Lack of Intreset In Sex She Had An Abortion Could Is This It Posted: 01-07-06 14:14pm
The date was june 17,2004 my first love
got an abortion, I tied talking her out of
it. But she would not. I first had sex
with her when she we was 17 and we create
a real big sex drive for the both of us.
She would want to have sex all the time.
We had sex in her car, my car, my room,
her room her living room her sister room,
her friend room, every where I can think
of. Once she got pregnant she still
wanted to have sex. She was the best.
Once she had the abortion she slowly stop
have sex with me. Then she went a way to
college. I went and visit her we had sex
a few times in her room. Then we went to
a hotel for the week. And she didn’t
want to have sex a lot like she use to. I
was not mad but because I just thought she
was tired. She came home for christmas
and we had sex only 3 times I was having
sex with her 4 to 5 times a day. The she
stop having organism. That really mad me
look at her in a differed way. She was my
life I fell in love with her. Know I am
thinking she is cheating on me because she
say no longer have sex. I know I am a guy
so it is only rite to think like so :lol:
in april in would be a full year that me
and her have not had sex. I told her I
was going to cheat and she would cry but
she will not have sex wit me. I love this
girl the first girl I ever went down and
only girl. I invested so much time into
her. But I think I am going to cheat if
she don’t have with me. I am an aries
and I have a really high sex drive she is
an aries as well. Some one help
me!!!!!!!!!! Please I dont want to cheat.
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aimee23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2005 Posts: 10 Location: preston
Posted: 01-07-06 14:52pm
Well I knowtis is from a womans point of
view but if you love her you need to
stick by her. It can be traumatic having
an abortion. She perhaps needs to know
that you dont just want her for sex.
Howeveryou can spend intimate time
together without actually having sex maybe
do something romantic. Have a bath
together but assure her you do not want
sex at the end of it. Just get
comfortable with each other again. Maybe
try foreplay with no sex. The more
pressure is on her the harder it wil be
for her to relax. I dont know how old you
both are but if things are really
difficult you could see a counsellor at
relate either seperately or together. You
may think that sounds silly n you can work
it out yourselves but if you really love
each other nothing is too much it is a
free service and cant do any harm. Maybe
your girlfriend has some issues she wants
to disuss. Hope this wll help. Good
luck.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 01-07-06 15:09pm
Keep in mind she is your first love. Sit
down and talk to her about the situation.
The above post said pretty much
everything.
Good luck!
You'd be shocked how much it really
affects a woman after abortion, many of
them become really depressed, do some
research on the internet, look up
"abortion" and find what it does to a
woman emotionally.
You may understand more by reading this,
than anyone could ever explain to you.
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z56
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Feb 2005 Posts: 3
Yea I Sorry I Didnt Get Back Sooner Posted: 02-01-06 21:10pm
I have tried to have a bath with her I
tried all kinds of things. Maybe it is me
not her. My mind runs in circles thinking
of crazy thing I think she is doing I
trust her and I love her but my mind play
tricks on it and I make my self believe
crazy things. I really wanted to tell my
mother about the abortion, but I said I
would tell any one. Some times I think
that was the stupidest mistake I ever
made. I have a real high sex drive and I
want no other girl but her. I talk to her
about the abortion and she don't want to
talk about it. Some times I think she
dont even care about what we did. But
when we are around kinds that is one she
always look at me sad or say some like
this is how our baby would have been then
it make me mad. I have no clue but thanks
for you help.
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