He wants his cake and eat it too. He does not want the responsibility. Take him to the cleaners! Just you being 5 months pregnant is difficult enough but to add this on top of it. We cannot tell you what to do but I do hope that you make the right decision.
Good luck to you!

Yup, he is a .J.E.R.K!!!

You're better than that!

Do what makes you happy...

What a complete arse!!

I don't know what else to tell you but I just wanted to say good luck and you can get through this.

lol that was funny but it's not a funny situation. What a jackass. I would find out what was going on and if he keeps lying just divorce his ass. I know it's easier said than done but what kind of jerk lies and leaves his pregannt wife? Just be carefull.

Terrible timing on his part I might say!

Wow.. It just doesnt make sense to me at all..
I think something is up..Sorry to say..
If you wanna talk, we're all here!
Have you talked to him since??

Sorry I haven't responded in a few days. For whatever reason my account was inactivated and I couldn't log on. I was supposed to contact some forum administrator but I couldn't figure out how. Anyway, i've talked to him (my husband) and I am more confused than ever. He's still talking like he wants to stay married but he doesn't call very often. In this past week i've talked to him twice. He knows that i've been spotting and he hasn't even called to check whether or not I am okay. I really do love him and I want us to work out but I don't think it's going to because there's too much going on that he won't explain to me. I've lost respect and trust for him. I guess i'm just going to have to let go even though I don't want to. I don't need this stress. I don't know what to do or say and most days I don't want to get out of my bed and go to work but I know that I have to or else i'll lose everything else. Sorry I don't mean to bring everyone else down but i'm pretty down right now.

How long have you been married? Are you in contact with any of his family and do they know know whats going on? You've got to ask yourself these questions, why would he tell me he's moving to l.A., then find out that he's actually in texas? And, why would he just assume he would be going alone? I don't want to scare you, but women in this situation sometimes don't have a good ending. Don't let yourself be one of them. Do you have family where you are now? If so, stay with them.
I don't know your whole story, but i've been married for 14 years and if my husband ever did something like that, I would def think something really really wrong was going on. Take care and be careful!

I have to agree with her on that..
Something is going on... Why would he tell u he was moving one place and then move to another? Why all the lies? And if he wants ur marriage to work why wouldnt he want u to go with him.. If I was in that kind of situation it would be a joint decision, exspecially being 5 months pregnant.. Either way I think it is very important to find out exacly what is going on, you dont need the stress right now, but it will probably be stressing you out more not knowing exacly what the f*** is goin on! How long have you been married? You must know his family pretty good.. Could you call someone in his family hes close to and talk to them about whats going on? Maybe they know something. Is it possible ur husband isjust scared??? It doesnt make sense for him not to call you, do you call him? And when you do talk what do you talk about.. Sorry just trying to understand and help

Now he's calling almost every day twice a day. I'm so confused. He swears that he's just down there working. I don't know what to believe, i'm so confused. I wish I had the money to hire a pi and find out what's really going on... I've called his fam they said they'd check up on him and get back to me. That was a week ago. I haven't heard anything from them since. But since its his fam that's where the loyalty is.