Joined: 23 Jan 2006 Posts: 18 Location: Oxford, UK
Erectile Disfunction Posted: 01-23-06 10:29am
Hi everyone,
i'm knew to this forum, but have read a
lot of the posts doing the rounds on it,
and I really appreciate the way that
everyone has been so up front, honest and
sensitive about what are very personal
issues. I don't feel at all at ease
talking about my problems normally, but
here goes...
I have been having trouble with erectile
disfunction for about 4 years now. I am
only 23 years old. It began while I was
in a very long term relationship (6 years)
which finished about a year and a half
ago, and was initially just a glitch. I
went to see the doctor, he did some blood
tests, and assured me that everything was
in working order, and that evening I was
back in the game and having sex with my
girlfriend as though nothing had ever
happened.
When we broke up, I had another
relationship where the ed was not a
problem. Last summer, however, it reared
it's ugly head again. I was very down at
the time, and assumed it was a mental
condition, but I was pretty much unable to
get any serious kind of erection (even on
my own) for about 4 months. Needless to
say, I was so ashamed that this other girl
and I did not last.
I now have a new girlfriend, who I care
about very much, and with whom I am able
to be completely frank and open. From
the start (apart from the very first time
we ever made love) ed has plagued our
sexual relationship, and put a great deal
of pressure on us. We went through a
phase when we just hardly bothered trying
to have sex as it was so painfully
embarassing for me.
Before christmas I went to see my gp. He
told, as before, that it must be in my
mind, and has referred me to a specialist
psycho sexual counsellor. However, I was
not convinced. I am no longer depressed,
have largely regained my self esteem, and
so his profile of my ed being attached to
my state of mind did not seem to fit.
Since christmas, we have been able to have
sex almost every day. However, the
volume of my erection is still not what it
used to be, and it is rare for me to get
spontaneous erections without any touch,
and my morning glory is a semi hard-on if
i'm lucky...
I decided to read about the condition and
came across alan ritz' book. I have
since invested in huuge quantites of
supplements in the hope that they will
sort me out - still waiting for the
package to come!
I have ordered;
choline tablets (to be taken with soya
lecithin)
l-arginine/l-ornithine tablets
muti vitamin
b vitamin supplement
5 htp (to be replaced by whey protein
after some effect is noticed)
evening primrose
l-tyrosine
i have also been taking regularly;
ginseng, ginko biloba, and a chinese
formula containing cistanche
i have also got tinctures made from horny
goat's weed, lycium and schizander, and
siberian ginseng, as well as rhodolia
supplement (which I started taking only
today).
And have also ordered; bulgarian tribulus
terrestris, gaspari novedex testosterone
booster, gaba
does this sound right? Obviously, not
all of these things are to be taken every
day, but does anyone out there have any
experience of trying this kind of
combination? How were the effects?
Does anybody else who has had a similar
problem to the one i've described above
have any secrets they would care to share?
Does my problem ring any bells for
anyone?
Since christmas, I certainly feel like I
have my mojo, and my libido back, but I
really want to regain that extra volume in
my penis, and to be able to stop worrying
about erections once and for all...
Anyway, I would appreciate any help/
comments/ suggestions that anybody has for
me.