Do ever think will suicide be the answer?
I feel im cursed everyone who becomes
close to me either self harms and trys to
kill themselves. I feel so guilty all the
time. I feel like if I was dead then
everyone else will be happy. Having to
watch your friends and their families to
deal with their failed suicides and
knowing that it is all your fault. I put
on a front to try and protect people but
it doesnt work. No body is safe around
me.
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catswold
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Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 404 Location: Flint, Michigan
Posted: 01-15-06 12:52pm
No, suicide is never the answer. I do
not know your circumstances but even if
the little you wrote is true, if you kill
yourself, the people you think you have
hurt will be devastated. They are at
vulnerable stages right now in their lives
and would have a very difficult time
coping with your suicide.
If you don't mind me giving you just a
little suggestion - why don't you instead
concentrate on helping your family and
friends. If that means helping yourself
by going to a doctor, do it. You have no
idea how good it will make them feel if
they see you trying to better yourself.
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fatfamily02
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 01-15-06 12:57pm
.N.O suicide is never the answer. .God
bless you.
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cut-alone92
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Joined: 21 Jan 2006 Posts: 17 Location: Kansas
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Posted: 01-22-06 00:40am
Suicide isn't the answer.Killing yourself
is never the answer because that would be
hurting the people around you and think
about everything you'd miss out on if you
killed yourself.You'd never have children
or get married or anything like
that.Suicide is really final and you can't
have second thoughts because thats it.
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totxmacher
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2006 Posts: 1
Posted: 02-10-06 15:49pm
Don't feel guilty. It's not your fault.
Your friends and family obviously have
serious issues that they are having a
difficult time dealing with. Issues far
more serious than anything you've done, or
not done. If you want to help, try
talking to them. Find out what those
issues are and try to help them deal with
them. Find them professional help if
necessary.
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Naixius
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 16 Location: Universe
Posted: 02-18-06 06:58am
No!!!
Please dont do it...I belive that when we
suicide ourself, our spirit will not be
able to reincarnation. Some time there is
spirit around us because they(spirit)
couldnt reincarnation. Their life as a
spirit was too hard because they will stay
in the earth forever. So they will
disturb human who was lack of confidence.
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pixma
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: NSW Australia
Posted: 02-18-06 07:18am
Why people feel that they are better off
dead has got me stuffed.
You feel that you are doing your loved
ones a favour by killing yourself???????No
f*cken way!!! It would do the
opposite!!
I too have depression, comes and goes now
and then and will admitt the thoughts have
entered my mind but..........I have been
able to control it on my own with no
medication. Trust me when I say this, if
I can get through my darkest hours anyone
can. I'm not a selfish person and thats
excatly how I feel when people take there
own life.....Selfish!!May sound harsh but
thats how I feel!!
Suicide is not the answer, get that idea
out of your head. Bringing sadness and
hardship to your loved ones will not make
them happy!!!
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THUNDER_TOAD
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Posts: 3 Location: P2.Forumforfree.Com/shag.Html
Posted: 02-22-06 08:27am
Hey dude
some one real wise once told me (and I
quote)...
"suicide is a permanent solution to a
temporary problem."
.......Right
basically if you kill yourself now you do
not knowwhat else happeneds in your life
i doubt that all other peoples problems
are your fault
maybe you are just looking for some one to
blame for their unhappyness when really it
is no ones fault
some times fate can eb a health forum
and you just got to live with it
and maybe your friends scuicides failed
for a reason?
People are not meant to die
death just happends
everyone is here for a reason
i am not sure how religious you are but
they are
and the fact that your firends are still
here is a good thing
because 99.999999999% of the time things
get better
and they will for you
you just got to keep on pushing and hope
for the best
do not let bad luck trick you into
thinking it is your fault
all you can do is try and be there for
when people need you
and for god sakes do not run with
scisors!! :mrgreen:
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sophira
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Posts: 37 Location: MN, USA
Posted: 02-23-06 17:18pm
It will also help if you can stop blaming
yourself for the problems of those you
care about. I find it very hard to
believe that one person could be
responsible for the depression and
attempted suicides of others. Look more
closely at their situations: you will find
that they have other problems in their
lives that drive them to react this way,
that they should deal with. If a high
percentage of your friends are exhibiting
this kind of behavior, it's far more
likely that you simply feel more
comfortable around people who are more
like you (that is, feel depressed). Maybe
you relate to them better, so you build
friendships. And then they act on their
depression, and you feel like it's your
fault. (why would it be, even? Even if
you talk about suicide with your friends,
it's not going to make them do it.)
i've been in this boat before. When I was
16, my boyfriend cheated on me and I broke
up with him. He attempted suicide, and I
felt like it was my fault and got back
together. We broke up again, of course,
because he cheated again (duh). Years
later, I find out from a friend that he
killed himself (this was a good 4 years
after I dumped him). Why? Because his
fiance at the time wouldn't stay home with
him and wanted to go out with friends.
See? Not my fault. It was a pattern
behavior, and he was depressed. He had
his own problems, and he reacted to them.
It had nothing to do with me, and nothing
to do with his fiance at the time of his
death.
The best thing for you to do is find a
good therapist--even a good
(non-depressed) friend who will listen and
be there for you. Removing yourself from
the world is not ever an endeavour to help
others--it's always an attempt to run away
from your own problems. It doesn't work.
That is, maybe you'll "get away from your
problems" but...You'd basically be passing
them down to the people you care about.
Do you really want that for them?
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KaiserBasara
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2005 Posts: 22
Posted: 02-26-06 13:47pm
Well, suicides usually fail, and the
person is worse off afterwards. (they are
injured afterwards.)
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w0rldd0minat0r
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 02-27-06 09:03am
Its true suicide can u make u feel even
more of a failure
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stefanie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 33
Posted: 03-01-06 14:52pm
Suicide is never the answer to anything.
Killing yourself is a poor way to get out
of life. Think of everyone around you and
what kind of legacy you will leave
behind?
My aunt killed herself and it didin't
solve anything leaving my whole family
devestated beyone repair.
Please talk to your doctor or a therapist
even call a hotline there are other ways
of dealing with stress and problems no
matter how big without killing yourself.
I will keep you in my prayers if you ever
need to talk please pm
