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Q: Hi I Really Need Help! Plzzzz Post Bak Sum1
asked by: shaunna on January 7th, 2006
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Hi today I had sex 4 the first time and he didn't wear protection! I felt a pain in my lower abdomen after but im not sure if my hymen (cherrie) broke as there was no blood..It was painful tho! It lasted about 5-10 minutes and I just wondered if anyone knew the chances of me been pregnant??? N should I buy a pregnancy test?? I would like 2 be pregnant but I am onli 13 years old. Plzzzz sum1 help! X :cry:
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Tamadrummer
replied on January 7th, 2006
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There is always a chance that you can be prego but for your own sake, do not become prego yet. I am 33 and my wife is 30 and it is taking 100% of our lives and finances to raise this baby. He is not a doll baby that stops crying when we put him down, he cries almost the entire time he is up and it is very difficult to do anything or go anywhere.

You would be well advised to not do it! Stay in school so you can learn how to type out whole words and make complete sentences.
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on January 7th, 2006
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Well yeah you could be pregnant....Again I ask why at 13 are you having unprotected sex?...You dont want to be pregnant at your age ...Im 18 and its hard enough for me ...School,money, job, baby....Sleep....You need to think about things ...Heck you dont even have a car ..How would you take your baby to the doctor...And how will you have money for the many things that are needed for a baby....You need to have fun while you are young and stop worrying about sex, boy, and babys....

You do need to take a hpt...But you will have to wait till 4-5 days before your next period...And tell your parents...!!!

Advice----dont have unprotected sex again...And if you are going to continue having sex be mature and tell your parents ..So they can get you on birth control...B/c I believe that if you cant tell your parents then truthfully you arent mature enough to be having sex...But best of luck!
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Lilypad
replied on January 8th, 2006
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Statistically you would have about a 25% chance of getting pregnant. However you really need to think about this. If you are only 13 think of how much a baby would change your life right now! And the odds of you and your boyfriend sticking together at this young of an age are very slim. I do hope that you get on some birth control if you keep having sex as well as start using condoms. Stds are more common than you think and many of them can haunt you for the rest of your life. Please be careful and be responsable.
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AlliE_18
replied on January 8th, 2006
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You cant raise a baby at 13, for one you still have to go to school all day for another 2/3 years at least. I doubt anyone else wants to spend their days looking after him/her for you. You won't have much money for anything, and your baby will likely grow up thinking and calling your parents mum n dad not you. Just wait a while then have as many babies as you like. Get your boyfriend to buy a pack of condoms asap.
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