It Was Definately a Miscarriage Posted: 01-05-06 12:07pm
:cry: I went to the doctors yesterday
morning and I found it that my supposidly
"broken blood vessel" turned out to be a
miscarriage just starting and taking it's
time... I'm soo upset like i'll be ok
for a while and I just start to get
excited bc I am still thinking i'm
pregnant and the reality hits me that I am
going through a miscarriage. Which he
didn't do a d&c bc I was still so
early that the fetus didn't even really
develop. So I am passing this "product"
as the dr's call it (which to me is my
dead baby!) and everytime I go to the
bathroom there is so much blood and
bloodclots it makes me start balling. My
fiance says we'll just try again in a
couple weeks at the end of january...But
wouldn't it be bad to try again that
soon...Has anybody had a miscarriage their
first pregnancy then had a healthy baby
soon after?? I need some advice. :cry:
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chrissy721
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Posted: 01-05-06 12:13pm
I would probably wait until everything is
settled down a little bit. Alot of women
have miscarriages and have healthy babies
after that. I've heard alot of women
have a miscarriage their first time, but I
don't know if that's true. My mom did,
and then she got pregnant with me a few
weeks later. So just take it easy, and
don't get too worried. It'll take time
to get over, but you will.
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hotty
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Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 261 Location: texas
Hi Posted: 01-05-06 12:59pm
Oh im sorry about what happened, it will
take some time to get over, but you will
do just fine , but remember your baby is
in heaven, it is alive and well there,
just say to yourself my baby is in heaven,
and that is still your child, baby dust
to you, baby spinkles, you will have
more children, and they will be so
beautiful, take care of yourself honny,
you will be blessed, god had a reason, who
knew what he was doing, , my best friend
had a misscarriage, she was about 2
months, and then she came down with
bacterial menengitis , and it hurt the
baby, so they had to abbort it, so you
will have other children, and they will be
blest, remember , god will bless you with
many kids, take care, and baby dust to
you, from hotty. :)
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Ta-ra
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 97 Location: uk
Posted: 01-05-06 19:44pm
Aww I kow how u feel hun. I miscarried on
17th dec 05' and still bleeding till this
day. Im gonna let my body rest even tho I
was 11weeks and 6days preggers. Just
gonna let my body recover and then try
again.
Doc told me if we was to try again to wait
till I have my period so we know what teh
dates are makes it easier for them .
So im gonna wait for my next period and
could be heavy also.
I too have blood clots and some tissue or
paper like stuff coming out. Am also
gonna get a doc apt as its been 3weeks now
and im still bleeding. Just ant her to
say everythings ok or summat, get it
checked again.
Anyway if u wanna chat im here and
available on msn if u wish to chat.
Friends and family are what u need right
now to recover.
It might look bleek now but the futures
bright for us thats how I see it :)
