Anxiety And Guilt And Relationship Posted: 01-11-06 15:07pm
I am currently going through a very bad
patch....
Just before christmas I cheated on my
girlfriend in a club when I was very
drunk. It was around the time when I new
that I was not myself, and other people
had begun to notice that I was not myself
for a month or so before this happened.
Anyways, in the club, I pulled and touched
the girl down there, but did not finger
her. I was paranoid that I got her
pregnant as I had masturbated before I
went out in the evening.
I told my girlfrriend, that I love very
much, that I pulled another girl, and she
has forgiven me and also knows that I have
not been my usual self and this is
comletely out of my character.
I am now in a great state of guilt and
cannot forgive myself for ever hurting my
girlfriend. I no that everytime I look at
her I think of what I have done to her
etc. Im afraid I have battered our
relationship, even though I did not want
to, to a point that is unrepairable.
I believe I have a level of anxietym not
only with this event but with other
events, and I also suffer from a low level
of ocd.
Can someone please give me some advice as
to what I can do to overcome my guilt and
try and forgive myself of this event so I
am able to continue with my life and my
relationship.
Thanks,
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54321
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2006 Posts: 26
Posted: 01-11-06 17:44pm
Anybody????? :?: :?
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kittengirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2006 Posts: 10
Posted: 01-11-06 18:05pm
Hey someone just suggested me to http://www.Emofree.Com/ for my
anxiety. Haven't tried it yet, but am
going to. I advise you to give it a try
for your guilt..Doesn't hurt.
