in the world.
Cheers.
Ps. Good luck and if you do get it done,
would you mind possibley updating this
thread to tell me how it went. If it went
well than I might consider it myself,
thank you breve.
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Breve
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Posted: 01-07-06 13:18pm
Well actually my dad's a doctor, so he
knows people who are best at this kind of
surgeries I guess
hehe it's funny you call me breve cuz
that's obviously a quick nickname I picked
to make this topic
i promise i'll let you know how it went,
thanks for following this topic and
helping out, cheers !
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ahdser33
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Hi Posted: 01-21-06 20:17pm
Hi. I'm thirteen (just old enough to use
this site) and recently my frenulum
snapped/ripped :shock: while I was
cleaning in the bath. Long story.
Basically, I felt a twang of pain and saw
blood gushing from my frenulum, which was
about it. :? That happened on
thursday (today is saturday) and I am
feeling better already. :d
when I was born; my mother wouldn't let
the doctor circumsize me (there was no
anesthetic). My godmother had three sons
who were uncircumsized, but bled every
time they had sex; so they were
circumsized. My mother told me that if I
wanted that, I could have the procedure
done. However, I really don't want to be
circumsized :cry: (too freaked out).
This makes me embarassed, however, because
babies get it done all the time and they
can stand it :oops: .
So, I went to a website to look up my
condition, and found this article about
frenuloplasty
(http://www.Circumstitions.Com/frenbrev.Ht
ml). It is written by a man who had it
done and says that there was no pain
besides an injection. I'm thinking of
having it done (in a few years) if it
seems this easy. I really want to get
married and have a nice relationship with
my wife sexually and have children :wink:
.
However, I have always told myself that if
I can't have children or sex for some
reason, I will become a roman catholic
priest :roll: . What do you think?
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Breve
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Posted: 01-22-06 01:47am
^ lol
well, i'm gonna tell my parents about this
in a week or 2, then we'll see where we
can get an appointment with a doctor and
get this over with
i just hope it doesn't need too much work
after the surgery
cuz i've read a story about a guy who had
to soak his frenulum in hot water 3 times
a day for about a week, I don't see myself
running around at college with a thermos
with hot water hehe
anywayz, i'll tell you how it went in a
few weeks
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Breve
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Posted: 03-21-06 05:57am
Hello, i'm sorry for the awful late reply,
but i'm gonna see a specialist tomorrow
who's gonna look if it's necessary to do a
surgery
the stress !!!
To be continued
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Breve
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Posted: 03-22-06 14:48pm
Ok, I went to the doctor, and guess what,
I have frenulum breve
i made an appointment for the 4th of
april
i talked with him about the surgery, and
he told me they use some sort of gel
instead of an injection to anaesthetize
it
