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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003
Posts: 133
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I Need Help
Posted: 12-27-03 13:09pm
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Oh girls, I am in a huge mess. I just
don’t know what to do. About a month ago
when austin and I started making love
again, the condom broke. I figured that
it would be fine because I thought my
cycle would be the same as it was before I
got pregnant with cheyenne. Since I
thought that was the case, the condom
broke during my least fertile time (i
thought) and I didn’t make a huge deal I
was like everything will be fine. Even
after I began getting nauseous, feeling
tired and hungry all the time about a week
ago I chalked it up to hormones and the
stress of christmas and my mom’s and
seana’s pregnancy. Yesterday after seana
updated you guys she mentioned that a few
of you girls thought I might be preg and
that she was thinking the same thing. I
shrugged it off. This morning the nausea
was really bad when I was talking to jen
and sami so seana gave me a test and told
me to take it. When I took the test it
was just to ease her mind, I didn’t think
I would get the results I did. How in the
world can I do this? I mean we are just
getting comfortable with the bills and
schedules and now this. I just don’t know
how I can do it. Man.. Any advice right
now would help…a lot!
Much love
-jessika-
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003
Posts: 745
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Posted: 12-27-03 13:25pm
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Jess!
I haven't talked to you in ages! So
wait, are you saying you took the hpt and
it came back positive? If you're preggo,
we'll be preggo together! I got a blood
test on monday and it was confirmed that
i'm carrying a little angel inside of me!
I'm ecstatic, but I have a feeling you're
not ready for another one, especially
being on your own with austin and chey.
Give me some more info so I can help you
out....Does your mom know what's going on?
If so what did she say? Are both you and
austin bringing in a steady income? I
hope I can help you out as much as I
can!
Let me know!
Much love,
vanessa
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003
Posts: 133
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Posted: 12-27-03 13:30pm
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Nessa your pregnant too? When did you
lose your virginity sweetie?? I am so
glad that you are happy! Yes both austin
and I are working and we make great money
its just I dunno I think I am being a big
baby, but I don't know if I can handle
another infant, ya know? So yes I am
pregnant again. Man does that sound
weird. Are you on yahoo right now maybe
we can talk?
Much love
-jess-
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003
Posts: 745
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Posted: 12-27-03 13:36pm
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Yea can you believe it? It's kinda weird
though, because I didn't get preg from
having sex technically...Or I should say I
didnt get preg from losing my
virginity...We were fooling around a
couple times and had "dry sex" without a
condom on and there was visible precum and
he had gone inside of me, just in the tip,
so obviously it was enough to get the job
done! I actually "lost it" christmas
night, it was such a romantic night, we
both told our parents and talked with them
for a while and we ended up spending the
night together, and thats when I gave it
to him....I dont regret a thing and can't
wait to be a mommy....I'm shocked that
you're pregnant again, but so happy for
you! I know you can do it, you can do
anything because you're such a strong
woman! Does austin know yet? I dont have
yahoo, but im on aol right now...I think
im just as nervous and scared as you are
right now so that would be cool to talk
about it together!
Much love,
vanessa
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 811
Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 12-27-03 15:06pm
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Jess! We havent heard from you in so
long! It'll be ok sweetie everything will
work out fine in the end. God never gives
you to anything you cant handle and your
strong we all know how strong you are you
held this place together for so long!! We
love you jess and we'll be behind you 100%
of the way!!!
Much love melissa, jake, chastity and
joshua
(lol im startin to feel bad for josh he
always gets put at the end lol)
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 12-27-03 15:08pm
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Oh my god jess! I knew u were gonna b
when seana sed u werent well! Im quite
shocked! How far gone r u? Plz tell me
ur not thinkin of having this little one
cos it seems that its so meant 2 b &
ur such a gr8 mommy
liz x
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003
Posts: 133
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Posted: 12-27-03 15:30pm
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Hey girls, sorry I haven't been on in
forever, I have missed you all sooo
terribly! Melissa you picked wonderful
names for your little angels! Liz, thanks
for the support and the kind words! I
would never have an abortion, I couldn't
live with the guilt of killing my child.
Austin doesn't know yet, only seana and
cheyenne! Lol I am telling him tonight.
I went to the store and got this shirt for
cheyenne that says I am gonna be a big
sister! Its about a million sizes too big
cause they smallest I saw was 2t lol. So
I put her in that and when austin gets
home I am gonna have dinner ready, really
romantic and then I am gonna have seana
bring chey in wearing it! Does that sound
like a good way to tell him? Ahhh I am
stilling shaking! Lol
much love
-jess-
how is everyone else doing? Any new
babies? Any new pregnancies other than
nessa's?(i am soooooooooo happy for you
sweetie!)
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 12-27-03 15:48pm
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Aww jess i'm so happy for you!!! No doubt
it will be difficult for some time but it
will be worth it honey, it really will.
How have you been doing?? How is
cheyenne?? Wow I wish I could get
pregnant as easy as you did! Lol well
please keep us updated and if you ever
need anything dont hesistate to call/email
me!
Love
tanya
p.S. I'm actually trying to have a baby
now so wish me luck!
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003
Posts: 133
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Posted: 12-27-03 15:55pm
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Hey tanya! I have been doing pretty well!
Cheyenne is doing wonderfully too! She
is getting so big and beautiful!  i'll
tell ya what sweetie, how about you take
all my fertility for the next 6 years?
 I will keep my
fingers crossed that you get a little
bundle of joy! You deserve it!
Much love
-jessika-
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Jessika
Posted: 12-27-03 16:20pm
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I say congrats with all honesty, but I do
understand how you could be a little
scared. I don't understand, why didn't
you get on bc right after chey? Well,
jess, I know you and austin can do it.
You both will be wonderful parents to chey
and to this new baby too. Please, please
keep us posted. Did you get my message I
left on your answering machine a few weeks
back?
Love,
chanda
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003
Posts: 133
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Posted: 12-27-03 16:23pm
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Hey chanda, I didn't get on b/c right away
because I was breastfeeding chey and still
am. Thanks for being so sweet and giving
me so much support! I didn't get a
message, was it before or after I moved?
Much love
-jess-
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 12-27-03 16:25pm
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003
Posts: 133
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 12-27-03 16:37pm
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003
Posts: 133
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Posted: 12-27-03 16:39pm
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Yahoo froze and won't let me back on! I
have to run out to the store, maybe we can
talk more later?
Much love
-jessika-
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Jess
Posted: 12-27-03 16:43pm
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Hey, well nikki and I wanted to see if we
can have your house addy to send gifts for
x-mas. Just pm me and I swear not to let
it go any furthur. Or try to call me
love,
chanda
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 12-27-03 17:36pm
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Jess-u r fantastic girl! Im so happy that
ur gonna have 2 little uns so close in
age!! I was 4months old when my mom gt
pregnant again with my sister & she
did gr8.I know the circumstances r kinda
different (!) but this baby is so meant 2
b 4 u so go 4 it-ur gonna have such a
lovely little family!! Thats such a gr8
idea 4 telling austin-i bet he'll b
delighted!
Plz get back on here as soon as possbile 2
let us know
god bless
liz x
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003
Posts: 811
Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 12-28-03 11:06am
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What is ur problem girl?  jess is a
wonderful mother!
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Yazmine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2003
Posts: 156
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Jess!!!
Posted: 12-28-03 15:43pm
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Girl we missed u!!!
I know ur a lil scared bout being pregnant
again but ur such a strong woman I know u
can make it.....We all belive in u all u
have 2 do is belive in ur self...U r such
an inspiration 2 young pregnant woman and
teens...Keep us all updated!!!
Luv
yaz
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