Joined: 08 Aug 2003 Posts: 5 Location: charlotte nc
What Should I Do?????? Posted: 08-08-03 23:57pm
My boyfriend wants me to have a baby with
him. I want to believe that he'll stay
but that's hard to do!!! He says that he
wont leave but most boys say that. I
love him alot and I don't want to lose
him, then I don't want to have his baby
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april_lee1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Aug 2003 Posts: 1
Hey Posted: 08-10-03 01:28am
Hi, I am in the same place you are, but I
think I already am pregnant. My bf wants
me to have a baby, and also says the same
mess all other guys tell their girls.
But I am so unsure of what to do too.
But I guess the place to start is how old
are you both and how long have you bee
tgether? Do what feels right and if that
is to make a child together dont let any
body stop you. Good luck
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KrIbAr
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Aug 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Da Burg
Wait Posted: 08-10-03 14:29pm
Hey if you are in high school and you can
help it then wait!!! Finish school!!
Tell him if he really loves you then he
will support and understand your decision
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Misty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 52 Location: Nova Scotia
Do U Love Him? Posted: 08-12-03 10:20am
If he loves you he will wait. And if not
having a baby isn't the only choice - lots
of people have children they have to put
up for adoption. But make sure you have
your education first! And if he wants to
have ababy then tell him you want to be
married b-cuz then he can't just up and go
and if he does theres child support. Make
sure you love each other theres no going
back once you've got urself pregnant!
Good luck - o and u didnt seem to sure
that you really really loved him so i'd
double check that
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-12-03 12:41pm
Hey girl. Before we go into the whole "if
he loves me, he wont leave" kinda
discussion. Answer this: what do you
want?!
Simply as that, if you want to have a
baby, then go ahead and be aware of the
potential break up if he is not ready.
If you dont want a baby, then tell him so.
Talk to him. And I mean communicate
with him, ask him why he wants a baby now?
And discuss what happens after the baby
is born? Like discuss ur future with
him. See if he actually has any plan at
all or he is just dreaming.
Yea if he loves u, he wont leave, but how
do we really know?!
I think the most important thing is what
you want not what he wants.
And do not have that thought which "i have
to have his baby coz I dont want him to
leave me if I dont" that's the worst
thought u could have! Dont have his baby
to try to keep him, it never works
