Okay, my name's emily, i'm 16. Me and and
my boyfriend broke up a little under a
month ago, but things between me and him
are still good, we're still best friends
and we fool around occasionally. We never
slept together before, but we started on
newyears. I know this was probably
stupid, but we didn't use protection. I
used to be on the pill, but stopped taking
the one I had cause I didn't like it and
ahvn't started a different one yet.
So we had sex a few times on new years and
the few days following with no protection.
Just out of curiosity I did a little
calender check and realized that I had
been ovulating the whole time. Now my
boobs are growing and i've been really
tired and I got really nauseous last night
for no reason.
I know there's always a possibility to be
pregnant, but do you all think it's
likely?? And if I am... How do I tell my
ex?? We used to fool around a lot *in the
area* and I was really late before and
talked to him about it and he got really
stressed and told me how he doesn't want
kids, then I found out I wasn't and I felt
really bad for stressing him out over
nothing. I don't want to do that to him
again. What do yall think I should do?
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fuzzybuttedmonky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Feb 2004 Posts: 132 Location: Lansing, Ks
Posted: 01-07-06 14:28pm
K 1 ... U might be pregnant ... But if
so ud just now be getting symptoms and I
don think ur bbs would be that much bigger
just yet. N im not gonna sit here n tell
u ur stupid for not usin any protection
... I never did ... Until I got
pregnant. Its pretty likely but then
again only 25% of "couples" havin sex get
pregnant every month so ... Eh. I didnt
get pregnant for a yr and a half, but that
was just me and him. And u know if uve
talked to him about it and he got stressed
out thats his problem. He shoulda been
more careful or hell just have to accept
the responsibility for it. Even the guys
that ay they are ok if u get pregnant
freak out and leave ... Trust me. But
for future reference ... Like with any
guy not just this one ... Wait until ur
late ... Then test and if ur not pregnant
dont say anything ... Bc it just makes
things tons worse all around. I hope
that helps a lil bit but if u ever wanna
talk im here.
Gl and let us ... Or at least me know how
it goes ... I hope u get the answer u
want.
~kit~
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fragilenonsense
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2006 Posts: 2 Location: MA
Posted: 01-12-06 11:16am
So the last couple days i've been getting
a little nauseous randomly throughout the
day and have found that I can't eat large
amounts without feeling really sick but am
constantly hungry. I've been really
tired and sleeping a lot lately as well.
The only thing is that all this stuff also
could just be a result from thinking that
I am and could be a mental thing, but I
don't think it is.
I'm planning on picking up a home
pregnancy test today but it probably
wouldn't show up till next thursday.
Also, today I had a tint in my discharge,
but I had sex last night. Could the tint
just be from that? It would be too early
for me to spotting cause i'm not due for
my period for a couple mroe days. Also
there was slight pain, not like cramps,
but directly in the middle... It lasted
only a couple seconds and I havn't felt it
since... But it was kinda weird...
