Im only 18, still a senior in highschool,
my boyfriend does not want a baby and I
might be pregnant, not sure yet, but the
scare is there. And I have this sick
feeling that ill get my period on the 10th
or 11th like always and I think that
allthough I know its wrong for me to want
this at this time in my life but I think
ill be disapointed to not be pregnant, I
think that dispite the horrible timing, I
want this...Is that so wrong? :oops:
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jewelskye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 172 Location: Los Angeles
Posted: 01-06-06 18:05pm
Not at all. As young women it is natural
to want to be pregnant. I was never
necessarily hoping for it yet, but i'm
going to be a mom, and that's great.
You're eighteen, probably just graduating
this year - I think that if you feel it is
the right time, and your boyfriend wants
to support and love you and the baby, go
for it, hon. But make sure it's the right
thing. Pm me or email
(jewelskye19@hotmail.Com) if you want to
talk.
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hunterjumper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 203 Location: British Columbia, Canada
Posted: 01-06-06 19:12pm
It's not wrong but it doesn't sound like
you're in a good enough space to have a
child, especially with someone who has
already made it clear that he's not
interested in having children. Trust me,
being a single mother only seems easy in
your mind. It's *very* hard and *very*
lonely. It's not something you should
volunteer yourself for.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 01-07-06 01:21am
No its not wrong ...I am 18 and also in
high school....When I found out I was
pregnant I wasnt upset at all...It was a
shock....But I had no anger or anything
towards what I had done...I was happy with
my boyfriend and it was actually a high
point in my life ....I think you should
talk with your boyfriend...And if you are
pregnant I think he will actually become
very excited...Just dont throw it all on
him at once...Im sure he is scared and
confused ...But thats normal...
