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Super Nova

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My Girlfriend Wants to Do Me...
Posted: 01-15-06 11:13am

Hello all. I have a girlfriend who I had sex with a number of times. I have done anal with her and now she wants to take a strap-on and put me at the receiveing end. I have thought about about this in past and I am not to sure about it because I am afraid it might hurt.

The question is should I or should I not? And if I should how should I go about it?
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Tamadrummer

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Posted: 01-15-06 11:33am

I guess if you are bi-sexual or have the tendencies of being bi without actually wanting to have a real one in you.

Personally I would run far and fast but I also dont want to put an innie into the outtie! No thanks but it is your life.
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cd998776

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Posted: 01-15-06 16:10pm

This is a personal decision that really needs to be made between her and you. Everyone's preferences are different. While i'm neither gonna support it or denounce it, it can be very pleasurable for men, but others don't like the idea of it. Once again, it's completely a personal decision that you need to make. If you do decide to do it, just be sure to use plenty of lube... ;)
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Super Nova

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Posted: 01-15-06 17:53pm

cd998776 wrote:
it can be very pleasurable for men


i did some resreach and I read it is in fact way more pleasurable for guys than for girls.
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ergit

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Posted: 01-16-06 11:18am

Run my son.. Run!!
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Dark_Allies

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Posted: 01-16-06 11:32am

Yeah, lots of lube and make her promise to go slow ... Real slow, so if you become uncomfortable, you can tell her to stop. I have no experience with anal sex, so I do not know the details of any of it, even though I am going to at least try it. I am afraid of embarrasing noises more than pain, though. I mean, what is so sexy about anal sex if there is gas? Hahahahaha
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roflzor6666

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants to Do Me...
Posted: 01-16-06 13:15pm

super nova wrote:
and now she wants to take a strap-on and put me at the receiveing end


haha, owned!
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cd998776

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Posted: 01-16-06 15:18pm

super nova wrote:
cd998776 wrote:
it can be very pleasurable for men


i did some resreach and I read it is in fact way more pleasurable for guys than for girls.

because of the prostate... ;)
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ryancwilson1

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Posted: 01-20-06 03:52am

what are you thinking.Tell her to keep that crazy thing away from you
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cd998776

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Posted: 01-22-06 13:01pm

To each their own...
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~*~Jillian~*~

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Posted: 01-22-06 22:02pm

This is hilarious...Why dont you just break up with her and go get you a guy..Because if you are thinking about it ...Why not do it the right way..Hahaha
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vega785

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Posted: 01-26-06 18:40pm

I say dont do it ! Like others have said run, run your ass off !
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ergit

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Posted: 01-27-06 23:57pm

~*~jillian~*~ wrote:
this is hilarious...Why dont you just break up with her and go get you a guy..Because if you are thinking about it ...Why not do it the right way..Hahaha


hahahahhahahahahhahahaha.. Good one..
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ian_cana

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Posted: 01-28-06 00:08am

Well, my oppinion on the matter is that once you as a guy have been penetrated... Then you loose alot of dignity. Now, this gf, if she wants to strap somthing on and stick it in somthing, then try your luck with a 3 way with another chick, let her screw this other girl.
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viper1234

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Posted: 01-30-06 12:45pm

Hey man its okay! Alot of guys like it anal and its normal and im not just sayin that me and my gf do that everyonce in a while. And it only hurts the first time just tell her to go very slow after the first time it wont hurt at all and will be very injoyable, and its not degrading these other people are stating there opinion. I have done it most likely they havnt. And u dont have to be homo to like it anal that has absolutely nothing to do with it. If you dont have any sexual want for a guy and have no urges your not homo you have to have an attraction for the male body. I have absolutly no thought of the male body and I like it anal by my gf and its been stated several times and very safe and enjoyable by many health and sex therapists that it is completly normal! I hope this helps
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viper1234

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Posted: 01-30-06 12:51pm

Also there is nothing funny in health forums. This is no comedy site
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Anarchy

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Posted: 02-02-06 08:35am

Dont worry boss, much to my suprise my girlfriend has gained a facination of putting things up there convinced it will work exactly like american pie 2......Eep
maybee one day....
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ergit

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Posted: 02-03-06 00:28am

viper1234 wrote:
also there is nothing funny in health forums. This is no comedy site


yes it is!
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viper1234

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Posted: 02-03-06 00:35am

Ergit u need help! Cause ur a human
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ergit

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Posted: 02-04-06 00:35am

viper1234 wrote:
ergit u need help! Cause ur a human


good job, u jus made ur self look retarded. How does calling me gay help ur situation. Its ignorant people like u that ruin america.
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