The other day my boyfriend broke up with
me. It hurt because he sent so many mixed
signals; like at midnight on new years day
he called me to wish me a happy new year
and that he loved me. When he dumped me
he told me it was because of stuff at
home, but I didn't believe him.
Through out the relationship he always
went on about my pervious. I put up with
it for a while but one night I broke into
tears and told him how I was scared about
how he might start treating me the same
way my ex did. And guess what? After
telling him that he did started treating
me badly.
I think the real reason he dumped me was
because he wanted out of the relationship
and has started talking to an old
girlfriend he re-gained feelings for.
I feel like I get dumped for better girls
and that i'm never good enough.
What can I do?
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PuffPuff
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Posts: 10
Posted: 01-06-06 21:05pm
Are you retarded?
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mindoculus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 17 Location: new york city
Re: Sad And Newly Single. Posted: 01-11-06 21:20pm
heymiss
wrote:
the other day my boyfriend
broke up with me. It hurt because he
sent so many mixed signals; like at
midnight on new years day he called me to
wish me a happy new year and that he loved
me. When he dumped me he told me it was
because of stuff at home, but I didn't
believe him.
Through out the relationship he always
went on about my pervious. I put up with
it for a while but one night I broke into
tears and told him how I was scared about
how he might start treating me the same
way my ex did. And guess what? After
telling him that he did started treating
me badly.
I think the real reason he dumped me was
because he wanted out of the relationship
and has started talking to an old
girlfriend he re-gained feelings for.
I feel like I get dumped for better girls
and that i'm never good enough.
What can I do?
your ex had serious issues himself which,
for whatever reason, you chose
to look past and assume the blame for.
You need to straighten your thinking out.
You need to look deeper, develop certain
ironclad principles about yourself and
about how you should expect others to
treat you, and always hold to them.
You are not a failure because this loser
moved on. He did you the favor.
You were throwing heavy issues at him that
not surprisingly he could not handle.
But, again, what you need to worry about
are the guidelines and rules that you need
to create that will help you find your way
through the
next challange.
Sometimes the mistakes you make wont just
walk away.
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ironmantaylors
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 38 Location: montana
Posted: 01-11-06 21:42pm
puffpuff
wrote:
are you
retarded?
what kind of response is this?............
Count your blessings young lady, this bf
is inmature and you deserve
better.............It is not the women he
or others are dating that are better than
you..........Probably that they have not
figured out he is a loser yet, and he was
insecure that you were on to him, so he
dropped the bomb to inflate his ego. He
can tell everyone he dumped you, like he
was to good for you...............No
worries you will find someone better than
he someday..........True.
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