9 weeks is a very long time to not have your period for, and it very well could be stress. Pregnancy tests are usually pretty acurate. I think you should go to the doctors to get tested there. Even if your not pregnant you should see your doctor because its been so long not getting your period that it could be a completley different problem.

I know I was stressed once about being preg.. And once my doc confirmed I wasnt, I got my period that nite

I think you should see a doctor and don't trust home tests. My friend thought she was prego and took a test it said she wasn't. I went with her and her boy friend cause she wasnted to get put on bc she came out of the doctors office and she was like I am 6 weeks preg. Also this other chick I know took like 3 tests and 2 said she was and 1 said she wasn't so she went to the doc b/c she though she was after the tests. Fund out that she wasn't. I don't really know if you should trusts them

Me and 2 of my children waiting patiently until 7 weeks to get positive pregnancy test. The blood test dr can do, is more accurate and sooner. Some women never pass the urine pregnancy test.

There are a number of things that can cause missed mensus also, including stress. So I think you should go to the dr for an examination. At the very least, they will findout if you are indeed pregnant.

Good luck

I'm kinda in the same boat...I don't know what to think.


I've missed two periods now. My hubby and I had sex the week or two before I was supposed to get a period. So then I had an extremely heavy one. We had sex once since then, and i've missed 2 periods since then too. I'm on birth control, and am very very faithful in taking it. When I missed my period the first time I tested twice and it was negative.

I told michelle1981 about this earlier. I also had the flu the week before/after (can't remember) that heavy period, and she mentioned that anitbiotics can mess with birth control. So I will test tomorrow and see what happens??? I have no symptoms of pregnancy, besides heartburn sometimes and upset stomach, and i've been drooling alot in my sleep (grossssss) I heard you have extra saliva when you are pregnant. But to me upset stomach and heartburn are things I get alot anyways so this might just be normal.

In my mind, pregnancy is out of the question, and I don't see why I really would be unless for some reason that .01% of a chance that the birth control didn't work is the reason. But I don't understand why I would be missing my periods though. Not even a drop of anything.

There are a lot of reasons why your period can be delayed, and pregnancy is not the only reason,although is very common. If you tested ( as the package says, better after the day your period was supossed to be)and is negative you might wait and perform another one, they tend to be very accurate. When my period gets delayed (sometimes happens and its normal) I get tested and they are negative and I get my period next month. There are fluctuating times in your cycle when you can have hormonal changes that can delay your period because you dont ovulate at all, stress, exercise,lack of sleep, life changes... So if you want to get pregnant try to know somehow how is your cycle and the best time to concieve is from 3 days prior ovulation day to like 3- 5 post ovulation. If you dont want to get pregnant use barrier methods (condoms) or UID or pills and be very strict with them, they only work if are used properly. The pill should be taken almost at the same time everyday and if you have problems remembering it, you can have a shot or use the patches. But important if you missed some of your pills use another contraceptive method like a condom because chances are high on becoming pregnant. good luck for the ones ho want to get pregnant and the ones that doesn't and dont get their periods. Anyway if you dont get pregnant in a while and you don't get your period, go to the doctor to check that everything is alright. There are treatments for both, and sometimes we can have something and dont know that with and aprropriate treatment cam be fixed.

its been 1 month couting since my last period and i might be pregnant but i dont have any systems. i think its stress but who knows. i have taken a pregno test like 3 weeks ago and it came up negative (taken 6) but havnt taken one yet since then. i dont think i am but if i dont get it next month then i might be. i dont know.

omg im really glad to know im not the only one going through this! The last time i got my period was oct 9th... its already nov 14th and no period! my period comes EXACTLY the same day EVERY month... i took 2 home tests but both came out negative! i dont have any preg syptoms but for some reason i think im pregnant! hope n pray iam! what else can i do to find out if iam or not?? help!!!

ok, so I am not the only one either, I must have taken like 12 tests, all neg, but I haven't had a period since september! I am going to the doc tomarrow I think cuase I just took another neg test. with one of my other kids this happened to but I finally had a positive test so I am soooo frustrated right now!!!!