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jane30
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My Boyfriends Comes Too Quick
Posted: 01-11-06 16:45pm
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Any tips for my chap.,.
Basically e cums too quick
please help
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Skav
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Posted: 01-12-06 07:11am
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Tell him to think about something
non-sexual during intercourse
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jane30
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Posted: 01-12-06 09:18am
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Ok will do thanks for the tip m8
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-14-06 22:41pm
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That's probably the easiest solution.
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-14-06 22:41pm
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Oh, and he might try masturbating prior to
sex, that really helps a lot of guys.
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sparkly
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Posted: 01-19-06 23:45pm
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During sex, while the guy penetrates his
penis inside her wife and thinks
"non-sexual" thought to prolong his
ejaculation... By any chance would the
guy lose his erection inside his wife's
vagina since he thinks a "non-sexual"
thought which is basically wouldn't make
his penis arouse and basically a turn-off
for his sexual desire?
Also please share some tips and ideas of a
"non-sexual" thought that proven to
prolong a guys ejaculation during sex?
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ryancwilson1
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Posted: 01-20-06 03:44am
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I think of coffee
works for hours :d
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danthadon
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Thinkin of Something
Posted: 01-20-06 21:19pm
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Just think of a real ugly guy or girl and
their b.O. Or football and apes works too
hehe.
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jenn_smithson
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Posted: 01-20-06 21:59pm
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In the female superior position (girl on
top), it usually takes men longer to reach
climax than if they are controlling the
rythm. You might want to try positions
where you are on top.
Condoms can also help to desensitize the
penis somewhat so that it takes longer for
him to reach climax. There are also some
durex condoms called performa which are
lubricated with a special formula to slow
down his physical arousal. You might
want to try them.
There are also some creams and special
lubricants that can also help. They will
be specifically labeled.
Other than that, a sex therapist may be
better able to suggest other techniques
that you both can use. Best of luck.
Peace,
jenn
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sparkly
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Posted: 01-20-06 23:31pm
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Can anyone answer my first question,
please...
During sex, while the guy penetrates and
starts thrusting gently back and forth his
penis inside her wife and thinks
"non-sexual" thought to prolong his
ejaculation... By any chance would the
guy lose his erection inside his wife's
vagina since he thinks a "non-sexual"
thought which is basically wouldn't make
his penis arouse and basically a turn-off
for his sexual desire?
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sparkly
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Posted: 01-21-06 00:26am
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My third question:
3. Is it possible that when a guy is
having sex with his wife and at same time
thinks a "non sexual" thought, could he
still maintain his erection while
thrusting gently his penis back and forth
inside her wife's vagina?
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cmilah
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Posted: 01-22-06 12:40pm
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Sparkly...
This is personally for me...But my mind
definitely < my body. I try to think
about something other than me boning the
hell out of my girlfriend, but 5 seconds
later i'm back to enjoying her naked below
me / atop me / beside me and I just get
back into it. I know im not like any
other man in the world, but I never have a
problem losing an erection. I get
erections incredibly easily and love it.
(i'm 19). Anyways...
As to your #3....I am able to maintain an
erection...But....I don't know, alot of
different guys have
problems....Me..Whenever I even see my g/f
I get an erection...Shrug.
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-22-06 13:11pm
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Yes, he can lose his erection, which is
why when using this method he must find
the point in between thinking sexual
thoughts and non-sexual thoughts that
works for him, so that he doesn't lose his
erection.
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sandyallen
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Posted: 01-22-06 14:17pm
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How about taking a short brake, more
foreplay on you or having it more often.
Good luck!
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ergit
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Yup
Posted: 01-22-06 19:24pm
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Emm, well my problem is that I cant seem
to ejaculate during sex.. By the end of
the 2 hour plus ordeal we'r both jus
tired.. But wat seems to work for a lot
of ppl is that when it feels like orgazm
is coming, pull out for a minute or two do
some making out and so on.. Then back to
it. Best of luck
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MClown69
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Posted: 01-24-06 22:55pm
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Get him drunk!!!! When I drink 6 beers or
more I can tear it up!!!!!!
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angel6932
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Totaly Understand
Posted: 01-25-06 15:50pm
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Ok I know what you are feeling but here is
my question we are trying condoms and he
still goes before me. I need help could
someone please answer me anyone. I have
tried everything
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MClown69
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Posted: 01-25-06 16:38pm
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Just try a new guy I guess? He sux
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angel6932
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Posted: 01-25-06 22:50pm
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cobrakid
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Posted: 01-29-06 22:24pm
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I am a virgin, but personally I think a
guy shouldnt focus away from the
intercourse during it. It is suppose to
be pleasurable. I watched a tv sex show
and it said when errect putting a wet face
cloth on the penis and flexing the muscles
in it regularly will make the muscles
stronger and in turn will not ejaculate so
soon. Good luck.
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