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54321
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Pls Help - So Worried
Posted: 01-11-06 12:16pm
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A few weeks ago it was a friend’s 18th
birthday party. We were all really drunk.
Anyways, in this state I stupidly pulled
another girl. On the dance floor in a
club my hand went down her knickers, I
touched her but did not insert my fingers
into her, and pulled out straight away due
to realisation of what was happening. I
do remember her being very wet down there
though. Is this a sign that she was
ovulating at the time?
My concern is this - I masturbated at
around 4.30pm on the same day before I
went out, and I estimate that I got with
this girl at around midnight. I am now
paranoid that I may have gotten this girl
pregnant. I did not have a shower after I
masturbated before I went out. I did
however obviously urinate in between the
events. I am worried that I may have gone
to the toilet in the club, and touched my
penis whilst urinating with my fingers and
then got with this girl afterwards. I did
not wash my hands in the toilet.
My first question is how long can sperm
live in this situation after I masturbated
– for example can it live for the time
since masturbation to the time in the club
under my foreskin or on my penis?
Secondly, if I was excited by dancing with
girls etc in the club, and I then touched
my penis, would any pre-cum or remaining
cum still contain live sperm? Also, if I
did get anything on my fingers, how long
would they survive in a club environment?
I also suffer from sweaty hands if this
has anything to do with the lifespan of
sperm?
Also, if I did have sperm on my finger,
and she was wet down in that region, even
though I did not insert my finger, what
are the chances of pregnancy?
If I did have sperm on my fingers, what is
the lifespan of survival in a club
situation – how long would it take for
the sperm to dry and die etc?
I am going mad with worry - and what makes
it worse is that I had a girlfriend when
this happened, although she was not there.
I love my girlfriend and the thought that
I have hurt her makes me feel sick and
seriously bad about myself. I have told
my girlfriend that I pulled this girl and
she has dealt with it, but I am afraid of
telling her this other incident with her.
This is the first time I have ever cheated
on anyone and will be the last.
What are the chances of making this girl
pregnant?
Secondly, I know it is very unlikely I
will ever see this girl again even though
it happened in my own town, but what
happens if she did get pregnant and we
met?
Thirdly, I am so afraid of telling my
girlfriend or losing her if she found out
or if the girl was to become pregnant -
what should I do about this?
I know it seems very ott, but this is how
things work out in my head at the
moment.
I am finding it very hard to forgive
myself for what I have done - will it take
time for this to heal in my current
relationship, or will it always plague our
relationship…?
Hope someone can help - thanks
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Fudgecake
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Posted: 01-11-06 13:06pm
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Hey hun, right first sperm can only live
up to 3-5 mins outside the body so if it
was longer than that it is unlikely
however some sperm do manage to live a bit
longer but only a few mins. So if u
touched her then its unlikely after this
time. However if not then its a
possibilty becasue sperm can travel quite
quickly.
About the relationship ive never cheated
but ihave told my bf my feelings for
someone else and yea we tlk about it but I
wouldnt say it was a bad thing he noes I
want him and not the other guy. This
happened about a yr ago.
Neways hope I helped and try not to worry.
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54321
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Posted: 01-11-06 14:49pm
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Hey thanks for your reply...
What do u mean by this though.....??
| fudgecake
wrote: | | however if not then its a
possibilty becasue sperm can travel quite
quickly. |
thanks
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tasha82
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Posted: 01-11-06 15:43pm
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Don't worry, pregnancy without sex is
rare, and if it were to happen, the semen
would have to be ejaculated very close to
the vagina and find its way inside. But
sperm generally will not survive at room
temperature or when the semen dries out.
Think about it this way--situations like
yours probably happen all the time, and
you don't hear about people getting
pregnant that way.
Also, her wetness could have been because
she was ovulating, but not necessarily.
Wetness can happen for a number of
reasons. She may have just been aroused.
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54321
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Posted: 01-11-06 15:56pm
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Ok - thankyou for ur reassurance - so I
can forget about the 'what if she got
pregnant' question constantly floating
around in my head?
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tasha82
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Posted: 01-11-06 17:50pm
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You can forget about it. I think in this
case pregnancy would be a miracle :)
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Fudgecake
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Posted: 01-11-06 18:25pm
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Iment by sperm travellin quickly that
wensperm is inserted into a womans vagina
(if u did touch her intimately) sperm have
to travelup through the cervix and ready
to fertislise and egg. The sperm
acntravel quite quickly. However I agree
with tasha dont worry about it!
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cmilah
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Posted: 01-13-06 11:06am
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You have absolutely, positively no reason
to be worried bro :)
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czarg
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Forget D Possibility.
Posted: 01-13-06 11:15am
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Man, sperm don't live like dat.
Pregnancies can't happen like dat. Leave
dat sermon n move on.
But I must say kudos to you for the
respect u gat 4 yr gal. Keep it up.
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-14-06 22:35pm
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Don't be worried, you're fine, she's not
gonna get pregnant from that.
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54321
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Posted: 02-07-06 11:59am
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Hey - im still very worried and find it
hard to move on without thinking what if I
got her pregnant....Just a few little
questions.....
1) what if I had gotten pre-cum on my
finger in the toilet - would it contain
sperm and how quickly would I need to have
touched the girl to have made her
pregnant?
2) after my ejaculation earlier in the
evening, some sperm probably settled under
my foreskin. How long would these sperm
survive for under my foreskin - would they
have still been there when I went to the
toilet in the club?
3) if I had got sperm on my finger and
touched her down there, what are the
chances of pregnancy, even though I did
not insert my finger?
Sorry for the questions but I am still
very worried...
Thanks
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 02-07-06 15:35pm
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I worked at a hospital for school,yes
there is sperm in pre cum. Sperm die when
the air touches it is 99.9% she will not
be preg especially when you did not
indert.No worries,sperm can't live in the
air.
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54321
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Posted: 02-08-06 12:03pm
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I just cannot move on from the idea that
she may have gooten pregnant!!
So I have no reason to worry??
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Bridget
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Posted: 02-08-06 12:06pm
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I know we're supposed to be supportive and
positive but come on... This is getting
ridiculous. No, there is no possible way
you got her pregnant. Absolutely not a
chance!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 02-08-06 13:03pm
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No way in a million years!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 02-08-06 13:04pm
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Even if you did insert your fingers,there
is still no chance in hell. . .
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AmazingSteve
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Posted: 02-11-06 23:07pm
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Dude I have unprotected sex with my girl
and 45 mins later I do it again without
washing or nothing. She still isnt
pregnant and im putting it 8 inches deep
in her. Your fingers not being inserted
and touching the beer glass is going to
take the caca off anyway plus the
scratching of yer ass and whatever else
you did with your hands. There is a
absolutely 0% chance. If not you can sue
me for lying to you or something :)
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Melissa_20
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54321
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Posted: 02-14-06 08:04am
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Okkkk!!
Anyone else got any more advice?
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 02-14-06 08:13am
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Dude,how much more advise do you need? I
think your a little crazy. You cannot get
her pregnant by jacking off! Good lord
you need some help!
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