Hello all!
My boyfriend and I have been trying to get
pregnant for a good year! I don't know
why I havn't been able to get pregnant
yet! It's really difficult every month
when I think I could be, but then i'm not.
I need some help, and some moral support.
Sometimes I just want to cry thinking
maybe I cant have children. I have been
pregnant once before when I was 17, and
was forced into abortion:( since I have
been with my boyfriend, I don't know if I
feel I need to make up for our first baby,
or if I really want one. Either way I
have not become pregnant yet. Please -
any encouraging words, or advice.
Thanks :cry:
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rainy1279
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 71 Location: Texas
I'm Here For Ya! Posted: 01-10-06 23:05pm
I am in the same boat with ya (sorta).
I've never been pregnant. But I was
married about 3 years ago & we tried,
but I could never get pregnant. Now my
boyfriend & I want to have a baby, so
I stopped taking bc about 6 months ago
& have been taking folic acid &
prenat. Vit. But for some reason it
hasn't happened yet. Since i'm off my bc
I really don't have a regular period...
For a couple of months I will.. Then I
will be "late" according to my dates..
& I get excited just for my period to
come... Then this past time I started
having sore breast, so I got to thinkin
maybe its happening this month... But
no... Its a new thing i'm going to get
every month now to go along with the
cramps & headache...I understand how
you feel every month not being
pregnant...So i'm here for you...
So are you wanting to get pregnant? I
would be happy to share thoughts with
ya... :)
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kb77
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 100
Posted: 01-10-06 23:52pm
Yeah I really do want to get pregnant! I
have been waiting for so long, and I don't
see the problem. There is nothing wrong
with me acoording to the doc. How about
you? Do you really want it bad, or are
you still kind of in between?
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rainy1279
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 71 Location: Texas
Oh Yeah Posted: 01-10-06 23:59pm
I really want a bundle of joy..& I too
am afraid that I can't get pregnant...
But all signs say that I can ... I don't
know... I hate not knowing. Everyone
says don't worry about it, your time will
come..But its always the people that
already have kids. I guess what i'm
saying is that I know how you feel.. Just
want you to know your not alone. :)
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kb77
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 100
Thanks! Posted: 01-11-06 00:05am
It's nice to know that someone else is
going through the same thing. I wish you
so much luck! I hope that it happens for
you soon. I also hear that from everyone
else, and it is usually the friends of
mine that have kids. They are always
saying don't rush, its so much stress.
Well all I can say is you wouldn't feel
that way if you were in my shoes. If you
wanted a baby so bad and kept getting your
period. It's also so hard to see people
who don't even want to get pregnant - get
pregnant. They're mad about it, while I
crying inside because it's not me. I
would love to keep in touch with you while
we go through this together.
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mbulldog26
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 25 Location: Tenn
Posted: 01-11-06 00:18am
Just a little advice that I gave my
brother and his wife. Stress is a huge
factor....It can effect your body in so
many ways, most of the changes you will
not even notice. My husband and I tried
to conceive for 2 years with no luck, when
we finally decided to stop trying so hard
and go on with our lives (so to speak)
that is when I got pregnant. I actually
had made an appt. To get on birth control
at the end of dec, I got a bfp two weeks
before that appt.
My daughter is now three years old, and
she is well worth all the waiting we had
to go through. So I say relax and keep
trying when the time is right you will be
blessed.
Baby dust to you all!
Marisa
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kb77
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 100
Thanks! Posted: 01-11-06 00:32am
I appreciate that. I am trying to stop
stressing about it, it just gets difficult
at times. I know god will bless me when
the time is right, I just keep hoping
every month that the time is right!
Lol!!!! It will be a huge step , and I
can't wait for that day that it happens
for me.
Send all the baby dust you can! Lol :)
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mbulldog26
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 25 Location: Tenn
Posted: 01-11-06 08:11am
I just wanted to let you know that I was
not trying to down play your feelings, I
know how it feels to want a baby. I did
not want you to think that I was saying
just get over it, because it is surely not
that easy!
I am sending all the baby dust I can to
you :d
best wishes, and I am here if you ever
need someone to talk to.
Marisa
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rainy1279
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 71 Location: Texas
Posted: 01-11-06 09:37am
Yeah I hear the don't stress about it....I
too feel the same way... & I agree
with you I understand how hard it is to
see someone who doesn't really want kids
or doesn't want them yet to get pregnant.
I'm here for ya if you need someone to
talk to. I may be doing the same thing
with you.. Lots of luck & * baby dust
*
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kb77
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 100
Yup! Posted: 01-11-06 13:46pm
It's just going to be a continuous cycle
here. Trying every month, and hoping not
to fail. So marissa - do you have any
kids now? I know rainy and I are in the
same boat:)
