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Q: In Need of Some Major Advice
asked by: Mel2002 on January 12th, 2006
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Ok, I went and spent 2 weeks with my bf at the end of december and into the beginning of january. While I was there, we had unprotected sex twice and then I had a period. My periods usually last 6-7 days and this one only lasted 4 days. Then we continued to have unprotected sex but we used the "pull out" method. I'm not sure if he pulled out everytime before he ejaculated or not. I was just wandering what your opinions are on the chances that I have of being pregnant? My period started on december 31st and ended on january3rd. What do you think the chances are that I was ovulating at that point in time? The last day we had sex was on the 9th of january. When can I take a home pregnancy test? Please help in anyway that you can!! Thanks!
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~*~Jillian~*~
replied on January 12th, 2006
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There is a big chance of pregnancy...Because ovalulating usually is right after your period....Take a hpt 4-5 days before you next period...If neg and you dont have your period I would take another one...And if its neg and still no period I would see a doctor and get a blood test done...
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needhelpfast
replied on January 13th, 2006
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I Need Help Fast
I need help pls. I think my girlfrien may be pregnant. She is to weeks late and she has to urination a lot, but she still feels some simtoms of her period coming soon like cromp and some others. We didn't really have sex, we never have, she is a virgin just like me. We got in the mood and we ended up naked from the waist down and I didn't go in at all, may be .5 of and inch but I didnt go in her. I think if she is is because a little sperm comes out when a guy is doing something sexual, but I was even clening it every other few seconds. She is not in stress and she doesnt do sport... She was around her dad that had the flu about a week from being late, but I dont know. She doesn't want to take a test or anything and I really want to know. She is a great girl and really really smart and beautiful, she has a lot going for her and she could have a great career and a great future... I just dont want anything to happen to her. I need answers fast pls...
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needhelpfast
replied on January 13th, 2006
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I Need Help Fast
I need help pls. I think my girlfrien may be pregnant. She is to weeks late and she has to urination a lot, but she still feels some simtoms of her period coming soon like cromp and some others. We didn't really have sex, we never have, she is a virgin just like me. We got in the mood and we ended up naked from the waist down and I didn't go in at all, may be .5 of and inch but I didnt go in her. I think if she is is because a little sperm comes out when a guy is doing something sexual, but I was even clening it every other few seconds. She is not in stress and she doesnt do sport... She was around her dad that had the flu about a week from being late, but I dont know. She doesn't want to take a test or anything and I really want to know. She is a great girl and really really smart and beautiful, she has a lot going for her and she could have a great career and a great future... I just dont want anything to happen to her. I need answers fast pls...
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Mel2002
replied on January 13th, 2006
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I know that it can be scary but I think that she should take a home pregnancy test to make sure she isnt pregnant. If she is two weeks late then she should probably take a test. Even if you guys didnt have sex, it is still possible for her to get pregnant from what you guys did. I wouldnt stress about it to much because the chances are slim but since she hasnt had her period then I would talk to her about taking a test. I hope everything works out for both of you. I know what it feels like to be in this situation. Just relax and take a test. You'll feel much better when you find out for sure or not. Good luck!
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needhelpfast
replied on January 13th, 2006
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Thnaks, But?!?!
Thanks, but have you heard of this happening before...I read that it has but to girls with a lot of stress and she is not in a lot of stress (she told me). I guess I just want someone to tell me that it has happend to them, but if you look at it its really wierd... She has never mist a period (if she has maybe a day or 2), she never had to go to the bathroom as much, and right when we did that she started all this. But then I did some reserch and it says that her ovilation time was around the 17 and we did this around the 24-30 (don't remember because we did it like 4 different days, but around that time period) so she was a few days from her period and about a week away from her ovilation, abd she also sometimes feels cramps and other period simtoms, as if its coming soon. I just think to my self that it was to close to her period and to far away from her ovilation time and she satarted feeling this "pregnant simtoms" like going to the bathroom a lot about a week or so from doing what we did... Isn't that a little to soon to start feeling simtoms? She was around her dad with the flu, could that slow it down? Is there any chance she is skiping her period? And if she is isn't wierd that is right next to when we did what we did? I just need some answers. Thanks a lot
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Mel2002
replied on January 13th, 2006
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Well, it is sort of strange. I have been in a similar situation that she is in. I missed my period for about a week and I had to pee a lot and I took a test just to be sure and it came out negative. Even though she says that she isnt stressed, she may be feeling sressed on the inside and isnt conscience that she is stressed so that could be affecting her period. Many things can delay your period but most of the time it isnt delayed for two weeks. That is the part that makes me think that she should take one just to be sure. If she is takes a test and is definiely two weeks late, the pregnancy hormone (hcg) will show up in her urine. If it comes out negative, then she should probably see her doctor about it.
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Luvmypittbull
replied on January 13th, 2006
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Unprotected Sex
Even tho you are using the pull out method, there is always a chance of the pre semin getting into you also, I am 23 and have a 2 year old son. I had unprotected sex with my spouse for about 5 years now and never got pregnet. When I did get pregnet it was weird I had this feeling that I was and took a home pregnecy test it came back posotive. I went to the local planned parenthood and found out I was 2 weeks along. It is possible depending on what home test you use you can find out within 5 days or 3 months I have friends who took it and it came back negative but they really were. If your arent ready for a baby my best suggestions is use birth control or get the morning after pill, or make him use protection reguardless how much he doesnt like it
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sandyallen
replied on January 13th, 2006
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Hi there! Just a couple of quick notes. The pull out method is not safe due to the pre-cum. If you are peeing a lot and cramping or have pain you could also have a urinary tract infection. I am no Dr. But my suggestion is to get checked out by a dddr.
Good luck!
Keep us posted.
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lesliepei
replied on January 13th, 2006
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to Mel2002
I would definitely take a test to rule out pregnancy, but I would be pretty surprised if you were. Ovulation occurs 14 days .Before your next period starts. So....If you have a 28 day cycle, you would ovulate around day 14. I hope this helps.

