Why Is Sex So Important!?! Posted: 01-18-06 12:27pm
Ok, my question for all you couples, or
married husbands and wives, etc. Why is
sex so important. In many cases, if sex
is taken out of a relationship,
frustration kicks in, and many marriages
or relationships will end in a divorce
because of it. I have heard it's not
important or leads to divorces but it
does. I learned in a psychology class,
sex is a primary need of humans. And if
sex weren't so important, why are there so
many shows tryin to help ppl in struggling
relationships with their sex lives?
..Many times couples are too tired, or
work different schedules (day and
night).And it frustrates them because they
aren't having sex. My question, as stated
earlier, to all of you is, why is sex so
important!? Thanks!
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 01-19-06 02:44am
I think sex is important for couples
because it shows togeatherness. But when
people work differnt sceduals and dont
have time I dont think that what makes
them get devorced or break up I think it
is because they loose touch with eachother
because they never see eachother and get
to spend time alone.
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katie2020
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Why Is Sex So Important? Posted: 01-22-06 17:23pm
Sex keeps couples together. Sex keeps
their relationships growing. They need
kids to help their lives grow sometimes.
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czarg
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It Is God-inplanted. Posted: 01-23-06 13:45pm
Sex is a desire plante by od himself. It
is the blood of any marriage. You cannot
understand it that is why the bible calls
the relationship between a man and a woman
a mystery.
Without sex marriages will collapse. Even
if we leave procreation silent.
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forcegx7
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Posted: 04-26-06 08:39am
It's very important because it's a direct
reflection of the deeper connections
(emotional, spiritual, mental) that
couples have or should have. If the sex
is bad than typically it's because couples
lack a deep enough emotional connection.
Having difficult work schedules can be a
cause. That's when you should reevaluate
your lives & think about what's really
important. The money, the job, or the
time for relationship or family? Work
together to find a better balance then you
can refocus on getting that deep
connection back which in turn will enhance
your sex lives.
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Spirit
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Posted: 04-26-06 21:47pm
Sex isn't important, it's an extra
like..... A chocolate bar or cheesecake
or when your favourite team scores a
point....It's not the end of the world
when you don't get it....But it's great
when you do.
Love keeps couples together.......Love
helps relationships grow. :)
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forcegx7
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Posted: 04-27-06 09:20am
Typically if one feels that having sex or
having a good sex life is unimportant,
than chances are you haven't experienced
having good sex.
If that's the case then you need to
backtrack on your relationship & work
on establishing a deeper emotional
connection
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Posted: 04-27-06 11:02am
oh_mommy
wrote:
i think sex is important for
couples because it shows togeatherness.
But when people work differnt sceduals and
dont have time I dont think that what
makes them get devorced or break up I
think it is because they loose touch with
eachother because they never see eachother
and get to spend time
alone.
i agree widt oh mommy sex just shows the
couples flames and sparks and widt the
divorce thing shes got the right idea its
usually becuz they start loosing each
others touch n never seeing each other or
else they just plan dont feel the same way
about each other nemore
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Spirit
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Posted: 04-28-06 08:27am
forcegx7
wrote:
typically if one feels that
having sex or having a good sex life is
unimportant, than chances are you haven't
experienced having good sex.
If that's the case then you need to
backtrack on your relationship & work
on establishing a deeper emotional
connection
speak for yourself hon.....Day off today
so going to the hotel for what we call
"marathon sex". And I know what i'm doing
for the weekend.....Me thinks I know what
your doing too??!? Try this......
.....Close your eyes and pretend your
rolling dice.....Get the picture. :)
there's more to life then getting some,
and if your a well rounded person, have
other interests and can hold a decent
conversation just sex is available to
everyone.....On the other hand if your
boring and have limited interests, perhaps
it's in everyones interests if you remain
single. :)
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Agree!! Posted: 05-01-06 18:17pm
Sorry but I totally agree with sprit sex
isnt important but when u do get it its
supposed to be great. Sex does not keep a
relationship together love does, so to
answer ur question from my side no sex is
not important being in a loving and caring
relationship is.
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forcegx7
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Posted: 05-02-06 07:10am
Right & spirit seem to get defensive
to my comments & I think you guys are
missing what i'm trying to say. If the
loving & the caring isn't really there
or as sincere as it should be, than more
than likely your sex life with one another
will suffer & not be as good because
of that. Sex life is a reflection of
that. Every aspect of the relationship
is as equally as important as the
other...The emotional, the mental, the
spiritual, & the physical connections.
If one suffers or lacks sincerity, the
others do as well. You can have sex with
someone that you're just physically
attracted to & say it was fun, but it
doesn't come close to the intensity &
passion of having sex with someone that
you share all those deep connections with.
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Posted: 05-03-06 02:18am
forcegx7
wrote:
if the sex is bad than
typically it's because couples lack a deep
enough emotional connection.
.
i disagree, I have an emotional connection
with my boyfriend but that doesn't
necessarily mean we have a great sex life.
Alot of things contribute to not so good
sex, one partner may have a low sex drive
due to stress at work, a condition or
medication. The female may not be able to
achieve orgasm due to similiar reasons to
the low sex drive. I achieve intimacy
even just through sleeping naked with
eachother, holding eachother when you just
need a hug, or sharing something that you
hold special with your partner. We both
have a deep attraction to eachother but
the sex isn't the primary action that's
going to decide whether we are the special
'ones' for eachother.
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