What's Happened to My Mojo?! Posted: 01-18-06 10:21am
Got a severe case of the mr.Floppy going
on at the moment! Had this problem on
& off for about 4 years now (i'm 32
now by the way). Never really saw it as
a problem though. I always put it down
to one thing or another (to tired, to
pissed, to stoned, not in the mood, girl
not doing it for me etc) & usually
things would sort themselves out in the
end. Doesn't seem to be working out like
that now though.
Recently i've been seeing a girl who I
fancy the pants off! She's very sexual
& we've talked about it quite openly
since we met & hit it off. But when
it came to the crunch ............
Nothing! I got a good erection for about
2 minutes from just kissing &
touching. But when we tried to do other
things that was the end of that! So
frustrating because inside i'm seriously
screaming for this girl yet on the outside
this obviously isn't coming across!!
We've spoke about it & she's cool with
it but is encouraging me to deal with it.
I obviously want to deal with it as well
as she's not going to stay around forever
waiting for me to do the business
(frankly, I don't blame her!). Booked
an appointment to see my gp next week but
thought it would be good to share my
problem on here as well. As they say,
you can't deal with a problem until you
face up to it.
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-22-06 12:44pm
How often do you masturbate? What's your
diet like? Do you exercise? Are you on
any medication? Are you under any stress?
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ED209
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 8 Location: UK
Posted: 01-22-06 12:54pm
cd998776
wrote:
how often do you
masturbate?
every day usually :d
Quote:
what's your diet
like?
could be better but i've always kept the
junk to a minimum. I try to eat well to
maximise the benefit of going to the gym.
Not much point training hard once/twice a
week & then stuffing yourself with
crap! Been drinking a lot for the last 6
months or so. I'm trying to cut that
right back.
Quote:
do you
exercise?
i go to the gym once or twice a week.
Used to cycle a fair bit (not enough to be
saddle sore though!). Need to get back
out on the bike again. Went out
yesterday for a 45 minute ride. Felt it
afterwards so i'm not in as good shape as
I used to be.
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are you on any
medication?
i used to be on beta blockers following a
nightmare time in thailand as a result of
a magic mushrrom trip that went badly
wrong! But i've not been taking those
for over 2 years now! I did read they
can cause problems but back then I was
still having sex
Quote:
are you under any
stress?
only because I can't do the business in
the sack. Other than that I guess i'm
under no more stress than the average
person should reasonably expect to deal
with.
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cd998776
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Posted: 01-22-06 13:25pm
I think it's probably a combination of
everything you've mentioned. The
medication can take a long time to work
its way completely out of your system;
daily exercise always seems to help a lot;
maybe try cutting back masturbation to 2-4
times a week and see if that helps; the
alcohol is going to have a major effect;
and worry about the problem is only going
to make it worse.
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ED209
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 8 Location: UK
Posted: 01-22-06 13:48pm
cd998776
wrote:
and worry about the problem
is only going to make it
worse.
tell me about it. I've thought about it
in just about every sexual encounter for
the last 4 or 5 years!! It's getting
silly now that's why i'm of to the docs on
the morrow. No drinking this week
either. I'll have an orange juice in the
pub instead of my usuall pint I think (i
go to the pub monday & tuesday with
mates from college). The drinking is
definitely getting a bit much. I'll try
& exercise more as well. Maybe when
I get the urge to knock one out i'll go
for a run instead? Trouble is the girl
i've been seing has got me all worked up!
Every time I think about her I get horny!
We're very open with each other about
sex which is why I feel so bad that i've
not been able to do the business in bed.
We've spoke about the problem & i've
told her i'm off to the docs. She's been
very understanding & good about things
but we both want each toher pretty bad.
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ED209
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 8 Location: UK
Posted: 01-27-06 08:24am
Well I had my bloodt test & i've had
the results back. The only thing they
were concerned about was that my white
blood cell count was 'slightly low'. I
only spoke to the receptionist & i've
not heard from my gp what it's all about.
caca myself when looking on the net
though - a low white blood cell count
could be all sorts of things from bone
marrow disease to hiv! :( i've got to
have another blood test to re-check white
blood cell count in just over a weeks
time. Fingers crossed! Suddenly my mojo
problem has gone out the window!!
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