Leslie
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needhelpfast
replied on January 13th, 2006
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I Dont Know What to Think Anymore
She dosnt want to take the test and she is really about 9 to 12 days late, but she crys and I feel so bad, and she sees it all in a negative way saying that she is pregnant and that shes not a virgin anymore even when I didnt go in and that what ever it is she diserves it for doing this horible thing... And she keeps on saying that she is in no stress but there are a lot of things going on right now and it could all be sebconshesly** (sorry im spanish and dont know how to spell that good..Shes american thugh) but all that is going on is that he is about 9 to 12 days late or maybe even less, and she doesnt do sport and havent been stress till 2 days ago, she goes to the bathroom a lot and she has never been late before... It would just help if someone here has had this same thing happen to them...
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Luvmypittbull
replied on January 13th, 2006
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Dont sweat its called nerves if she doesnt want to take it then im sure she knows she isnt, any girl I know who thinks she is is going to to know or not pregnacy isnt something to put off
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needhelpfast
replied on January 14th, 2006
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Yeah But!
Yeah she doesnt want to take the test because she doesnt want to admit that she is in this situation... She still doesnt want to believe that something like this is happening to her. Anyone pls read 2 comments up and see if you can help me. Thanks.
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needhelpfast
replied on January 14th, 2006
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One Question
My girl frien felt like she was going to have her period about the time she was due... But it never happend.... Do girls feel that when they are pregnant??? Is it normal, like she is pregnant or could there be something els going on??
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Sunflower_pie81
replied on January 19th, 2006
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Anything can make your body change and have a late period. When I first started having sex mine would be late a few times. That is why I always used protection. (key word protection)

i got pregnant 2 days after my period stopped. I know this because my husband is on a ship and he went out to sea the next day. So there is a way that she might be preggers a few days after her period.

However if she is really pregnant maybe you need to calm down and let her figure it out for herself because it seems that you may be one of the reason for her stress.

Just my thoughts
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