Thank you everyone for your suggestions and letting me know i'm not alone on this one!!:) lol!
I always stay away from caffeine (i have lots of energy and normally it takes alot for me to sleep, so me and caffeine don't get along) - I did try the warm shower (i hate baths) and thanks for the tip of staying away from hot water - that didn't really work either, though it was very relaxing!
But, I finally found something that worked!!!! When I was younger I used to play the piano (classical) and that always helped me get tired and was soo relaxing! So now, I read school stuff (b/c i'm back in school), which gets me tired (but doesn't help me sleep), then I play the piano (keyboards, close enough), mozart, beethoven, etc... All those types of sonatos, and boooooommmm, before you know it! I'm can't keep my eyes open and my mind is sooo clear even if I wanted to think of something I can't b/c it's soo relaxed!
So, either play an instrument (classical) before you go to bed, or if you don't play an instrument, put some classical music on with your lights off, and I guarentee you'll be asleep before you know it! It even doesn't even matter when I get up at 3am or 6am to pee, I can' still fall right back to sleep now (i hope i'm not speaking too prematurely now), lol!!!