Need Advice For Dating When Being a Single Mum. Posted: 01-22-06 06:38am
Hey all,
iam 24 and iam a single mother of a 7
month old. Iam scared about dating again
as I don't want to start a relationship
and have it end in a few years, as this
wouldn't be fair on my daughter if I had
to keep meeting new guys, this would just
mess with her head and thats what I don't
want, but I also want to find a man and be
happy. Also her father lives interstate
and he is saying he wants to come back and
be with us, he has said this before and
left us, so I can't trust what he says and
I don't want to be with him if he is going
to turn around and leave us again, but I
also want him to be apart of her life so
she knows who her father is, or would she
be better off not knowing. Can anyone
please give me some advice.
Thanxs
jess :roll:
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 01-27-06 00:19am
Well, first off... It's possible to have
a relationship with her father of the
platonic persuasion. You don't have to
be "together" for her to know who her
father is.
About dating, the last thing you want to
do is bring guys in and out of her life.
It's fine for you to date, but you never
introduce them to your child until you
know that there's somewhat of a future
there. You keep them as far away from
her as possible. Because as you said,
that's not good for her mental stability.
Share pictures and stories with the guys
you date, but do not share you daughter
until you've established a stable
relationship that has a future.
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Greta
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2006 Posts: 2 Location: New York
the Solution to Your Problem Posted: 08-12-06 03:56am
Hi jess,
read your post and I have the ulimate
solution to your problem.
You can use talk trust as a medium for you
to talk to another person and get to know
him better before going for a date. Its
help you to know him better before going
for a date and belive me you will not make
a mistake in chosing a right date for
you.
You have to just register in www.Talktrust.Com
and create a new id and they will give you
the extension number and that you can give
to any one for a talk and you can also
talk for free, the benefit is that you
will not have to give out your number to
him.
I have been using talktrust quite a bit,
and like it already. You can find them
on the web (just google for talktrust).
By the way, it seems you can also
host your own talk-show! If you know any
good speakers, lets get that going!
Happy raising your daughter!. If you need
to reach me, try:
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